(EDIT: MY FINAL THOUGHTS...) Is it wrong for a 21 year old to date a 16 year old? Even if....

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wyvrn

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No they don't. Quit trying to transfer your desires onto "every man". I didn't bang every girl I dated, I have been monogomous with my wife and she was the first. Plenty of people make this choice. Just because you didnt...

Originally posted by: Renob
He doesn't plan on banging her or anything, so what's the big deal


Dude get serious, every guy plans on banging every girl he dates.

 

Saltin

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Dude, you may as well date as many 16 year olds as you can. In a couple of more years (when you get a bit older) it won't be acceptable anymore.
 

Skyclad1uhm1

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Originally posted by: Renob
He doesn't plan on banging her or anything, so what's the big deal


Dude get serious, every guy plans on banging every girl he dates.

Let me rephrase that: He doesn't want to until she is old enough at the least, and if they stay true to their religion they even will not do 'it' until they are married. If they go through college first, and marry when he is 28 and she is 23, and then 'bang' for the first time, would you oppose that and scream about child rape?
 

GasX

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Upon further review of the original post, I have this to say:

Anyone thinking their "look at me" yellow Honda can beat a corvette because he put a body kit on it, obviously has the mind of a 16 year old. Nevertheless, he should try and grow up to be able to handle girls closer to his age rather than to hold himself back and conduct some frivolous romance with a girl so young that he could go to jail for dating her....
 

Viper GTS

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Jeebus, what's with all the would be child molesters? :disgust:

At 21 you're an adult. At 16 she is a child.

Keep away. Both for her sake and yours.

Viper GTS
 

GasX

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Viper - correction, at 21 you are legally an adult. Clearly (from this thread) not everyone is emotionally adult at that age...
 

Viper GTS

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Originally posted by: Mwilding
Viper - correction, at 21 you are legally an adult. Clearly (from this thread) not everyone is emotionally adult at that age...

Apparently not, but at 21 he should have at least enough sense to recognize that although she may possess the body of a woman she has the mind of a child.

It's a dangerous place to be.

BTW, to those saying that he is lying if he says he doesn't want to sleep with her...

Go to hell. He may have the absolute best of intentions...

But he's still an idiot.

Viper GTS
 

Fencer128

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I think it would be best - for everyone concerned - if you remained friends and dated people more around your own age.

Andy
 

dquan97

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Even if you really are not planning on having sex with her, what would people think when you two are alone in a car on a date? Even if you were just making out, it would appear that something improper is happening.

The least you can and should do is be friends with her for a couple years and do things in groups.
 

DaviDaVinci

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maybe if it was BOA, but that gal looks nothing alike besides the fact that they are both of asian decent.

like many people have said, NOT WORTH IT! makes me wonder if she's MATURE for her age or if someone else is IMMATURE for his age since they are together.

Oh well, life's a risk anyhow.
 

Zebo

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NO but some staes may say it's illegal if you have sex with her. Wrong has nothing to do with it, women are married at 13 in non-western cultures in africa and ME everyday. But we live in a puritanical society which says you can't have multiple wives or underage sex:(

 

Nitemare

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as long as she brings a signed parental consent form on every date.


As long as you don't have premarital sex and have a written ok from both parents, preferably notorized it should be ok. All it would take is for the parents to get mad at you, call the police on you and you will be thinking of her from a 9 by 9 getting luvin from Bubba while you are being arraigned for taking indecent liberties with a minor.
 

Kev

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If there's hair, I'm there. ;)



OK that was wrong, as are a few of you sick kid touchers posting in this thread... :disgust:
 

acidvoodoo

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hell no, chester the molester. j/k, but seriously, i know 16 year olds that go out with guys way older and it seems as if they have to "grow up" faster then they can
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
Originally posted by: Jumpem
For what it's worth i'm 24 and dating a 16 year old girl.
Man, that's sad.

If you're 24, you shouldn't be dating "girls." You should be dating women.

Dude, you've (presumably) graduated from college (and possibly grad school), and she's still a sophomore in high school.
 

Jumpem

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Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Originally posted by: Jumpem
For what it's worth i'm 24 and dating a 16 year old girl.
Man, that's sad.

If you're 24, you shouldn't be dating "girls." You should be dating women.

Dude, you've (presumably) graduated from college (and possibly grad school), and she's still a sophomore in high school.

I'm still in college. I have a few classes and a bunch of co-op time left to do.

 

GasX

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Originally posted by: Jumpem
Originally posted by: Dezign
Originally posted by: Skoorb
Originally posted by: Jumpem
For what it's worth i'm 24 and dating a 16 year old girl.
Man, that's sad.

If you're 24, you shouldn't be dating "girls." You should be dating women.

Dude, you've (presumably) graduated from college (and possibly grad school), and she's still a sophomore in high school.

I'm still in college. I have a few classes and a bunch of co-op time left to do.
It is still pathetic...
 

Grasshopper27

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Originally posted by: dquan97
If there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!

jk!!! :D
I'm glad you're kidding, cause that's just sick!

Many girls start growing pubic hair when they are 11 years old...

: ( Hopper
 

StageLeft

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Originally posted by: Grasshopper27
Originally posted by: dquan97
If there's grass on the field, PLAY BALL!

jk!!! :D
I'm glad you're kidding, cause that's just sick!

Many girls start growing pubic hair when they are 11 years old...

: ( Hopper
Hey - old enough to - ah I won't go any further.

Really though when I was 24 I had nothing in common with a 16 year old. When i was 17 I didn't since I was in university. Either she's REALLY mature for her age, or you REALLY aren't, Jumpem! :Q