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imported_Skorpio

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Originally posted by: gigapet
with your confidence issues you should be hitting hte gym everyday like has been sugested a million times.

so as b4 you choose not to listen to what anyone says so....quite simply.....i request that you die right now or never return here.

lmfao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

seriously Skywalker, I was browsing today, on why you want to banned from this forum, and the posts u put up. Seriously...THE BEST ADVICE FOR YOUR LIFE IS.....................THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK

Everyone has self esteem problems...............use your balls man, stop asking for help on personal life on Anandtech...Anandtech is for computers / tech.....If you fall...get back up...and stop asking for help. Thats what I learend in high school. Be a man..suck it up

Please dont post up your "loser" experiences on Anandtech......everyone is going to laugh at you. I dont see why you even post...
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
Originally posted by: Anubis
yes there is a YAGT FORUM just for people like you

No, YAGT.org is for people who are making an effort to solve their problems. Those who refuse to listen to advice or continually post stupid things get flamed just as hard - or possibly harder, because we focus on the issue.

- M4H

YAGT gets like 2 posts a day.

Plus I do make an effort to solve my problems, so there.

No you don't, you just bury yourself deeper into the complexities of your problems, you find reasons to excuse your own fault for your problems. Fvck man. Dig up my thread about me and my maxim model friend, look at some of the quotes in there.

Notice how I didn't go omgomgomgomg maxim girl = teh bomb!! i wanna bone her long time!

Don't get so fvcking wrapped up in things.
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
I dont get what all this business is about, how I shouldnt place my happiness in what others think of me.

I mean I agree that the statement is true.
But are you guys trying to tell me that I will truly be a happy person if I dont have any friends? I think thats a little bogus.

We all have needs, and one of those needs is: other people.

Except u have totally unrealistic ideas of what relationships are really like. Don't take this personally, most SERIOUSLY DEVOUT christians I know don't have any idea of what a normal relationship is with the opposite sex should be like, and therefore objectify and stereotype the opposite sex.
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,

I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.

Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine

Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.
 

etalns

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Skywalker66... at this point I'm hoping all your postings are a joke, for your sake. But I don't think anyone could be bored enough to feign a degree of inadequacy equal to yours.

If you act like a loser, people, more specifically chicks, are going to think you're a loser.

Stop making such a big deal of things and enjoy life... oh, and if you do decide to continue with your whole depression thing, post somewhere other than ATOT, we're all pretty incompassionate assholes.
 

imported_Skorpio

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PS...if you cant get girls...well fvck them. Life isnt all about girls...........

If you truly was a Chrisitan...wouldnt God be your first priority?
 

TheShiz

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christian college? shouldn't you be more worried about jesus and the flames than your appearance?
 

skim milk

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Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,

I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.

Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine

Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.

first of all you're not that skinny.

but here's the difference,

were you criticized by your family for your posture? (constant reminders of "don't slouch", "keep your shoulders straight", and many more)

Over time, these little comments get in your head and when I'm in public, I'm constantly thinking to myself is my shoulder straight? how does my posture look? etc.

so please think before you think everyone has the same level of self esteem issues as another
 

RbSX

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Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,

I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.

Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine

Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.

first of all you're not that skinny.

but here's the difference,

were you criticized by your family for your posture? (constant reminders of "don't slouch", "keep your shoulders straight", and many more)

Over time, these little comments get in your head and when I'm in public, I'm constantly thinking to myself is my shoulder straight? how does my posture look? etc.

Dude, I'm east indian. Welcome to everyday of my life.
 

etalns

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Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,

I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.

Ok moron. Lets take a look at something, ME. I'm 6'2 160 lbs (yes I'm skinny), and YES had ACNE problems. Boo fvcking hoo. Check this out My ex and a girl that was in Maxim Magazine

Get over it, go to a dermatologist to clean up your skin. You are what you make of yourself.

first of all you're not that skinny.

but here's the difference,

were you criticized by your family for your posture? (constant reminders of "don't slouch", "keep your shoulders straight", and many more)

Over time, these little comments get in your head and when I'm in public, I'm constantly thinking to myself is my shoulder straight? how does my posture look? etc.

so please think before you think everyone has the same level of self esteem issues as another

Good posture is important for looking sexy... looking sexy is important to avoid depression... avoiding depression is important in order to avoid becoming Skywalker 66.
 

CVSiN

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haha this guy is too easy...
most entertaining threads of the day when he posts... not his post mind you but the responces =P
 

Ilmater

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Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Orsorum
Skywalker - I do not know you personally, nor have I anything but a passing notice of your threads. However, the biggest issue I've seen with you is that you are searching for self-realization and self-worth from other people, namely women. Not only that, you objectify them.

When you look to others for your self-worth you lose any chance of stability. Relationships with others are inherently unstable and transitory; the only thing solid in this world is your own mind and your own sense of self, and you must rely on that and further develop it if you ever want to live a semi-happy life.

I disagree with you on this point. I've found that as you get older you find and surround yourself with friends who have similar interests and beliefs as you and those relationships tend to last a long time. I certainly wouldn't call them transitory or unstable anyway.

I agree with your other points though. :)
Unless you're a woman with female friends. Then you'll fight over petty things your entire life because of jealousy for each other.

Sorry ladies, that's true and every one of you knows it.
 

Ilmater

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.

yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.

there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.
OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.

A) You're 20. Stop getting "crushes" on women. Either you like them or you don't.

