Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Originally posted by: EvilYoda
I know how you feel...I've had a decent history with women, but am, by nature, a "good guy"...but there's evil in every one of us and sometimes women like jerks. Sometimes I'm an ass just in retaliation for things that have happened to me in the past...it's an odd state.
Glad it worked for you...and good luck staying "mysterious"
EXACTLY! I'm fed up with being trampled on so I end up being an a$$. I feel bad but then, you know, getting stepped on feels worse, right? I guess I should just be that jerk because of this realization:
1) Being nice to WOMEN that you're interested in gets you no where.. I'm a great guy to my male friends and my female friends. But girls I'm into. Being nice to them leads them to taking advantage of you. It's odd because i'm nice to EVERYONE and my buds have no problem being nice in return, but girls I'm into.. They just use you as much as they can and abandon you if you need support...
2) Since being nice gets you no where, just be a jerk. If you get no where it's because, well, you're a jerk... You had control in your situation instead of feeling helpless and used. But if you *DO* get somewhere, well, the girl oddly saw through your jerky ways... So.. Well.. Score!
3) Girls from 20-28 are flakey, superficial, have no idea what they want, and tend to be immature... They don't deserve to be put on a pedestal
.. F*ck them, they're not worth selling out for...
that was really bitter, wasn't it? But, you know, I am bitter... I liked being a nice guy but view it as a flaw now, and that makes me sad and, yes, bitter.