Elemental: Get to know her before making your own suggestions. If you want, what other people say will probably have an effect with you because you're still in high school right? What your peers think do matter to you, and if they think she's a slut you'll think that while talking to her whether you like it or not.
After you get to know her well, then decide for yourself if you're going to ask her out. I never understood the point of asking somebody out that you don't even know (based upon pure looks or what others say). At the very least, just become friends with her and get to know her better.
GTaudiophile: I'm only 18, you're 21 . . . the average life span is what, 75 for males? You still have 50 years ahead of you, and the average age to get married is around 28 I think. You still have a lot of time in front of you. It sucks being single doesn't it? Especially when you're working full-time. When you're younger you still have your family to fill in those voids, but when you're on your own only a girl can fill in your emotional holes. All I can say is good luck . . .
Isla: Reading some of the posts that other people put up makes me so depressed at how uncultured our society really is today. Chase the panties, sleep around as much as possible, ideas like these are promoted today whether we like it or not. Under the protection of internet anonymity, we slowly find the true personalities of certain individuals. It's dangerously surprising how many perverts, sexists, or racists pop up just because people don't know where they live or work.
Also, why is sex valued so much? Orgasms are merely just another physical high of a different manner than doing drugs. Any relationship based upon physical appearances / sex will never last. These aspects can diminish over time.
I'm not saying that you can't have great sex when you're older, but that relationships should be based upon emotional attraction and intamcy rather than peer evaluation or other physical attributes. Intamcy is NOT sex. Many people talk about physical intamcy, but emotional intamcy is a much stronger bond.
Bah, I have a bad habit of repeating myself. I oughta just copy and paste for related posts.
After you get to know her well, then decide for yourself if you're going to ask her out. I never understood the point of asking somebody out that you don't even know (based upon pure looks or what others say). At the very least, just become friends with her and get to know her better.
GTaudiophile: I'm only 18, you're 21 . . . the average life span is what, 75 for males? You still have 50 years ahead of you, and the average age to get married is around 28 I think. You still have a lot of time in front of you. It sucks being single doesn't it? Especially when you're working full-time. When you're younger you still have your family to fill in those voids, but when you're on your own only a girl can fill in your emotional holes. All I can say is good luck . . .
Isla: Reading some of the posts that other people put up makes me so depressed at how uncultured our society really is today. Chase the panties, sleep around as much as possible, ideas like these are promoted today whether we like it or not. Under the protection of internet anonymity, we slowly find the true personalities of certain individuals. It's dangerously surprising how many perverts, sexists, or racists pop up just because people don't know where they live or work.
Also, why is sex valued so much? Orgasms are merely just another physical high of a different manner than doing drugs. Any relationship based upon physical appearances / sex will never last. These aspects can diminish over time.
I'm not saying that you can't have great sex when you're older, but that relationships should be based upon emotional attraction and intamcy rather than peer evaluation or other physical attributes. Intamcy is NOT sex. Many people talk about physical intamcy, but emotional intamcy is a much stronger bond.
Bah, I have a bad habit of repeating myself. I oughta just copy and paste for related posts.
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