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rchiu

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Actually rchiu Cyclo is right (at least about fundamental laws. whether or not our morality comes into section 110B of the patent code is debateable) The law protecting our beliefs comes from our shared morality that free expression is important. That's all laws are.

Well, we can start another debate on what law should or shouldn't be. But if you agree with Cyclo, then I guess you'd probably have no problem with some of the Muslim laws that's based on what they consider morally right.
 

Harvey

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
I believe it should be a non-governmental institution. If a non-religious group wants to marry people, that's fine I suppose. I just don't see why the government should be involved.
The only reason government should be involved is because there are laws regarding specific legal rights, privileges, obligations and restrictions associated with marriage. Those laws cover such major issues as defining who has legal power of attorney to speak on behalf of an incapacitated spouse, visitation rights for a spouse who is ill, financial and social responsiblities for children within a family, whether related by blood or adoption, and some limits defining marriage, such as limiting marriage to be a contract between only two people.

I believe the government has a right and a duty to define what constitutes a marriage between two people, but it should be neutral regarding which people should be allowed to enter into a marriage.
 

DealMonkey

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Originally posted by: Harvey
Originally posted by: CycloWizard
I believe it should be a non-governmental institution. If a non-religious group wants to marry people, that's fine I suppose. I just don't see why the government should be involved.
The only reason government should be involved is because there are laws regarding specific legal rights, privileges, obligations and restrictions associated with marriage. Those laws cover such major issues as defining who has legal power of attorney to speak on behalf of an incapacitated spouse, visitation rights for a spouse who is ill, financial and social responsiblities for children within a family, whether related by blood or adoption, and some limits defining marriage, such as limiting marriage to be a contract between only two people.

I believe the government has a right and a duty to define what constitutes a marriage between two people, but it should be neutral regarding which people should be allowed to enter into a marriage.

No kidding, what an indefensible position Cyclo has built for himself. Let's see ... who else can we not grant equal rights to? Hmmmm, CW? Are there any other groups besides gays you'd like to keep in the civil rights dark ages? How about women?

Other than granting equal rights to all people as our constitution demands, the government should have nothing to do with this topic.
 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: rchiu
Originally posted by: eskimospy
Actually rchiu Cyclo is right (at least about fundamental laws. whether or not our morality comes into section 110B of the patent code is debateable) The law protecting our beliefs comes from our shared morality that free expression is important. That's all laws are.

Well, we can start another debate on what law should or shouldn't be. But if you agree with Cyclo, then I guess you'd probably have no problem with some of the Muslim laws that's based on what they consider morally right.

I didn't say anything about whether or not I liked certain laws... just that morality is where everyone's laws come from. (or what they think is morality). Even though some people might be basing their laws off of morality that is stupid and medieval, it's still what they're basing it on.
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: rchiu
Nope, the law is there to protect people's right, not to extend what people consider "moral". You can have your beliefs, so as the gay people. Both rights are protected under law. But Law is not there to serve your belief, extend your belief and force your belief upon others.
The law in this country does not impart ANY rights. Everything in this country is allowed unless explicitly forbidden. Things are explicitly forbidden by passing laws against them. Thus, everyone could have their own morality and do wtf ever they want if we had no laws. Obviously this would usher in an era of unrivaled chaos. So, we agree what our communal 'morality' will be and pass laws to make it so.
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: DealMonkey
I would venture to say that while calling someone's behavior "immoral" isn't the same as hating that person, it's hardly a tolerant position to take. By claiming someone is behaving immorally, you are passing judgment and declaring them to be in violating of an even higher law than our country's legal system. As some religious extremists would insist, God's law trumps our earthly legal system. Again, not exactly a tolerant position. Now keeping in mind that a bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of opinions, lifestyles, or identities differing from his or her own, and all semantic wrangling by CW aside, General Pace is most certainly a bigot as is anyone who passes judgment in a similar manner. End of story. You may not like being labeled a bigot, but as they say ... if the shoe fits wear it.
That person is saying what he/she thinks about a given action. You are saying what you think about their action. Does that make you intolerant? After all, you're judging him the same way you claim he judged gay people with his statement. If I am intolerant for stating my positions, then I am intolerant and will happily bear that title. Hell, if that makes me a bigot, then I'm a bigot. The problem with you is that you want to be able to say whatever you want, but the moment someone else does likewise, you want to label them an intolerant bigot. Pot, meet the kettle.
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: Harvey
The only reason government should be involved is because there are laws regarding specific legal rights, privileges, obligations and restrictions associated with marriage. Those laws cover such major issues as defining who has legal power of attorney to speak on behalf of an incapacitated spouse, visitation rights for a spouse who is ill, financial and social responsiblities for children within a family, whether related by blood or adoption, and some limits defining marriage, such as limiting marriage to be a contract between only two people.
I'm a single guy - why should I not have these same rights? Isn't this discrimination against single people? The answer is that all of these things exist outside of marriage. There are ways to give someone power of attorney outside of marriage. People have kids outside of marriage all the time. What happens then? Does the whole system break down?
I believe the government has a right and a duty to define what constitutes a marriage between two people, but it should be neutral regarding which people should be allowed to enter into a marriage.
Incest is best, sez I! :confused:
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: DealMonkey
No kidding, what an indefensible position Cyclo has built for himself. Let's see ... who else can we not grant equal rights to? Hmmmm, CW? Are there any other groups besides gays you'd like to keep in the civil rights dark ages? How about women?

