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fskimospy

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard

Maybe you can point me in the direction of said evidence, since I've never seen anyone ever make such a claim.

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Maybe you can show me where anyone said that they hate homosexuality. I think the irrationality here is the constant strawmen put forth by others and now you in this thread.


Ok, replace "hate" with "think is wrong". Same argument applies. I can see no set of circumstances in which most rational people would think homosexuality is wrong.

As for morals being darwinian in origin here you go. Long story short on that book: He says that altruism and morality are evolutionary advantages of social animals. There are many many other people who say the same thing.


 

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Its good that the Country Finally is focusing on something important again like the "Gay" problem. Maybe now people will stop paying attention to all those pesky stories coming out in the news that take our focus off of real problems like queer folk
 

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Well I laugh at your notion that bigots deserve any sort of tolerance what-so-ever. Why exactly do they deserve respect? This is exactly like racists, it's exactly like nazis, it's exactly like fascist.
Did hitler deserve respect? Did the KKK deserve respect? Do bigots deserve respect?

No, no, NO.

Their point of views don't matter, they're not worth anyone's respect.

This situation pisses me off x10 too, because he's supposed to be in a high position of authority, and his job does not include "bigotry" as a job description. He is supposed to be IMPARTIAL.

 

ayabe

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
What's wrong with that example? My personal moral structure allows wanton killing. If there is no absolute moral code, then how can you tell me that I'm wrong? Simple answer - you can't. You want another example? My personal moral structure allows me to take whatever I want from whomever I please whenever I please. Therefore, you have no personal property rights in my moral code. However, my moral code also indicates that I do have personal property rights, so you cannot take my things from me. Notice a pattern? That's because it's the exact form of the relativist fallacy.

That doesn't make any sense sorry. Modern Western society doesn't accept wanton killing, I'm not saying that's wrong, but you are trying to put forth a blanket argument saying it's wrong for everyone. Well that ITSELF is incorrect, as there are societies where murder is completely justified, just not in our society. So, to say there is an over-arching moral foundation for all of humanity is....incorrect.

Societies are free to determine what is acceptable and what isn't and these use these foundations to build their society, to varying degrees of success. What is good for the goose isn't necessarily good for the gander, this is the point.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
You quoted me directly and put words in my mouth. There was nothing general at all about what you said. If you're going to call me a bigot, at least have the stones to man up to it.

Just because I quote someone doesn't mean every single thing in the post is directed at them. I don't need to man up, you need to stop crying. If you are a bigot that's your deal, I haven't made that determination. What I have decided however is that you possess a very narrow understanding of how human civilization has come to be and cannot grasp that humans are just highly evolved apes.

I have no problem calling anyone out on these boards and will do so as I see fit.

Yeah, and humans are trained the same way, there are sanctions for negative behavior. That's as clear as day, there is no other higher moral code. It's exactly the same. Human beings can and will be incredibly cruel if the threat of sanctions for negative behavior are not an issue. This is the foundation of society throughout our development. These foundations are ingrained in childhood. If you raise a child in the woods and never punish him for negative behavior he will have a different value set and will not know what the rules are.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
You think people cannot know right from wrong because you think there is no such thing as true right and wrong. I've already demonstrated how this position is founded on fallacy. Thus, given that right and wrong do exist, it is only our perception of them that is relative. I don't think it correct to say that we only do things because of the threat of punishment. I know that there are things that I do not do that I could get away with that I would consider wrong, whether it be smoking pot (something that is illegal) or skipping a day of work (not illegal, but still probably wrong).

The problem with that is that you wouldn't KNOW what was right and wrong unless you were taught, you can't seem to wrap your head around that idea. This all stems from your environment, sure if tomorrow all laws were erased, not everyone would start looting and raping and killing. You are a product of your society and this particular set of moral codes has been ingrained in you, you are already trained. It's a simple concept, you wouldn't know what is wrong unless you were taught. This is absolutely the case.

Many native american tribes had no concept of property until Europeans came along, so really you can't steal something that noone owns. So there's another example, "theft" as we would define it, was morally neutral to them, since there are no possessions.

So you are denying that different cultures have a different definition of right and wrong? This is very directly proves that there is no common definition of good and evil. Some African tribes practice genital mutilation, western society sees this as an immoral practice, but they sure don't. Who is to say ultimately what the real answer is? For their society this works and has worked probably for thousands of years.

If morality were very cut and dry and absolutist then all societies would possess the same moral code, this is obviously false.
 

