Fun at the pool is not so fun...

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Orsorum
lol I have massively pale skin with lots and lots of stretch marks. A phrase I learned a couple years ago that's helped is "Fvck it." If they're so shallow that they're going to judge you based solely on some slight flab then they're probably not right for you anyway.

i judge girls based on their slight flab though,
I mean granted looks arent everything, but I dont want a fattie. isnt that fair to ask for, to be sexually attracted to your mate? for me that cant happen, unless she's under 200 lbs.

lol Jesus, dude, you have to realize that everyone has marks on their bodies that they're ashamed of, or dark secrets in their past, or something. What's the song, "I know you'd like to thank your sh!t don't stank/But lean a little bit closer/See that roses really smell like poo-oo-ooo"?

You're not going to get women until you understand that everyone has their imperfections and part of growing up is learning to accept other people in spite of themselves, and learning to accept yourself. Our bodies all go to sh!t after 55 anyway, so get over it and realize that almost no one is going to be perfect or have perfect skin.

 

[Schadenfroh]

Originally posted by: Anubis
yes there is a YAGT FORUM just for people like you

honestly you just need to grow some balls, thats the simplest way of putting it, i get in the pool with all the hotties and im carrying a few extra pounds just like you
if these girls are going to judge yo usolely on what your body looks like they arnt even worth your time

yeh, that is only half of what girls look for, you gotta have the wallet that is carrying the extra few pounds for the other half

 

[rsd]

In the name of Jesus, Moses, Buddha, Allah, and everything else that is holy, let's hope that your genes do not find away to enter the pool.

You need help dude. I remember seeing a post by you a while ago about getting in shape and such.

You are constantly all talk about everything, but lack the will, desire, and self-discipline to do anything about your life. It is pathetic.

Summarily:


SH!T, OR GET OFF THE FVCKING POT!

 

[Anubis]

o and if you think that just because you carry some flab you cant get a hottie to go out with you i was boinking this person for the better part of 4 years she was the captin of the chearleader for 2 of them

link might be NSFW

 

[RaynorWolfcastle]

:music::music: I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem oh yeaaaah, oh yeaaaaaahh, yeeeeeeeeaaaaaaahh!:music: :music:

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
:music::music: I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem oh yeaaaah, oh yeaaaaaahh, yeeeeeeeeaaaaaaahh!:music: :music:

at least that guy was getting some

 

[z0mb13]

come on guys dont drive him away!!

 

[Viper GTS]

Originally posted by: Anubis
o and if you think that just because you carry some flab you cant get a hottie to go out with you i was boinking this person for the better part of 4 years she was the captin of the chearleader for 2 of them

link might be NSFW

NSFW no shit, that's asking for a ban.

That aside, did you take the pictures?

Viper GTS

 

[RaynorWolfcastle]

Originally posted by: ElFenix

Originally posted by: RaynorWolfcastle
:music::music: I'm just a sucker with no self-esteem oh yeaaaah, oh yeaaaaaahh, yeeeeeeeeaaaaaaahh!:music: :music:

at least that guy was getting some

Hmmm... good point.

:music::music: Aaaaaaallllllllllll byyyyyyyy myseeeeeeeeee-eeeeeeeeeeeeelf, don't wanna be aaaaaaaaaaaallllllll by myseeeeeeeee-eeeeeeeelf :music: :music:

 

[Anubis]

hey theres no nudity there in the initial link and i warned you, worse stuff get posted all the time with NSFW warnings

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: Anubis


link might be NSFW

link might be dead

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: skywalker66
Alright, I just got back in for the night, and I figured I'd post this on here to see what you fellows think.

All the sophmores at my college (I go to a Christian college) had this thing tonight at this community center where they have these cool pools, water slides, etc. and then they had volleyball, sumo wrestling suits, and that fun stuff. Its one of those dealies where its open all night basically and people can leave when they want to.

Well, when I got there we listened to a speaker for about an hour. Then after that I fooled around a bit and shot some hoops (a few ppl were shootin hoops but no one wanted to play a game) and talked to some ppl, but then all of a sudden...
everyone went swimming.

now dont get me wrong, I think swimming can be fun. But its not so fun when you are so self conscious about yourself and your body. I am 20 years old, and looked a lot better when I was 18, than I do right now. I used to play sports and stuff, but now that I'm in college I'm no longer good enough for any college sports, so I'm not as active, and of course I've gained a little bit of weight since the end of highschool (probably like 15 pounds)

I'm 5'9" used to weigh 160 and look alright. now I weigh 175 and dont look that pleasant. I'm not fat, but I am kinda flabby.


Anyways, I decided not to go swimming just because I didnt feel like showing off my flab (and the pool was going to close in 2 hours). I'm self conscious of the way I look, especially around women, and there are a lot of women at my college that are in good shape. Being in shape at my college is kind of the thing, ppl are focused on external appearances, nice clothes, their bodies, their hair, etc, (I go to a small school, about 2500 ppl)


Was this a bad idea, to skip out and leave at that point? (2 hours before things were gonna shut down) I had only been there for about an hour and a half.

I know that ppl tell me I'm not fat and that I shouldnt care and be as self conscious as I am, but I just cant help it.

I did not feel comfortable going into that pool. Especially with all the girls from my school that were in the water, and the guys standing around me that were in better shape than me.

You come to this board expecting reassurance... you're not going to get any after the sh!t you constantly post. STFU and go AWAY.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Get in shape....

that's all I can really recommend.

Women don't rate so high in my book right now. Do whatever the hell you want

 

[Orsorum]

Originally posted by: Jero
Get in shape....

that's all I can really recommend.

Women don't rate so high in my book right now. Do whatever the hell you want

lol That's a good point to reach.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: Anubis
o and if you think that just because you carry some flab you cant get a hottie to go out with you i was boinking this person for the better part of 4 years she was the captin of the chearleader for 2 of them

link might be NSFW

congratulations, its people like you who give me hope.

dangit i wish i wasnt so shallow, and could look at the women at there that dont look like barbie dolls.

Get in shape....

that's all I can really recommend.

Believe me, I will, after what happened tonight, I definately will.

 

[Anubis]

edit out my link,

and just get some damn confidence
and stop posting it here and getting sh!t on

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: EGGO
To be very serious, girls will like a guy they can have fun with rather than a guy who's too self-concious to have fun.

So go to social gathewait I just remembered.

I could still go if I wanted to.

the pool is closed, but the rest of the festivities are open all night.

 

[HermDogg]

Can't we give Skywalker his own moniker? Instead of Elite, say... "Forum Dumbass" or "Village Idiot" or "Resident Masochist"? In fact, I may just start a thread to see what we can come up with....

 

[skywalker66]

alright folks. i will be back in a bit. and when I do come back,

I will be reporting stories of social success.
Maybe I cant make myself have the body I want (or at least not very easily)
but you better as hell believe that I am able to make myself talk to girls. I've done it a lot already today, and you better believe I will be doing it some more.

 

[Orsorum]

Skywalker - I do not know you personally, nor have I anything but a passing notice of your threads. However, the biggest issue I've seen with you is that you are searching for self-realization and self-worth from other people, namely women. Not only that, you objectify them.

When you look to others for your self-worth you lose any chance of stability. Relationships with others are inherently unstable and transitory; the only thing solid in this world is your own mind and your own sense of self, and you must rely on that and further develop it if you ever want to live a semi-happy life.

 

[pyonir]

Your threads make me smile skywalker66. Thank you for making others look less pathetic by sacrificing yourself.

 

[bleeb]

Originally posted by: The Boss
skywalker66 for elite!!!!

 

[HonkeyDonk]

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Can we get rid of this guy, please?

We seriously need a system where we can systematically nominate & eliminate the idiots.

I would suggest a daily system (one ban per day, perhaps two on holidays), in a couple months we could greatly reduce the idiot population here.

To give people a chance to repent & walk in the light we could make the first one a warning, with a one week re-evaluation before the perma ban.

On the other hand, if someone received above say... 90% votes to ban then no warning would be necessary.

Skywalker would be my first nomination vote, second would be dmcowen.

Viper GTS

I AGREE 100000%.

 

[Hyperblaze]

Originally posted by: HonkeyDonk

Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Can we get rid of this guy, please?

We seriously need a system where we can systematically nominate & eliminate the idiots.

I would suggest a daily system (one ban per day, perhaps two on holidays), in a couple months we could greatly reduce the idiot population here.

To give people a chance to repent & walk in the light we could make the first one a warning, with a one week re-evaluation before the perma ban.

On the other hand, if someone received above say... 90% votes to ban then no warning would be necessary.

Skywalker would be my first nomination vote, second would be dmcowen.

Viper GTS

I AGREE 100000%.

He seems to be making an effort to change his life.

I know a lot of people are sick of hearing of his problems but if he is starting to improve for the better...

 

[lavagirl669]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Orsorum
lol I have massively pale skin with lots and lots of stretch marks. A phrase I learned a couple years ago that's helped is "Fvck it." If they're so shallow that they're going to judge you based solely on some slight flab then they're probably not right for you anyway.

i judge girls based on their slight flab though,
I mean granted looks arent everything, but I dont want a fattie. isnt that fair to ask for, to be sexually attracted to your mate? for me that cant happen, unless she's under 200 lbs.

that is so shallow....

So when you have a long and lasting relationship with a woman
you won't love her anymore if she becomes a "fattie" ?

I would say you get what you give dude