Other than granting equal rights to all people as our constitution demands, the government should have nothing to do with this topic.
How would my proposal keep gays from having the same rights as a heterosexual person? I know it's hard, but you might find it a rewarding experience to think before typing such thoughtless garbage.
 

Harvey

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
I'm a single guy - why should I not have these same rights? Isn't this discrimination against single people? The answer is that all of these things exist outside of marriage. There are ways to give someone power of attorney outside of marriage.
Not necessarily, and not automatically. The laws regarding legal rights of people incapcitated by illness, including legal representation and even simple visitation, vary all over the place among various jurisdictions. A spouse is automatically assumed to have such rights and privileges, but they don't exist for committed couples, straight or gay, without a written power of attorney, and in some jurisdictions, that power is not even allowed for gay couples.
People have kids outside of marriage all the time.

What happens then? Does the whole system break down?
Yep. The same problems and conflicts arise when it comes to deciding who is responsible for the best interests of those children of unwed parents. Those problems are worse for the children of gay couples in jurisdictions that don't allow the other partner to legally adopt a child of his or her partner, and they're worse, yet, when individual cases are determined by government officials, courts and juries who may be influenced by their own prejudices.
Incest is best, sez I! :confused:
If your reasoning ability is the result of incest, you are the poster child against it. :laugh:
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: Harvey
Not necessarily, and not automatically. The laws regarding legal rights of people incapcitated by illness, including legal representation and even simple visitation, vary all over the place among various jurisdictions. A spouse is automatically assumed to have such rights and privileges, but they don't exist for committed couples, straight or gay, without a written power of attorney, and in some jurisdictions, that power is not even allowed for gay couples.
Then I am also being discriminated against for being single. What if I am incapacitated? Same thing applies. But, I have the ability to appoint anyone that I choose to have power of attorney for healthcare, or any other power of attorney. Thus, this isn't really an argument for allowing gay marriage: it's just an excuse for lazy bastards who don't want to do the necessary paperwork. Why not just make the boat the same for everyone and force straight couples to do the same thing?
Yep. The same problems and conflicts arise when it comes to deciding who is responsible for the best interests of those children of unwed parents. Those problems are worse for the children of gay couples in jurisdictions that don't allow the other partner to legally adopt a child of his or her partner, and they're worse, yet, when individual cases are determined by government officials, courts and juries who may be influenced by their own prejudices.
If marriage was taken out of the realm of state control, then what grounds would the state have for declaring someone your 'partner'? Simple - they wouldn't. All of these distinctions are simply fabricated based on the ridiculous system currently in place. That doesn't mean that they would remain once the existing system is gone.
 