CycloWizard

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Originally posted by: gardener
Have the stones to "man-up" to your personal beliefs, Cyclo.
Why? What bearing do my personal beliefs have on the discussion of this thread? They would add nothing and would be just another diversion that would allow you to avoid discussing the actual topic of this thread.
 

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Ok, replace "hate" with "think is wrong". Same argument applies. I can see no set of circumstances in which most rational people would think homosexuality is wrong.
Fine, then show me anywhere that someone has said homosexuality is wrong. This is NOT what Pace said. He said that homosexual actions are immoral, which is a horse of a different color.
As for morals being darwinian in origin here you go. Long story short on that book: He says that altruism and morality are evolutionary advantages of social animals. There are many many other people who say the same thing.
That's a fine theory, but it fails in predicting the data of lions killing their young. Lions are social animals. Killing their young would not be considered moral or altruistic by anyone I know. Despite these observations, it seems that the lion is pretty darn close to the top of the food chain. Instead, such killing has non-moral evolutionary benefits, which I believe is well understood (though I'm far from an expert in this field).
 

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Moral relativism is dangerous and destructive. What's right in the eyes of one person is wrong in the eyes of another. You might believe lying is wrong, but someone else thinks lying is ok. You might think killing people on a whim is wrong, but there are people out there who don't see it as wrong. You can't relegate morality to "nature", either - just because "animals do it", doesn't mean it's right for humans. That is what angers me about the whole "humans are animals" argument that I hear so often, which is complete garbage. What is natural isn't always what is right.

There has to be an absolute and unchanging basis for morality. There really is no freedom in a society where anything goes, and such a society is no society at all. You can call me intolerant if you want, because I am intolerant of immorality. I know how immorality can weaken and destroy individuals, families, and societies (I am not speaking about homosexuality alone). I don't hate homosexuals at all, but I do think that practicing homosexuality is wrong, and is against what God has says in His Word.


 

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Originally posted by: Evan Lieb
What's funny (in a sad way) here is that 50 or 60 years from now, asinine comments like these will be viewed the same as the hate speech perpetrated against blacks just 50-60 years ago. Just as many young Americans today look back in shock and disgust that public officials openly admitted to having prejudices against particular races, young Americans will look back at this dying breed of bigotry in similar disgust 50 to 60 years from. Hooray for progress.

I disagree. I do not think they are the same, and I don't predict that happening.
 

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"Don't ask, don't tell" just seems ludicrous when the army needs every troop it can get.

are heterosexual criminals, the stupid, and the elderly really better fit to serve in the army than a homosexual?
 

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Originally posted by: ayabe
What is moral or immoral depends entirely on the paradigm of the times you live in, there is no higher absolute moral code.

*cough* Unprovable Presupposition *cough*

That's OK, but one of is wrong, and neither of us can empirically prove the other wrong. The next step is respect. ;)
 

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Originally posted by: Crono
I don't hate homosexuals at all, but I do think that practicing homosexuality is wrong, and is against what God has says in His Word.
The sad part about your post is, "morality" of your religion is as relativistic as anything else. Religions have been used as a both platforms from which to teach tolerance of those with other values and as a pathetict excuse to foment hatred against those same others.

Homosexuality, per se, is sexual behavior and nothing more, and as with those with non-gays, some people are more open than others about showing their preferences. Some are aggresive predators, and most are not.

As long as someone is not forcing their preferences on anyone else or otherwise committing aggressive anti-social behavior, you may not like it, but the only reason you consider it "sinful" is because your preacher sold you that bill of goods.

Between peaceful homosexuality and dogmatic religion, I think the latter does far more damage to society.
 

fskimospy

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Fine, then show me anywhere that someone has said homosexuality is wrong. This is NOT what Pace said. He said that homosexual actions are immoral, which is a horse of a different color.

Well, Dictionary.com disagrees with you. (well, the synonym part does). Immoral and wrong are synonyms.

That's a fine theory, but it fails in predicting the data of lions killing their young. Lions are social animals. Killing their young would not be considered moral or altruistic by anyone I know. Despite these observations, it seems that the lion is pretty darn close to the top of the food chain. Instead, such killing has non-moral evolutionary benefits, which I believe is well understood (though I'm far from an expert in this field).

