Girls suck :(

[beer]

I was talking to a (female) friend tonight about whether or not I should call this girl I met at school. When I revealed her name, my friend was speechless.
The girl that I am thinking about hooking up with used to be one of her best friends. They went to the same church. That is, before she got a rep of being a flirt and getting around faster than a DJs turntable....

Of course I had never KNOWN this before because I went to different 9-10th grade schools than she did and with a student body of 1800 over two grades (11,12) you can meet new people all the time that you haven't heard anything about.

*sigh*
Why is it so hard to find girls that aren't slutty? The last two girls I dated turned out to be complete hoes who dropped their panties so fast even Vallaha1 would be surprised (..sorry couldn't resist...) Now I'm actually TRYING to find something more than physical and it's not happening. WTF. I remember when it used to be THE OPPOSITE just a year ago.

 

[GoldenBear]

DP

 

[GoldenBear]

<< Girls suck >>

InDEED they do.

But yeah, as you said in a school of 1800, you're bound to find so many different girls out there..you'll eventually find the right one. A nice guy like you will undoubtedly find one.

 

[guyver01]

<< Girls suck >>

only if your lucky

 

[Bluga]

hmm, since when girls don't suck?

 

[yakko]

<< Girls suck >>

Thank god.

 

[beer]

lol @ the responses

Now I'm trying to find one that won't require any effort to get sucking. In other words I'm actually NOT trying to get some as a priority.

That sounds so weird coming from me.

(well let me rephrase that - I want some just in a relationship with a nice, intelligent, sweet, beautiful, athletic girl)

 

[Passions]

How do you know your friend didn't lie to you only to steal your heart away from the supposed slut?
Did you see this for yourself? Don't judge her solely on someone else's word. Peace out.

 

[virusag13]

<< Girls suck >>

Especially the ones you date.


JK. I am having the same problem here in college. You think it would be easy, but it isn't! I found one and I am kinda seeing her, but she is a total yuppie, and I am not fond of that.

I want some just in a relationship with a nice, intelligent, sweet, beautiful, athletic girl that is also a middle class worker!

 

[beer]

Bobby -

You have a point. But I heard similar things from one of her exboyfriends that plays on my team. He told me that she puts out, he just didn't say how much, nor did he specifically call her a slut. I didn't want to ask for fear of the answer.

Now I know. Damn.

 

[bonk102]

i'm having the same problem here at my school, i go to a very small college, and it seems like every time you find a girl who you start to like, you find out one, two, three, maybe more of your friends hooked up with her, read the thread i just posted, (i'll link it up in a sec, my other thread

that ties into this discussion

 

[Mday]

<< Girls suck :[/b]( >>



YOU WISH ;-)

....

anyway, eh, sh!t happens

 

[pillage2001]

Damn......looks like everyone is having the same problem here? Well, all I can say is that, try looking harder and I'm sure that she will come by.

Elemental007, why not go for one night stands for the mean time? hehe..

 

[Wuming]

sigh! that's one fact of life we have to accept.

 

[bonk102]

Nice thought pillage, but last time i tried that, it backfired on me too, the girl i liked was at the same bar i was with a different girl at, i'd advise picking and choosing carefully so as not to screw up as royally as myself...

just some friendly words of wisdom

 

[GoldenBear]

My God everyone, does that same statement have to be reiterated a million times?

I'm looking at you Mday.

 

[troglodytis]

elemental...it still seems like you are going off what OTHERS say....talk to her. let her know what you want out of a relationship. if she wants the same, then great! if not, move on.


why does it matter if she has had sex in the past? if you don't want sex now and she is cool with not having sex while dating you, isn't that what ya need?

and remember, just b/c she has had sex doesn't mean she is a slut, nor does it mean she HAS to have sex.

 

[Mday]

GoldenBear, eh, sh!t happens

 

[joohang]

GIRLS ARE EVIL!

 

[Missus]

<<<Why is it so hard to find girls that aren't slutty? >>>

I thought that was every hormonal teenager's dream...

Aparently you haven't heard of QUEEN...

Fat Bottom Girls

By the way... Do you take that girl's word for it or say fvck them all and give the girl a chance??? I mean... What is a rep? The opinion of others??? How lame is that??



Geez I must be getting old...

 

[eakers]

perhaps you shouldnt judge by rumors.
maybe they had a falling out and your friend is upset and doesnt want you &quot;her friend&quot; to be with someone she doesnt particualrily like.

grow up.

*kat. <-- tired at 8:49am

 

[Zapster]

In the era that I was dating cute cheerleader babes, your right, their panties would drop faster than a checkered flag. For a while this is fun, but after a while it makes you start to wonder at night. Anyway, I started looking for some women with substance. What I found was that ugly or fat women do not drop their panties fast. (They couldn't get their hand around to do this quickly anyway). They can usually hold a much better conversation. Have not slept around (not because they didn't want to, but because they couldn't), and will try to stick to a man (usually because of the sticky jelly they dropped during breakfast). Men don't have to worry about their girlfriend cheating while they are at work (who would want to cheat with Bertha), and if the man should stay out all night or longer, these women are much more forgiving (they realize nobody else will have them). Take it from me: Get yourself a fat or ugly woman (preferably not both) and break them in anyway you want.

 

[Isla]

Zapster, you need a spanking now. You know that isn't true, and it was a horribly cruel thing to say, besides being totally wrong.

Elemental, one of the reasons I fell for Mr Isla is that because, unlike every other guy on the planet, he was NOT trying to get into my pants. He wanted to save himself for marriage.

I found him to be a refreshing change after years of being chased around by horny bastards with only one thing on their minds. It seemed the less willing I was to 'drop my panties' the more the guys wanted me. Pigs. I saw how my friends who did sleep with their boyfriends got treated. When someone 'hotter' came around, they inevitably got dumped. So, there they were, having given something very precious... only to be exchanged for something 'new'. And yes, they ended up being labeled as 'sluts' which was totally unfair.

Like attracts Like. If you hang out with people who want to be respected and respect themselves (including sexually) you will find girls who are less 'slutty'. Unfortunately, there is a culture of sex as entertainment/sport among people that encourages lack of respect. Try not to contribute to it and eventually you will find what you are looking for.

PS... I agree with Eakers. This girl may be totally innocent! Kids are cruel, vicious, and mean. She may have done nothing to deserve that 'reputation'.

 

[Emulex]

dude your in high school, chase the panties, go to college, chase more panties, get a good taste for whats out there, figure out what makes you happy, graduate, get a job, and meet a WOMAN.

I spose if in your town its normal to get married right out of high school and have babies, thats cool. But for the rest of the world, you should wait till you're out of college and have the means to support a family. Live a little.

 

[GTaudiophile]

Girls don't suck. They're just better than us guys, and it moves us to tears when they don't even notice us. Nice guys always lose, IMO. I'm an intelligent, hard-working, decent-looking, healthy, relatively fit, Christian, young guy. At 21, I've already worked for two of the largest airlines in the world and have many travel benefits. Forget going to the movies, I could take a girl to Paris or Florence for the weekend! Has any of that helped me? No. I am invisible, and that hurts.