Originally posted by: minendo
Hey Christian boy, Jesus Christ says "Stop Posting."
2nd best line ever
Originally posted by: minendo
Hey Christian boy, Jesus Christ says "Stop Posting."
Originally posted by: gigapet
with your confidence issues you should be hitting hte gym everyday like has been sugested a million times.
so as b4 you choose not to listen to what anyone says so....quite simply.....i request that you die right now or never return here.
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Anubis
yes there is a YAGT FORUM just for people like you
No, YAGT.org is for people who are making an effort to solve their problems. Those who refuse to listen to advice or continually post stupid things get flamed just as hard - or possibly harder, because we focus on the issue.
- M4H
YAGT gets like 2 posts a day.
Plus I do make an effort to solve my problems, so there.
Originally posted by: skywalker66
I dont get what all this business is about, how I shouldnt place my happiness in what others think of me.
I mean I agree that the statement is true.
But are you guys trying to tell me that I will truly be a happy person if I dont have any friends? I think thats a little bogus.
We all have needs, and one of those needs is: other people.
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,
I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.
Originally posted by: Skorpio
PS...if you cant get girls...well fvck them.
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,
I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.
Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine
Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.
Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,
I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.
Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine
Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.
first of all you're not that skinny.
but here's the difference,
were you criticized by your family for your posture? (constant reminders of "don't slouch", "keep your shoulders straight", and many more)
Over time, these little comments get in your head and when I'm in public, I'm constantly thinking to myself is my shoulder straight? how does my posture look? etc.
Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,
I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.
Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine
Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.
first of all you're not that skinny.
but here's the difference,
were you criticized by your family for your posture? (constant reminders of "don't slouch", "keep your shoulders straight", and many more)
Over time, these little comments get in your head and when I'm in public, I'm constantly thinking to myself is my shoulder straight? how does my posture look? etc.
so please think before you think everyone has the same level of self esteem issues as another
Unless you're a woman with female friends. Then you'll fight over petty things your entire life because of jealousy for each other.Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Skywalker - I do not know you personally, nor have I anything but a passing notice of your threads. However, the biggest issue I've seen with you is that you are searching for self-realization and self-worth from other people, namely women. Not only that, you objectify them.
When you look to others for your self-worth you lose any chance of stability. Relationships with others are inherently unstable and transitory; the only thing solid in this world is your own mind and your own sense of self, and you must rely on that and further develop it if you ever want to live a semi-happy life.
I disagree with you on this point. I've found that as you get older you find and surround yourself with friends who have similar interests and beliefs as you and those relationships tend to last a long time. I certainly wouldn't call them transitory or unstable anyway.
I agree with your other points though.![]()
OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.
yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.
there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.
Was this a bad idea, to skip out and leave at that point?
Originally posted by: Skorpio
PS...if you cant get girls...well fvck them. Life isnt all about girls...........
If you truly was a Chrisitan...wouldnt God be your first priority?
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Skorpio
PS...if you cant get girls...well fvck them. Life isnt all about girls...........
If you truly was a Chrisitan...wouldnt God be your first priority?
Being a Christian means that you believe in Jesus Christ, that he was the son of God, that he was raised from the dead, and that his death was the atonement for humanity's sins.
I would like to still think of myself as a Christian even though I am not perfect. I am a Christian because of what I believe in, not how righteous my works are (although the 2 should go hand in hand)
I think if you replace the phrase " wouldnt God be your first priority?" with "shouldnt God be your first priority?" then your statement would make more sense.
The problem is, like everyone else, Christians arent perfect either. Sometimes we tend to get our priorities mixed up, or even if we have our priorities in our heads right, we have a hard time carrying them out correctly.
Originally posted by: Ilmater
OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.
yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.
there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.
A) You're 20. Stop getting "crushes" on women. Either you like them or you don't.
B) Didn't you say you were a 40yo virgin in another thread? Which is it?
C) Women find confidence more sexy than looks most of the time. There are plenty of guys that are overweight that get hot girls. It's all about confidence. If you don't get some, you'll never get a woman.
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Ilmater
OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.
yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.
there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.
A) You're 20. Stop getting "crushes" on women. Either you like them or you don't.
B) Didn't you say you were a 40yo virgin in another thread? Which is it?
C) Women find confidence more sexy than looks most of the time. There are plenty of guys that are overweight that get hot girls. It's all about confidence. If you don't get some, you'll never get a woman.
a) lol, okay, when I say a crush, I mean that the woman is attractive and I wanna talk to her some more. Doesnt mean that I've "fallen for them" yet, it just means that I'm interested a lil in them.
b) No, you must be thinking of someone else. I have always said that I am 20
c) I think the "overweight man with the hot girl combo" is the exception to the rule. Usually (and studies have been done to prove this) people of a similar level of physical appearances are matched together.