I think you're only proving my point further here. There is no reason why altruistic behavior must be the dominant behavior if other evolutionary benefits are greater at the time. (that's why people will steal from their friends/neighbors to stay alive, etc.) That in no way disproves altruism being darwinian in nature...it just shows that there are other considerations. The evidence for morality being evolutionary in nature is extremely powerful, especially in seeing the same "moral" behavior in animals that we think is handed down by either our superior intellect or whatever sky-beardo we worship. Anyways, it doesn't really matter to me if you agree with the theory or not. It is still a plausable theory put forth by significant numbers of very knowledgable people that has a large amount of observational evidence to support it. So, when you said you hadn't ever heard of that theory... well... there you go.

 

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Originally posted by: CycloWizard
What's wrong with that example? My personal moral structure allows wanton killing. If there is no absolute moral code, then how can you tell me that I'm wrong? Simple answer - you can't.

Concepts such as right and wrong don't even exist in an absolute sense because they are inherently relative. If you killed someone then you would be right by your own moral standards but wrong by our society's.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
You want another example? My personal moral structure allows me to take whatever I want from whomever I please whenever I please. Therefore, you have no personal property rights in my moral code.

And? Our society does not operate on your moral code.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
However, my moral code also indicates that I do have personal property rights, so you cannot take my things from me.

I can take things from you regardless of your moral code. If I stole something from you it may be immoral from your perspective, and probably from the perspective of many others, however it does not have to be immoral from my point of view.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
Thus, given that right and wrong do exist, it is only our perception of them that is relative.

Thats the entire point. You can't point to an action such as murder and say that it is wrong in an absolute sense. You can only say it is wrong once you assume a certain moral code. Its like saying something is big or small. Concepts like big and small are purely relative. A statement such as "the sun is big" in entirely meaningless in an absolute sense. It may be big relative to the earth, but it is certainly not big relative to the Milky Way.

Here's another example. Lets say I meet someone who knows nothing about airplanes and I tell them that Boeing 747s are big. Have they really gained any knowledge? Its big relative to what?
 

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Originally posted by: ayabe
Originally posted by: CycloWizard
What's wrong with that example? My personal moral structure allows wanton killing. If there is no absolute moral code, then how can you tell me that I'm wrong? Simple answer - you can't. You want another example? My personal moral structure allows me to take whatever I want from whomever I please whenever I please. Therefore, you have no personal property rights in my moral code. However, my moral code also indicates that I do have personal property rights, so you cannot take my things from me. Notice a pattern? That's because it's the exact form of the relativist fallacy.

That doesn't make any sense sorry. Modern Western society doesn't accept wanton killing, I'm not saying that's wrong, but you are trying to put forth a blanket argument saying it's wrong for everyone. Well that ITSELF is incorrect, as there are societies where murder is completely justified, just not in our society. So, to say there is an over-arching moral foundation for all of humanity is....incorrect.

Societies are free to determine what is acceptable and what isn't and these use these foundations to build their society, to varying degrees of success. What is good for the goose isn't necessarily good for the gander, this is the point.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
You quoted me directly and put words in my mouth. There was nothing general at all about what you said. If you're going to call me a bigot, at least have the stones to man up to it.

Just because I quote someone doesn't mean every single thing in the post is directed at them. I don't need to man up, you need to stop crying. If you are a bigot that's your deal, I haven't made that determination. What I have decided however is that you possess a very narrow understanding of how human civilization has come to be and cannot grasp that humans are just highly evolved apes.

I have no problem calling anyone out on these boards and will do so as I see fit.

Yeah, and humans are trained the same way, there are sanctions for negative behavior. That's as clear as day, there is no other higher moral code. It's exactly the same. Human beings can and will be incredibly cruel if the threat of sanctions for negative behavior are not an issue. This is the foundation of society throughout our development. These foundations are ingrained in childhood. If you raise a child in the woods and never punish him for negative behavior he will have a different value set and will not know what the rules are.

Originally posted by: CycloWizard
You think people cannot know right from wrong because you think there is no such thing as true right and wrong. I've already demonstrated how this position is founded on fallacy. Thus, given that right and wrong do exist, it is only our perception of them that is relative. I don't think it correct to say that we only do things because of the threat of punishment. I know that there are things that I do not do that I could get away with that I would consider wrong, whether it be smoking pot (something that is illegal) or skipping a day of work (not illegal, but still probably wrong).

The problem with that is that you wouldn't KNOW what was right and wrong unless you were taught, you can't seem to wrap your head around that idea. This all stems from your environment, sure if tomorrow all laws were erased, not everyone would start looting and raping and killing. You are a product of your society and this particular set of moral codes has been ingrained in you, you are already trained. It's a simple concept, you wouldn't know what is wrong unless you were taught. This is absolutely the case.

