Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: shimsham
1. yes. 16 is a baby. do you know any 16yo that are mature enough handle life on their own?very very few. some 32yo still act like children. just because you get some hair and can spread your legs doesnt mean you are prepared to handle the consequences such as pregnancy, or this guy running around bragging about how easy she was, etc. etc. EDIT: not too long ago, people were getting married at 14. i guess thats cool with you too?
2. the same as you know. i dont. but, i think if this girl was a slut, her brother would have heard that by now since he still has contacts that go to school with her.
3. good. it means she has a family that cares for her, as we should all be so lucky to have. besides, its the parents job to be involved with her life. im sure if she ends up knocked up or diseased, youll be the first one to post its the parents fault for not being involved in her life.
4. imagine if everyones family had the attitude "its none of my business, why should i give a sh!t". half of us probably wouldnt even be here. would you let your sister date someone you know is a scumbag?
1. 16 is not a baby, I met my first wife when she was 16 and I was not her 'first' guy, all we did the first year was have sex, I don't think we left either of our rooms all summer while everyone was working. We got married when she was 18 and it lasted until she broke her neck...then she got sort of insane for lack of a better word. Our parents were getting married at 18yo, most of the 25yo+ around here probably have parents that had their first kids at 21-22yo. The reason 16 year olds are getting percieved as infants is due to parents over sheltering and spoon feeding them.
When I went back to college at 29, there were 20 year olds parent's doing their schedules...those same kids would be hooking up left and right to. The girls were just as crazy as I was, so that was cool.
2. I know and slept with a ton of girls that were thought to be virgins, they knew I'd keep my mouth shut about it....this is the same way I was sleeping around at the bank I worked for...a couple times I did get 'caught' (main way was someone passing someone else's house with my car parked overnight at it), but for the most part no one knew about the affairs and these were grown women who would have nothing to hide from their families.
3. Getting knocked up? Diseases? WTF! this can happen at any age. With my ex wife she did get pregnant, but the pregnacy ended early and naturally (3 months)...like I said though we were having sex 5-6 times a day sometimes more...that's all we did (and go to the clubs and beach)....I didn't use protection sometimes (anyone that says otherwise is not dating a whole lot sexually), but she got pregnant only once. My ex fiancee got pregnant but I think that one wasn't mine, we were having a ton of problems at the time and both seeing other people as well as still sleeping together.
I don't know where you live but I know 16 right now is the age girls have already had one regular sex buddy down. There is nothing wrong with girls having sex, nothing wrong with sex...it doesn't have to and should exist outside of marriage...the whole sex and being married is really a double standard created long ago....guys would play the field and women would have to 'wait'....the problem is who were the guys sleeping with ??? well I guess that's why there was culkoldry and all that.
4. Being a scumbag and a guy that likes and wants sex are two different things, one is bad and one is natural.
Originally posted by: eakers
maybe you should let her make her own mistakes.
its going to happen either way, this way she is going to sneak around behind yours and your parents back.
$10 says you're a virgin.Originally posted by: DaviDaVinci
$10 says you have HPV at the least....
Originally posted by: DaviDaVinci
I hate to say this, but I wouldn't take any advice from someone who doesn't even have the sense to use protection during sexual intercourse at that age. To top it off when that person has multiple partners who sleep with others at the same time.
$10 says you have HPV at the least....
Originally posted by: nick1985
i found out from a friend that my sister has started to see this football player from my high school. she is a junior and he is a senior. he is one of those guys that all he wants is sex, and there is no way in hell that is going to work with me. as soon as i found out i was on the phone with my parents telling them whats going on and that there was so F#cking way that was going to happen. her birthday is today and im sure she will hate me for a while, but i think i did her a favor. thoughts on what i did?
Originally posted by: MaxDepth
Admit it. Unless she looks like you, she will have sex.
And there is nothing you can do to stop it. The question is: when she does, and eventually get her heart broken, will you be like Nelson Munce, or will you be there to listen?
Originally posted by: SammySon
he is one of those guys that all he wants is sex,
OMG NO WAY A GUY WHO ONLY WANTS SEX!?!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?
Girls never want sex though. They are angelic in everyway.
Originally posted by: BoberFett
$10 says you're a virgin.Originally posted by: DaviDaVinci
$10 says you have HPV at the least....
