<< as for reading the manuals, most manuals are so frigin vague that they are of no help! >>
The Denon manual could have helped you in two ways. Number one, how to bi-wire your speakers. They have a pretty nice diagram in there which has pictures of it. Secondly, that it would act as a crossover and you wouldn't have to use the speaker outputs on your subwoofer. I have a Denon manual sitting next to me, so as far as them being vague, that's simply not true.
I'm sorry you feel the information I've given has not been helpful or productive, but you only copy/pasted 2 sentences from several paragraphs that I've written, so if those are the only complaints you have out of both of my posts, I'd say that overall I've given you a decent amount of information, with a little bit of criticism. If I was being paid to help you, I would bite my tongue in every sentence I write, just like any internet or computer phone support technician does. If you can't handle a little bit of constructive criticism, then these probably aren't the right forums for you.
In a recent article in the magazine Sound and Vision, editor in chief Bob Ankosko pretty much sums up what I feel regarding your original post:
Some people just have to have the vest best. Best house. Best SUV. Best boat. Best tennis racket. Best home theater system. I know a guy who dropped $15k on a killer A/V setup -- a 5.1-channel system with a great-sounding set of speakers, a power amp/preamp combo from a well-respected audio company, a reference-quality DVD player, and a big-screen TV. While he's quick to boast about what a great rig he has, he really doesn't have a clue about the power and sophistication behind the collection of components meticulously assembled in his family room. What a waste, I thought to myself when he first told me about this system. Here's a guy who'll never truly appreciate the power of the gear he owns -- it just doesn't seem right! Maybe I'm just jealous . . .
That ends the paragraph. I'm not saying that all of this applies to you, but overall in a way it does. Most of us audiophiles start out small, and learn to appreciate, gradually, the finer points in a nice audio system. By skipping some key elements, you lose out on a little bit of the respect you gain from good audio gear.
All I can say is welcome to the club, and enjoy what you own. Read your manuals, and ask questions objectively and EXPECT to get some less-than-positive responses, that's how it always happens. Believe me, I've been subject to some interesting retorts over the years, and while not always nice, I learned to accept that when you're ignorant to some piece of knowledge, some people have been asked these questions literally hundreds of times, and after awhile, it can get frustrating! Think about the people on the other side, who are answering your questions for free, and learn to take the good with the bad in life. Life isn't always fair, but I didn't take anything away from you, so you really don't have anything to complain about. In fact, you walked away with a bit of my knowledge for nothing. You got something out of it. 🙂
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