Many native american tribes had no concept of property until Europeans came along, so really you can't steal something that noone owns. So there's another example, "theft" as we would define it, was morally neutral to them, since there are no possessions.

So you are denying that different cultures have a different definition of right and wrong? This is very directly proves that there is no common definition of good and evil. Some African tribes practice genital mutilation, western society sees this as an immoral practice, but they sure don't. Who is to say ultimately what the real answer is? For their society this works and has worked probably for thousands of years.

If morality were very cut and dry and absolutist then all societies would possess the same moral code, this is obviously false.

Actually, Cyclo is right on as far as the topic of morality goes. If there is no absolute defining morality- if it is all subjective- there is no morality. It all becomes opinion. The idea that culture defines morality is circular: the majority of individuals making up the culture are the ones defining the culture and morality. If an individual within the culture has another idea about morality, is his idea wrong? No. How could it be? If you say his idea about morality is wrong (as it goes against the majority), you are saying that the majority , b/c they are the majority, have the right to force their morality on the individual, and have greater right to define morality even though they are just a bunch of individuals themselves. How is one individual less than 2 or more individuals? Somehow their opinions, b/c they make up the majority, are "right"? What it comes down to is force of power. The majority, or the most powerful individuals of the society, make up the rules b/c they are the most powerful. They make the law. Law is not morality. There is no morality unless it has an absolute base. So, if you want to talk about morality without an absolute, make sure you know that you are talking about the powerful squelching the less powerful, and nothing else.

Back on topic.. the General really should not have voiced his personal opinion unless he was ready to get a whole lot of flack. I see that he was not ready for the flack and so he backed down. That is pretty weak. I also think it really isn't appropriate for him to make statements like that as it undermines the stability of the institution. I also think Clinton's "don't ask don't tell" is an excellent idea as many heterosexuals are uncomfortable around homosexuals- that is life, get used to it- and this also undermines the stability and unity of the institution. It should also help to eliminate some harassment of homosexuals in the army.

I have a problem with anyone forcing their "morality" on me, be it a religious type or a liberal type (not that they are mutually exclusive). Issues of morality are never resolved through law or power. Bashing people over the head with your ideas of morality will not make a person more moral: at best it will just create "compliance" I believe this idea is best represented by the members here who continually insult the people who disagree with them. Nothing more than morality bullies.

That said, I think discussions of this nature can be fruitful if people can handle themselves maturely. However, it is doubtful that anyone will change anyone else's mind, but at least some sort of mutual understanding can be reached.
 

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Originally posted by: spittledip
Actually, Cyclo is right on as far as the topic of morality goes. If there is no absolute defining morality- if it is all subjective- there is no morality. It all becomes opinion.

Morals are opinions. Different people have different morals on which they base their actions.

Originally posted by: spittledip
If an individual within the culture has another idea about morality, is his idea wrong? No. How could it be? If you say his idea about morality is wrong (as it goes against the majority), you are saying that the majority , b/c they are the majority, have the right to force their morality on the individual, and have greater right to define morality even though they are just a bunch of individuals themselves. How is one individual less than 2 or more individuals? Somehow their opinions, b/c they make up the majority, are "right"?

The majority defines what is right and wrong within a society, however that does not make someone who disgrees them "wrong" in an absolute sense. They are only wrong relative to the morals defined by society.
 

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After being in the military I can assure you, there are more gays there per capita than anywhere else and you know what, Im fine with that. One of my best freinds is gay and hes one of the most hardcore soldiers ive ever met.
 

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Damn, who would have expected someone with the fortitude to become General to actually have an opinion and stand by them. He would never make a great politician.
 

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Originally posted by: Shivetya
Damn, who would have expected someone with the fortitude to become General to actually have an opinion and stand by them. He would never make a great politician.
As civilians, he serves us. If his opinions prove him to be a lame ass bigot, and he allows his bigotry to influence his decisions, he's unfit for senior command, and he should be fired.
 

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Originally posted by: Harvey
Originally posted by: Shivetya
Damn, who would have expected someone with the fortitude to become General to actually have an opinion and stand by them. He would never make a great politician.
As civilians, he serves us. If his opinions prove him to be a lame ass bigot, and he allows his bigotry to influence his decisions, he's unfit for senior command, and he should be fired.

Wikipedia:
"A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own."

If I think homosexual acts are immoral, am I a bigot? I don't hate any homosexuals...

I just want to know how many people think I am not entitled to that opinion, unless I want to carry the "bigot" title.
 