DealMonkey

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
I would venture to say that while calling someone's behavior "immoral" isn't the same as hating that person, it's hardly a tolerant position to take. By claiming someone is behaving immorally, you are passing judgment and declaring them to be in violating of an even higher law than our country's legal system. As some religious extremists would insist, God's law trumps our earthly legal system. Again, not exactly a tolerant position. Now keeping in mind that a bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of opinions, lifestyles, or identities differing from his or her own, and all semantic wrangling by CW aside, General Pace is most certainly a bigot as is anyone who passes judgment in a similar manner. End of story. You may not like being labeled a bigot, but as they say ... if the shoe fits wear it.
That person is saying what he/she thinks about a given action. You are saying what you think about their action. Does that make you intolerant? After all, you're judging him the same way you claim he judged gay people with his statement. If I am intolerant for stating my positions, then I am intolerant and will happily bear that title. Hell, if that makes me a bigot, then I'm a bigot. The problem with you is that you want to be able to say whatever you want, but the moment someone else does likewise, you want to label them an intolerant bigot. Pot, meet the kettle.

Spin, spin, spin. That person is taking an intolerant position and passing judgment first, and I'm merely labeling his actions appropriately according to the very definition of the word. I passed no judgment on him, he is what he is.
 

DealMonkey

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
No kidding, what an indefensible position Cyclo has built for himself. Let's see ... who else can we not grant equal rights to? Hmmmm, CW? Are there any other groups besides gays you'd like to keep in the civil rights dark ages? How about women?

Other than granting equal rights to all people as our constitution demands, the government should have nothing to do with this topic.
How would my proposal keep gays from having the same rights as a heterosexual person? I know it's hard, but you might find it a rewarding experience to think before typing such thoughtless garbage.

I'm all in favor of all marriage being termed "civil union," all couples who form a civil union receiving the same rights and gov't staying out of it other than to treat all civil unions equally. That didn't seem like what you were proposing, however please re-calibrate me if I'm wrong. :eek:
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: DealMonkey
Spin, spin, spin. That person is taking an intolerant position and passing judgment first, and I'm merely labeling his actions appropriately according to the very definition of the word. I passed no judgment on him, he is what he is.
What you fail to realize is that he would make the exact same argument in his own defense.
 

DealMonkey

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
Spin, spin, spin. That person is taking an intolerant position and passing judgment first, and I'm merely labeling his actions appropriately according to the very definition of the word. I passed no judgment on him, he is what he is.
What you fail to realize is that he would make the exact same argument in his own defense.

"I think black people are immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

"You're a bigot."

"No! You're the bigot for not respecting my beliefs!"

[Hopefully, this illustrates how silly your argument really is.]
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: DealMonkey
I'm all in favor of all marriage being termed "civil union," all couples who form a civil union receiving the same rights and gov't staying out of it other than to treat all civil unions equally. That didn't seem like what you were proposing, however please re-calibrate me if I'm wrong. :eek:
You're right - that's not what I'm proposing. I'm proposing that civil unions and marriages are completely removed from government control. After all, they give rights to those who are 'married' or 'unionized' but not to single people, so it's just another form of discrimination. Why should someone have more rights than me just because they are in a civil union and I am not?
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: DealMonkey
"I think black people are immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

"You're a bigot."

"No! You're the bigot for not respecting my beliefs!"

[Hopefully, this illustrates how silly your argument really is.]
No, but that was at least a nice attempt at a strawman. In the context of your strawman, my argument might be construed as the following:

Gen. Pace: "I think black people killing other black people is immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

You: "You're a bigot."

