Give me tips on HOW to slow down my relationship.. we are going way too fast.

[yobarman]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy

Originally posted by: luvly
Okay, let's get this straight: You've been torturing the forum with your girl troubles and how difficult it was to find an Armenian chick. Finally you get one or come close to it. What happens next? You come back to us crying for help to stop you from lacking control?

Don't worry, Vanessa is in control. She knows how to handle it since you can't handle it. She makes the call whether you like it or not.

Now, go do sit down and stop getting too anxious!

It wasnt I who got it on hot and heavy.. it was her.. its her who is lacking control. just because I am a penis trotting guy doesnt mean that I am the one doing things. She is in control of this relationship. I dont mind that but I think we are moving a bit too fast. Come on its not yet been a week, by my clock it will be a week in an hour and 25 minutes from now (midnight) - though actually week will be 13:45hrs tommorow.

I think I am more in shock and disbelief than anything else. I am also very tired.. We talked about slowing down but I cant seem to think of ways of slowing down.. maybe you guys can give me ideas. Keeping it at this rate would mean by next week the relationship could be well over .. because we would be baseing it on sex and physical activity rather than intellectual activity.

right. you don't want ass, and she wears the pants in the family?

what kind of bitch ass mothafuckin man are you!?

 

[OS]

I'll have zero sympathy for you if you ever bitch again that you can't get any. :Q

 

[Yossarian]

how to slow down? think about baseball.

 

[katka]

Keeping it at this rate would mean by next week the relationship could be well over .. because we would be baseing it on sex and physical activity rather than intellectual activity.

ROTFLMAO

I don't recall having a One Weeker either, but if you want intellectual activity go to the library for your dates. That will make it really slow being that you are in public view and can only whisper and all.

 

[Soybomb]

Keeping it at this rate would mean by next week the relationship could be well over .. because we would be baseing it on sex and physical activity rather than intellectual activity.

Not necessarily, if there's something more there you'll keep on just like if you hadn't been having sex. You're giving sex was too much importance here. Its not like its rationed or determines the length of the relationship. You've tried relationships the slow way before, if you're both into each other why not give this one a fair try. If it doesn't work out, its a lesson learned, but you might be surprised that you can carry on a relationship while having sex too.

one week anniversary? you're making me sick

 

[melly]

Originally posted by: yobarman

what kind of bitch ass mothafuckin man are you!?

bwahahahaha

 

[AreaCode707]

Talk to her about it and tell her you'd feel more comfortable moving slower. Then don't put yourself in roller coaster lines (eg, don't put yourself in situations where things happen fast.)

 

[The Stigenator]

Originally posted by: Hatari Chic
Talk to her about it and tell her you'd feel more comfortable moving slower. Then don't put yourself in roller coaster lines (eg, don't put yourself in situations where things happen fast.)

i did, we talked about it tonite.. and she agreed that we should slow down but I am out of ideas on how to..

we basically shoudlnt be in a private area by our selves .. that should help a lot.

 

[Mookow]

Originally posted by: joshsquall
I want to never hear this again from a guy.

Josh

Based on the evidence in this thread, I think the_good_guy is more likely to be the_good_girl. Sorry to TGG if he is a he, but I'm playing the percentages here...

 

[Zebo]

?

 

[pillage2001]

100 threads about guys complaining about not getting enough......That's alright, we're all geeks

1 damn thread about a guy getting too much............WTF?

What's this world coming to???

 

[pulse8]

What's this world coming to???

Apparently, nothing.

 

[AreaCode707]

Originally posted by: The_good_guy

i did, we talked about it tonite.. and she agreed that we should slow down but I am out of ideas on how to..

we basically shoudlnt be in a private area by our selves .. that should help a lot.

Agree on boundaries. No heavy petting, for instance, or something of the like. Then stick to them. Don't be trying to get each other aroused, fun as that may be, because then stopping is hard.

 

[melly]

time to change your nick to "The_Bad_Boy"

 

[Skyclad1uhm1]

I was going to lock this but decided
you don't deserve that mercy.

AnandTech Moderator

MUAHAHAHAHAHA!

 

[Dragoon42]

just tell her flat out your gay, then go find another guy who doesn't want to get any from a girl either

 

[Ns1]

 

[djheater]

Originally posted by: Funny Mod


I was going to lock this but decided
you don't deserve that mercy.

AnandTech Moderator

BEST MOD QUOTE EVAR

 

[Dragoon42]

Things tonite were hot and heavy with clothing missing. Neither of us wanted to go there but it just happened.

right. you don't want ass, and she wears the pants in the family?

dude she's not sucking on your nipples is she?

 

[hzl eyed grl]

Originally posted by: Mookow

Originally posted by: joshsquall
I want to never hear this again from a guy.

Josh

Based on the evidence in this thread, I think the_good_guy is more likely to be the_good_girl. Sorry to TGG if he is a he, but I'm playing the percentages here...

I've met TGG in person twice so I know he's a guy.

Manjul - This may sound mean...and I don't mean it to be, but...... After all this time about you complaining that you have no woman, you're a virgin, you wish you weren't...yadda yadda.... When it's finally here, you're complaining that you have a woman and she wants to go fast and she wants sex. Be honest...if you were with her and she wasn't putting out, you would be complaining that she didn't put out.

If you want to slow down, slow down. Doesn't matter if she's 'putting the moves on you' or not. You're also an adult and can control yourself. Yes, I know that it's a hard thing to do but trust me, it CAN be done. Otherwise....just relax and enjoy the relationship. I think you put WAAAAAAAAAAAY too much emphasis on sex. A relationship is a lot besides sex. Just take a breath, step back, and enjoy the ride. (No pun intended.)

 

[d33pt]

Please stick to posting about motorcycles

 

[tantos]

This is almost laughable....but I pity him dearly.

You want to SLOW down? how about staying in front of the computer and talking to her through IM..then you wouldn't need
to worry about Mr Happy going cave exploring anytime soon

 

[BatmanNate]

Hah hah, you got pwned by the mod. If you're so concerned about keeping your willy at bay, just picture Janet Reno and Madeline Albright getting it on when things get out of hand.

 

[DanTMWTMP]

hehe some of these dudes never had a relationship so they're thinking ur gay or something for thinking this way....everyone has their own pace....and it does feel unconfortable if u go too fast...u get hot and heavy one night...the next day, everything becomes very wierd......cuz usually a lot of poeple like to get hot and heavy after they've know each other really well.....depends on people i guess...

 

[FrontlineWarrior]

just ask her if you can put your beer on her head while she's doing her thang. any self-respecting woman would dump you on the spot. problem solved.