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Originally posted by: Trevelyan
Originally posted by: Harvey
Originally posted by: Shivetya
Damn, who would have expected someone with the fortitude to become General to actually have an opinion and stand by them. He would never make a great politician.
As civilians, he serves us. If his opinions prove him to be a lame ass bigot, and he allows his bigotry to influence his decisions, he's unfit for senior command, and he should be fired.

Wikipedia:
"A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own."

If I think homosexual acts are immoral, am I a bigot? I don't hate any homosexuals...

I just want to know how many people think I am not entitled to that opinion, unless I want to carry the "bigot" title.

Only a hypocrite would call you a bigot.
 

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Originally posted by: Trevelyan

Wikipedia:
"A bigot is a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from their own."
That's one definition. Here's another:
Bigot \Big"ot\, n. [F. bigot a bigot or hypocrite, a name once given to the Normans in France. Of unknown origin; possibly akin to Sp. bigote a whisker; hombre de bigote a man of spirit and vigor; cf. It. s-bigottire to terrify, to appall. Wedgwood and others maintain that bigot is from the same source as Beguine, Beghard.]
  1. A hypocrite; esp., a superstitious hypocrite. [Obs.]
  2. A person who regards his own faith and views in matters of religion as unquestionably right, and any belief or opinion opposed to or differing from them as unreasonable or wicked. In an extended sense, a person who is intolerant of opinions which conflict with his own, as in politics or morals; one obstinately and blindly devoted to his own church, party, belief, or opinion.
Skipping the obsolete first definition, if, in his capacity as Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, Gen. Pace allows his personal religious belief that homosexuality is "immoral" to influence his actions or to insult, denigrate or diminish the human value of any of our troops, at a minimum, he stands to have a considerable negative effect on the morale and cohesiveness of our troops.

He's entitled to his own beliefs. He should not be entitled to allow his bigotry to harm the service he commands or to diminish his own effectiveness as a command officer.
If I think homosexual acts are immoral, am I a bigot?
Yep, but if you keep it to yourself and allow others their own freedom of choice, you're a private bigot, and you can always open your mind to learning better.
I don't hate any homosexuals...
Ask a crowd of gay folks how much difference they see between publically calling them out as immoral and hatred. :roll:
I just want to know how many people think I am not entitled to that opinion, unless I want to carry the "bigot" title.
More than you've acknowleged, so far.
 

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Three things: First the whole "if you're against bigots, then you're a bigot" argument is lame.

Second, this has nothing to do with if you are entitled to an opinion, it just means that your opinions are bigoted. So... someone who carries bigoted opinions is by definition a bigot. Everyone here is welcome to wallow in their own ignorance for as long as they please. I'm going to call a spade a spade though. If you persist with those opinions, you should expect to be called a bigot regularly.

Finally, some heterosexuals being uncomfortable around homosexuals is just too damn bad for the heterosexuals. The same argument can be (and WAS) made against racial integration. If the mindset of these fools is too medieval to deal with someone nearby them who is gay... then they are the ones with a problem. Not the gay person.
 

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In the end, what this comes down to is what one guy thinks about another guy for his opinion. So if you actually care if some guy thinks you are a bigot for your opinions, what is that worth? Not too much.
 

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Finally, some heterosexuals being uncomfortable around homosexuals is just too damn bad for the heterosexuals. The same argument can be (and WAS) made against racial integration. If the mindset of these fools is too medieval to deal with someone nearby them who is gay... then they are the ones with a problem. Not the gay person.
In other words, if they're not trying to force you to get under it, GET OVER IT! :laugh:
 

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Originally posted by: blackllotus
Originally posted by: spittledip
Actually, Cyclo is right on as far as the topic of morality goes. If there is no absolute defining morality- if it is all subjective- there is no morality. It all becomes opinion.

Morals are opinions. Different people have different morals on which they base their actions.

Originally posted by: spittledip
If an individual within the culture has another idea about morality, is his idea wrong? No. How could it be? If you say his idea about morality is wrong (as it goes against the majority), you are saying that the majority , b/c they are the majority, have the right to force their morality on the individual, and have greater right to define morality even though they are just a bunch of individuals themselves. How is one individual less than 2 or more individuals? Somehow their opinions, b/c they make up the majority, are "right"?

The majority defines what is right and wrong within a society, however that does not make someone who disgrees them "wrong" in an absolute sense. They are only wrong relative to the morals defined by society.

Exactly. Power is the what causes the morals of scoiety at large to have presidence over the morals of the individual. In other words, there is no morality if morality is relative. There is only the powerful and the powerless and the opinions of both.