Originally posted by: jhu
did you read the article? women like diamonds because they're pretty, and because of the debeers marketing machine. do you care that the flowers you get from your florist were grown in a greenhouse rather than the tropical rainforest of south america?
JHU your analogy doesn't work, first off flowers have a very limited life span whereas if cared for properly "diamonds are forever", secondly flowers are not seen as a "status symbol" and thus many are not willing to pay a higher price for location or whatnot .....
With regards to the article I think it is pretty interesting and it might change things, but like a few others here I don't see it really impacting the industry anytime soon....synthetics have been around for quite some time, and many are very very good...yet people are not as enamoured with them as they are real diamonds...is it due to marketing?? possibly, but I think it also has to do with the fact that people know they are "synthetic" and machine made....would it hurt the diamond industry if people knew how "unrare" real diamonds really are?? I don't think so...I think that many already know that diamonds are not that rare, heck just look at how many you see in mall stores alone and it gives you a pretty good idea...
Also I love it when people suggest something like a ruby or an emerald or any other truly "rare" stone....honestly guys be lucky that diamonds are the choice of most women, if the stones they were looking for were truly rare and not as easily attainable you would be paying much much much more for them...diamonds are easy because
1. Everyone that wants a new one can have one
2. They are a clear stone so visually they are more appealing to more people and also since women like them most they color coordinate with their clothes and outfits very easily whereas a red, green or other colored rare stone will not
3. they are easily replaceable
I also find it funny how people automatically say "screw debeers" because of their past practices when many many companies have done very shady things in the past and continue to do so even as we speak....heck look at Nike yet I am sure plenty of people complaining here wear their stuff....of Volkswagon who supported the German Nazi regime with building equipment??
People never forced anyone to buy anything, sure they could have been influenced by marketing but cant one say this about any product? how many things do you buy because you read about them first or see a commercial??
I don't know, maybe I am more of a realist and don't like stuff like this get to me, or take it personally....if I were a betting man I would say many here who are the most vocal against diamonds/debeers are not against them for the "moral" reasons, but instead they want to justify their unwillingness to spend money
🙂, at least I know when I take a personal stance against a company there is usually a little more to it than their actions...personally I would never buy one for myself, but if it is something my fiancee wanted then I would have no issue with it because it would make her happy and because I know she is with me not because of the diamond or any other status item, however if you are with a woman who is only about the rock or the show of money then you might want to reconsider.....the best women are those who tell you not to spend your money on them, but to rule out a woman just because they think diamonds are nice and would want one IMHO is rather silly.
With the conflict diamonds vs. regular diamonds, while I do see the point of many, I also question how many other brands or items they like have they looked into the actions of the companies...again Nike comes to mind, how about the companies which make clothing in sweat shops, or those who exploit labor in other nations, or those who farm work out of the US and into other countries such as India?? there are a million reasons to justify not buying anything....again I think for some they might truly be into the whole moral aspect of conflict diamonds and blah blah blah but for many it is simply a justification not to buy something they personally see no value in and feel that since they don't like it than no one should...just my take on it though.
I see this doing one of two things....either 1. it will do nothing but add more synthetics on the market..ones which people will buy for costume jewelery but regular diamonds will still sell....
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2. it will greatly devalue diamonds that are currently on the market, people will be able to buy them for almost nothing in all shapes and sizes, however with this women will not be as interested in them and find soemthing new to suppliment the void, a new item/product will take over as the "thing to have when married" or token of affection and we will see a whole new group of threads here on ATOT complaining about the new item, how the company sucks and overcharges for it and how people are brainwashed into buying it....ahh the circle of life
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