Gen. Pace: "No, you misunderstood what I said. I said that the actions of murderous black people are immoral, not the black people themselves. How does that imply that I hate black people? :confused:"
 

DealMonkey

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So you're passing judgment on their lifestyle and you think that's not bigoted? Simply because you're focusing on the sex they have with each other, vs. the actual gay people themselves? Wow, I can see we're not getting anywhere on this issue. I'm sorry, but you can't act like a bigot and then invent some retarded "exemption" that you think gets you out of being a bigot.
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: DealMonkey
So you're passing judgment on their lifestyle and you think that's not bigoted? Simply because you're focusing on the sex they have with each other, vs. the actual gay people themselves? Wow, I can see we're not getting anywhere on this issue. I'm sorry, but you can't act like a bigot and then invent some retarded "exemption" that you think gets you out of being a bigot.
See, this is what I don't understand about you. I have yet to pass judgment on anyone or anything in this entire thread, yet now you're saying I'm bigoted. General Pace would probably break down in tears at the end of my previous example because of the failing of the public school system to teach you reading comprehension. :cookie:

edit: Let me know when you have figured out the difference between 'actions', 'lifestyles', and 'people'. Then we can resume this discussion.
 

DealMonkey

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
So you're passing judgment on their lifestyle and you think that's not bigoted? Simply because you're focusing on the sex they have with each other, vs. the actual gay people themselves? Wow, I can see we're not getting anywhere on this issue. I'm sorry, but you can't act like a bigot and then invent some retarded "exemption" that you think gets you out of being a bigot.
See, this is what I don't understand about you. I have yet to pass judgment on anyone or anything in this entire thread, yet now you're saying I'm bigoted. General Pace would probably break down in tears at the end of my previous example because of the failing of the public school system to teach you reading comprehension. :cookie:

edit: Let me know when you have figured out the difference between 'actions', 'lifestyles', and 'people'. Then we can resume this discussion.

When I say "you're passing judgment" I was referring to those who have done so, not you specifically. Sorry for the confusion. My point still stands by the way.
 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
"I think black people are immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

"You're a bigot."

"No! You're the bigot for not respecting my beliefs!"

[Hopefully, this illustrates how silly your argument really is.]
No, but that was at least a nice attempt at a strawman. In the context of your strawman, my argument might be construed as the following:

Gen. Pace: "I think black people killing other black people is immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

You: "You're a bigot."

Gen. Pace: "No, you misunderstood what I said. I said that the actions of murderous black people are immoral, not the black people themselves. How does that imply that I hate black people? :confused:"

That is not a fair comparison, you are comparing a rational choice (choosing to murder someone), against what is almost certainly a genetic attribute. People who are gay cannot separate themselves from their homosexuality any more then you can separate yourself from your heterosexuality. Black people are not genetically compelled to murder. (well, unless you're David Duke they aren't)
 

3chordcharlie

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Originally posted by: DealMonkey
"I think black people are immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

"You're a bigot."

"No! You're the bigot for not respecting my beliefs!"

[Hopefully, this illustrates how silly your argument really is.]
No, but that was at least a nice attempt at a strawman. In the context of your strawman, my argument might be construed as the following:

Gen. Pace: "I think black people killing other black people is immoral. They do immoral things and I don't approve."

You: "You're a bigot."

Gen. Pace: "No, you misunderstood what I said. I said that the actions of murderous black people are immoral, not the black people themselves. How does that imply that I hate black people? :confused:"

So when one soldier sticks it in another soldier's bum, this is analogous to killing him?

We can finally understand the gay problem in terms of crime, criminal, victim, and hopefully severe punishment - whoever is catching is a victim!
 

dahunan

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Maybe someday a Gay person has the chance to save his life and then kicks him in the face and walks away.. that is what he would want.. right?

This neanderthal is like #3 in charge or something.. isn't he.. and he is a homophobe who also thinks God likes the military
 

Harvey

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Originally posted by: iskim86
Originally posted by: postmortemIA
"I believe homosexual acts between two individuals are immoral and that we should not condone immoral acts," Pace said.

Brave soldier!
great for him.

what americans lack today is individuality. props for him

but...

what an idiot for saying it public.
The same could be said about you. :p
Originally posted by: dahunan
Maybe someday a Gay person has the chance to save his life and then kicks him in the face and walks away.. that is what he would want.. right?
QFT
This neanderthal is like #3 in charge or something.. isn't he.. and he is a homophobe who also thinks God likes the military
That neanderthal is like the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff.