Fun at the pool is not so fun...

[etalns]

Read the first reccomendation there Skywalker66. You're set for life!

 

[bandana163]

I wonder how pathetic a thread can get before it implodes and forms a black hole of angst.

 

[PanzerIV]

Time to break out my beloved Sgt. Hartman quotes:

"What is your major malfunction, numbnuts? Didn't Mommy and Daddy show you enough attention when you were a child?"

 

[minendo]

skywalker66,

Ignore what the others have said.

Your friend in Christ,

minendo

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: Qosis
Read the first reccomendation there Skywalker66. You're set for life!

wow, actually this site is pretty cool.

Thanks for the link

 

[purbeast0]

skywalker66: show us the pics of yourself dude.

 

[welst10]

Originally posted by: minendo
skywalker66,

Ignore what the others have said.

Your secret lover,

minendo

 

[eakers]

if you dont feel comfortable swimming then don't

whats the problem here? you cant make your own decisions?

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: Ilmater

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: JonnyStarks
Look to see first if there's someone in there that looks worse than you. If there is, then it's ok to go in. Looks are relative when there's that many people there.

yeah, i could have easily identified someone who looked worse than me, but still...
There are women there that I have crushes on, and I dont want them to see my in my flabby condition.

there might have been a few people who looked worse than me, but a lot of people looked better.

OK, I'm not reading any further into this thread.

A) You're 20. Stop getting "crushes" on women. Either you like them or you don't.

B) Didn't you say you were a 40yo virgin in another thread? Which is it?

C) Women find confidence more sexy than looks most of the time. There are plenty of guys that are overweight that get hot girls. It's all about confidence. If you don't get some, you'll never get a woman.

a) lol, okay, when I say a crush, I mean that the woman is attractive and I wanna talk to her some more. Doesnt mean that I've "fallen for them" yet, it just means that I'm interested a lil in them.

b) No, you must be thinking of someone else. I have always said that I am 20

c) I think the "overweight man with the hot girl combo" is the exception to the rule. Usually (and studies have been done to prove this) people of a similar level of physical appearances are matched together.

Hit puberty you fvcking bastard. You're just like most other devout christians I've met, you think that relationships with females are text book cases and should all work a certain way, and when they don't sh!t goes sideways. You objectify women and believe in an ideal scenario, learn that stuff just doesn't work that way.

STOP POSTING DAMNIT!

 

[CraigRT]

Originally posted by: purbeast0

Originally posted by: fritolays
hey skywalker,

I'm the same age as you and I understand EXACTLY where you are coming from.
I never had self esteem issues or confidence issues, but they all started developing during my late high school years and onto college. I had acne breakout all over my face which KILLED my confidence and I was also skinny.... I was criticized from my family that I look too skinny and it got in my head. Two years after graduating high school, I still suffer from self esteem issues.

boo-fvcking-hoo ... go to a dermatoligist and go to the gym, you will gain confidence.

hey man, it's easier said than done.
and even if it is fixable, it's not instantaneous.

I somewhat agree with you, but the fact is, when you're actually in that position, you do not see it like that.

with that being said, fritolays and skywalker, you DO have to make an effort to imrove your social life/confidence with people. Talk to some friends even if you have to.. maybe they can take you out with some of their good friends, talk to them and learn to be confident when interacting with people that way.
it's much easier when they are not complete strangers. I used to be the same way as you guys, but not any-more. I really couldn't care less about anything like that anymore, and I have no more confidence issues. Sure I am somewhat conscious about the way I look, but it's not an overly huge deal. That's normal though.

I seriously think, after having thought about all of this, one day you will be talking with a girl or something, and realize how easy it is...bam. simple as that and you will be confident with others almost instantly after that moment. I am pretty sure thats how I got over my hurdle 4-5 years ago when I was a teenager. It's all in your head, just put in an effort, and it will pay off.

 

[mAdMaLuDaWg]

Ugggh... I can't stand Skywalker's blatant hypocrisy.
Skywalker, although you are not going to listen to me and you are going to post yet again and again and again about the same stuff.... you really have to stop thinking about women as objects. Maybe thats where your problems lie.

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg
Ugggh... I can't stand Skywalker's blatant hypocrisy.
Skywalker, although you are not going to listen to me and you are going to post yet again and again and again about the same stuff.... you really have to stop thinking about women as objects. Maybe thats where your problems lie.

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

 

[BespinReactorShaft]

Originally posted by: Vaerilis
I wonder how pathetic a thread can get before it implodes and forms a black hole of angst.

Some time ago there was a postulation on white holes that may form exactly threads like this...

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg
Ugggh... I can't stand Skywalker's blatant hypocrisy.
Skywalker, although you are not going to listen to me and you are going to post yet again and again and again about the same stuff.... you really have to stop thinking about women as objects. Maybe thats where your problems lie.

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

Well, there's your problem - a Holier-Than-Thou complex coupled with blatant objectification of women. :roll:

Judging from your posts, and your "prime motivation to please yourself" I have come to this conclusion.

Go buy a Fleshlight, the "Uppity Tight-ass" insert, and once and for all, go fvck yourself.

- M4H

 

[FleshLight]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg
Ugggh... I can't stand Skywalker's blatant hypocrisy.
Skywalker, although you are not going to listen to me and you are going to post yet again and again and again about the same stuff.... you really have to stop thinking about women as objects. Maybe thats where your problems lie.

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

Well, there's your problem - a Holier-Than-Thou complex coupled with blatant objectification of women. :roll:

Judging from your posts, and your "prime motivation to please yourself" I have come to this conclusion.

Go buy a Fleshlight, the "Uppity Tight-ass" insert, and once and for all, go fvck yourself.

- M4H

That wasn't very nice was it? :beer:

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: FleshLight

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg
Ugggh... I can't stand Skywalker's blatant hypocrisy.
Skywalker, although you are not going to listen to me and you are going to post yet again and again and again about the same stuff.... you really have to stop thinking about women as objects. Maybe thats where your problems lie.

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

Well, there's your problem - a Holier-Than-Thou complex coupled with blatant objectification of women. :roll:

Judging from your posts, and your "prime motivation to please yourself" I have come to this conclusion.

Go buy a Fleshlight, the "Uppity Tight-ass" insert, and once and for all, go fvck yourself.

- M4H

That wasn't very nice was it? :beer:

Nope, not in the slightest! :beer:

- M4H

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: skywalker66

Originally posted by: mAdMaLuDaWg
Ugggh... I can't stand Skywalker's blatant hypocrisy.
Skywalker, although you are not going to listen to me and you are going to post yet again and again and again about the same stuff.... you really have to stop thinking about women as objects. Maybe thats where your problems lie.

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

Well, there's your problem - a Holier-Than-Thou complex coupled with blatant objectification of women. :roll:

Judging from your posts, and your "prime motivation to please yourself" I have come to this conclusion.

Go buy a Fleshlight, the "Uppity Tight-ass" insert, and once and for all, go fvck yourself.

- M4H

[The Emperor] Ah...yes..........it is correct. The dark side of the force is strong with this one. [/The Emperor]


I love it when a real person exposes a pansyass bulllshiit artist for what they are. It's just..a superb display of Spankmaster Righteousness.

Stop lying to yourself, Skywalker. Though you think you're "with the force" the only force in your life is your own hand forcing The Dildo of Gayness so far up your rectum, it's now a Periscope of Truth.

Deal with it, "Fraid of GurlsBoy."

 

[skywalker66]

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

Well, there's your problem - a Holier-Than-Thou complex coupled with blatant objectification of women.

Judging from your posts, and your "prime motivation to please yourself" I have come to this conclusion.

Go buy a Fleshlight, the "Uppity Tight-ass" insert, and once and for all, go fvck yourself.

- M4H

hmmm, anyone have anything intelligent to say about the last post I just made?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: skywalker66

anyone who has kissed a woman before, or who hopes to kiss a woman at some point in their life, and says that they themselves "dont treat women as objects at all" is a complete liar.

By your definition, if I want self gratification from a woman, then I am treating her as an object. Well you know what? I guess that makes all men evil/shallow selfish people.

Face it folks, we all treat women as objects to some degree. I'm just more honest about my motives than most people. Granted, I'm not looking for a relationship just for the sake to please some girl. I will admit that isnt my prime motivation, and rather that my prime motivation is to please myself.

But in order to 'get a girl' I will have to be very nice to her as well.
You have to give if you want to take.
Therefore, I dont see whats wrong with this way of doing things.

First off, I think this way of doing things is an effective system,
and secondly, I believe all humans (men) run on this principle, I'm just willing to admit it whereas most others dont.

Well, there's your problem - a Holier-Than-Thou complex coupled with blatant objectification of women.

Judging from your posts, and your "prime motivation to please yourself" I have come to this conclusion.

Go buy a Fleshlight, the "Uppity Tight-ass" insert, and once and for all, go fvck yourself.

- M4H

hmmm, anyone have anything intelligent to say about the last post I just made?

"Stop posting"?

- M4H

 

[deftron]

Dude looks like a lady (holding a tub of butter)

 

[imported_Skorpio]

ok..skywalker...u want to get girls?

Go look for hookers on the street.

Or what I did today. Let the girls come to you

Play piano in the lounge at my college and I met 5 girls that I never met before. Its so simple.

+ I met one in class today....just randomly sat next to her...started a normal conversation.

Why cant you?

Conclusion? Playing a musical instrument and just do it.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Skorpio
ok..skywalker...u want to get girls?

Go look for hookers on the street.

Or what I did today. Let the girls come to you

Play piano in the lounge at my college and I met 5 girls that I never met before. Its so simple.

+ I met one in class today....just randomly sat next to her...started a normal conversation.

Why cant you?

Conclusion? Playing a musical instrument and just do it.

Search function, username, "skywalker66" - and realize why all your advice is futile.

- M4H

 

[skywalker66]

Conclusion? Playing a musical instrument and just do it.

hmmm, I like the "just do it" part. (when it comes to asking out girls)

the part of the musical instrument though... you see learning to play guitar or piano would take a lot of time and work...
just doesnt seem worth it. I'd rather just be myself and do things that I enjoy doing, instead of doing things just for the sake of attracting women.

 

[imported_Skorpio]

I DO play for fun...it just happened

 

[skywalker66]

Originally posted by: Skorpio
I DO play for fun...it just happened

Heh, well then that works out pretty well for you then. Do something you like, and attract chicks while doing it.

I just need to find something fun that I enjoy, which could possibly perhaps attract a woman.