B) Didn't you say you were a 40yo virgin in another thread? Which is it?

C) Women find confidence more sexy than looks most of the time. There are plenty of guys that are overweight that get hot girls. It's all about confidence. If you don't get some, you'll never get a woman.
 

rgwalt

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I decided not to read the thread, but here is my story and recommendation...

I was already fat when I got to undergrad... I proceded to put on 20 lbs in undergrad, and then another 30 over 3 years in graduate school. I got on a scale one day and realized how much I weighed, and I decided instead of buying bigger clothes and trying to dress to hide my weight, that I would start exercising.

That was 4 months ago, and I've lost over 30 lbs so far. My secret? I swim 3 or 4 times a week, and I lift weights twice a week. I can understand that you don't feel comfortable being "topless" around your peers (especially women), so instead of being a recluse, do something about it! You could take that extra 15 lbs off in 2 or 3 months by just doing something active 3 times a week, and being better about what you eat and drink.

Being in college is no excuse to get fat and lazy. I used it as an excuse, and I realized that you will never have more free time once you get a real job. It will only get harder to stay in shape. Plus, you probably have free access to a gym at your school! Use it and abuse it while it is free.

Pick something you enjoy doing for cardio (running, swimming, biking, jogging, walking) and try to lift weights a couple times a week. Spend the fall/winter/spring doing this, and by the time it is swim suit weather again, you will look and feel better about yourself. The girls won't be able to keep their hands off... there will be so many of them that you'll have to swat them away.

R
 

etalns

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Skywalker66, if you really are tired of how you look physically start a workout regimen. Take a look at sites like John Stone Fitness for some motivation. It's not hard to get into shape, it just takes some dedication.

That said, stop posting retarded threads.
 

Kev

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Was this a bad idea, to skip out and leave at that point?

No, it was a good idea to not subject your peers to your fat, disgusting flab. It would have been an embarrassment to yourself and those around you.


[/harsh sarcasm]
 

rudder

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next time bring a friend. Maybe Jack Daniels or Jim Beam. Get a little lit to take the edge off.
 

skywalker66

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Originally posted by: Skorpio
PS...if you cant get girls...well fvck them. Life isnt all about girls...........

If you truly was a Chrisitan...wouldnt God be your first priority?

Being a Christian means that you believe in Jesus Christ, that he was the son of God, that he was raised from the dead, and that his death was the atonement for humanity's sins.

I would like to still think of myself as a Christian even though I am not perfect. I am a Christian because of what I believe in, not how righteous my works are (although the 2 should go hand in hand)

I think if you replace the phrase " wouldnt God be your first priority?" with "shouldnt God be your first priority?" then your statement would make more sense.

The problem is, like everyone else, Christians arent perfect either. Sometimes we tend to get our priorities mixed up, or even if we have our priorities in our heads right, we have a hard time carrying them out correctly.

 

isekii

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Skorpio
PS...if you cant get girls...well fvck them. Life isnt all about girls...........

If you truly was a Chrisitan...wouldnt God be your first priority?

Being a Christian means that you believe in Jesus Christ, that he was the son of God, that he was raised from the dead, and that his death was the atonement for humanity's sins.

I would like to still think of myself as a Christian even though I am not perfect. I am a Christian because of what I believe in, not how righteous my works are (although the 2 should go hand in hand)

I think if you replace the phrase " wouldnt God be your first priority?" with "shouldnt God be your first priority?" then your statement would make more sense.

The problem is, like everyone else, Christians arent perfect either. Sometimes we tend to get our priorities mixed up, or even if we have our priorities in our heads right, we have a hard time carrying them out correctly.

You're a fvcking hypocrite.
Stop Posting.
 

skywalker66

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Originally posted by: Ilmater
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.

yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.

there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.
OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.

A) You're 20. Stop getting "crushes" on women. Either you like them or you don't.

B) Didn't you say you were a 40yo virgin in another thread? Which is it?

C) Women find confidence more sexy than looks most of the time. There are plenty of guys that are overweight that get hot girls. It's all about confidence. If you don't get some, you'll never get a woman.


a) lol, okay, when I say a crush, I mean that the woman is attractive and I wanna talk to her some more. Doesnt mean that I've "fallen for them" yet, it just means that I'm interested a lil in them.

b) No, you must be thinking of someone else. I have always said that I am 20

c) I think the "overweight man with the hot girl combo" is the exception to the rule. Usually (and studies have been done to prove this) people of a similar level of physical appearances are matched together.
 

etalns

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Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: Ilmater
Originally posted by: skywalker66
Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.

yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.

there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.
OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.

A) You're 20. Stop getting "crushes" on women. Either you like them or you don't.

B) Didn't you say you were a 40yo virgin in another thread? Which is it?

C) Women find confidence more sexy than looks most of the time. There are plenty of guys that are overweight that get hot girls. It's all about confidence. If you don't get some, you'll never get a woman.


a) lol, okay, when I say a crush, I mean that the woman is attractive and I wanna talk to her some more. Doesnt mean that I've "fallen for them" yet, it just means that I'm interested a lil in them.

b) No, you must be thinking of someone else. I have always said that I am 20

c) I think the "overweight man with the hot girl combo" is the exception to the rule. Usually (and studies have been done to prove this) people of a similar level of physical appearances are matched together.

A) You suck

b) You're a liar.

c) Show me these "studies"