My gf and i have been "breaking" since sunday night when we were first going to break up, especially with her going away to school two hours away in a couple of weeks. BUT...we decided to "break" in spite of the great times we had when we were together. She said we were moving too fast, so here i am now. Anyways, a new girl's at work...and she asked me if i wanted to go out tomorrow night and get some dinner. She's extremely attractive (NO PICS YET!!!!), so i naturally said yes. I made no mention of my *gf* or whatever the hell she is right now b/c i didn't see it to be important.
Soo...I called up my *gf* and asked how she was seeing as i hadn't talked to her yesterday. After the small talk, i flat out asked the rules of this "break" thing so i knew which boundaries not to cross as i valued what we had/have. She asked what i wanted, but i put it back on her and made her say whatever. She told me that she thinks it should be a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. So...i told her i was going out this weekend with the new girl and she immediately told me that she's been seeing somebody too. It hasn't even been a week that we've been split up and she's supposedly already seeing somebody? I know i'd be a hypocrite seeing as i'm doing the same thing, but i at least had the decency to let her know, be it her business or not. I'm not sure if she said that as some way of protecting herself, but it kinda hurt knowing that she got over me so quickly. She probably knew what she was doing by saying that, but she's going up to her apartment (two hours away up @ school) for the weekend to "catch up with old friends". Before we decided to break, she was telling me how much she was going to dread going back up to Western and that she felt like dropping out b/c of things that happened there. Is she playing games with me or was she cheating on me and fvcking with my head? I think i'm gonna break it off tonight, b/c if you remember the Friends epsiode where Ross banged some other chick while he and Rachel were on a break, she never let him hear the end of it. I don't want that and quite frankly, not sure how much i value my *gf's* friendship anymore...
help.
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Soo...I called up my *gf* and asked how she was seeing as i hadn't talked to her yesterday. After the small talk, i flat out asked the rules of this "break" thing so i knew which boundaries not to cross as i valued what we had/have. She asked what i wanted, but i put it back on her and made her say whatever. She told me that she thinks it should be a "don't ask, don't tell" policy. So...i told her i was going out this weekend with the new girl and she immediately told me that she's been seeing somebody too. It hasn't even been a week that we've been split up and she's supposedly already seeing somebody? I know i'd be a hypocrite seeing as i'm doing the same thing, but i at least had the decency to let her know, be it her business or not. I'm not sure if she said that as some way of protecting herself, but it kinda hurt knowing that she got over me so quickly. She probably knew what she was doing by saying that, but she's going up to her apartment (two hours away up @ school) for the weekend to "catch up with old friends". Before we decided to break, she was telling me how much she was going to dread going back up to Western and that she felt like dropping out b/c of things that happened there. Is she playing games with me or was she cheating on me and fvcking with my head? I think i'm gonna break it off tonight, b/c if you remember the Friends epsiode where Ross banged some other chick while he and Rachel were on a break, she never let him hear the end of it. I don't want that and quite frankly, not sure how much i value my *gf's* friendship anymore...
help.
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