Damn, ATOT is one hilarious place. I've never seen this large a group of saints gathered in one place.
Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: DaviDaVinci
I hate to say this, but I wouldn't take any advice from someone who doesn't even have the sense to use protection during sexual intercourse at that age. To top it off when that person has multiple partners who sleep with others at the same time.
$10 says you have HPV at the least....
Hmm no STD's ever....also HPV is a pretty broad condition....many many have that and don't know it. Only a few strains even show symptoms and a few symptomless types are only problematic for females. You spew ignorance sir.
However, about the protection thing....I have no idea how old you are nor if you even pull in women.
As a kid, most of them use no protection, part of being a 'kid' is stupidity....it's like saying did you ever fall out of a tree?
Even as an adult, I took risks sometimes....almost no one uses protection during oral sex....but that's just as risky, if not more. Again you speak from inexperience/ignorance.
This is why many women do not talk about their pasts....they end up getting judged for them.
Originally posted by: MaxDepth
Admit it. Unless she looks like you, she will have sex.
And there is nothing you can do to stop it. The question is: when she does, and eventually get her heart broken, will you be like Nelson Munce, or will you be there to listen?
Originally posted by: nick1985
maybe im the only one, but im not looking for sex with my girlfriend. and im an 18 year old college guy....wierd how the world works i guess.
Originally posted by: DaviDaVinci
Which comment of mine shows ignorance? I know about HPV. I said $10 says you have it. You can't prove to me you don't so how am I ignorant? Supposedly one out of 3 adults in the US have it. Not using protection with so many partners assures me that you have it and won't know it until better tests come out for males.
Well, you're right, there are a lot of stupid kids that don't use protection. I see alot of kids with babies here in my store. Don't you think that's why the society promotes PROTECTION? Same reason why we have sex ed classes.
And how is it like saying "did you ever fall out of a tree?" If i'm not mistaken you're saying it's OK to not use protection because it's part of being a kid.
You know, you're very correct on the oral sex part. A lot of people don't use protection. At the same time, not everyone get's bj's from strangers. And sorry, sometimes I DO wish I was a virgin, but I'm not. And if you want to give me $10 also like the other poster, then I'll provide you with proof also.
Men get judged also as you know. My last partner showed me her recent STD test, and even asked me for mine before we got sexually involved. But I'm sure you never ahd the time for that since you're "Mr. I bang on first date" Sorry, we're not all hippies. I try to live in the real world with real consequences.
Feel free to judge me.
Originally posted by: luvly
You're one weird guy, Alkemyst. You managed to squeeze in my headless pics once again! I don't see the strength in your analogy and the relevance here. (Besides, what were you doing there? Did you return there and then realise it was password protected? Or are you saying for the first time you looked, it was password protected? Well, too bad if you missed it. If anyone, I gave you the first opportunity to carry on with the stalking. 😉 I just figured I should protect the immature adults from harming themselves by viewing the pics, since they've whined about their inabilities to not click an objectionable link. 😛)
Anyway, you say one thing but do another. You're praising yourself for admitting to mistakes in your life and not claiming to be better than anyone else, unlike others. Well, dear, reread your previous posts. Once again, you managed to argue that no one could possibly be qualified to have a view different from yours. First off, you don't even admit to any mistakes. They're mistakes in the view of the readers, but from your tone and view, your actions in fact should be the model behaviour mimicked by others. If anyone fails to live or experience that lifestyle, then he's automatically disqualified from having an opinion different from yours. Oh, worst of it all, it is impossible for someone to have lived your lifestyle and made a different conclusion, or feel that the path he took was incorrect and no one should knowingly follow that path. You have repeatedly, within this thread and other threads, implicitly declared yourself as one to be reckoned with and more as far as knowing the "truth", since you've done it all; and there's just only one possible conclusion according to you. I don't want to rehash your posts, but take a moment thinking of your claim of not being afraid to concede to mistakes and not claiming to be better than others; then carefully read your posts.
Originally posted by: nick1985
Originally posted by: moshquerade
she's gonna hate you.
and what guy doesn't want sex? ???
he is the type of guy you just never want around your little sister. she has had boyfriends before, but this guy isnt goona fly with me.
Nick ended up sleeping with the guy.Originally posted by: bjc112
Nick what happened...
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