I haven't yet read through this thread, and I don't know who or what side of the isle any of these folks are on, but this story smells, IMHO. What person, gay or not, would let another push him back into a private restroom, then allow his crotch to be grabbed, then allow his hand to be pulled to the other person's crotch, then allow himself to be pushed slowly to his knees BEFORE objecting to the assault? It's like the script of a bad Lifetime movie.
I'm not saying it couldn't have happened, just that the story begs that question be asked.