At least she told you what is going on instead of you finding out later and feeling like you had been played.
At least she told you what is going on instead of you finding out later and feeling like you had been played.
:music: Oh nice guys finish last, when you run outta gas
Don't pat yourself on the back, you might break your spine :music:
Don't pat yourself on the back, you might break your spine :music:
HumblePie
Lifer
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Ohh, and one funny thing to make a girl REALLY want you, find out what she really likes and use it against her. I'm serious.
Most girls like to do SOMETHING out of the ordinary and follow something. they either love a certain band, or a sporting event (yes girls like sporting events and players of sports), or a show, or SOMETHING. Find out what she likes most in the world to do or go see. If she thinks she has you firmly put on the friends ladder you can turn this around completely on her and make her head spin. Do this buy coming up with a way to do said event with the ability to bring her along but don't mention that to her.Like buying an extra ticket to a concert or something or take time off to plan a roadtrip somewhere. Make sure that whatever the event IS you will enjoy it even if the plan backfires and that you have a plan B of someone to take in her place.
Then, make your move by mentioning you are going to do whatever it is she's extremely wanting to do. When she asks to come with say you already are taking someone else and mention a MALE name. this makes a hot woman who's "used" you as a friend in the past think she can push you right over and worm her way into letting her go. While you actually want her to do this you want her to do it on YOUR terms and not hers. Make them beg and plead to go.
After the girl asks to go with you instead of your male friend firmly say no. When they ask again, say "What makes you think you are more worthy then <insert name> to go with me to <insert place>?" The whole point is you want them chasing YOU and not the other way around if they are still young. Whatever reason is given by a girl just say the same is true for the guy friend and ask her "what have you done for me lately?" or get a bit lewd at this point and ask more directly, "and how would you make it worth my while to take you instead then?" This is known commonly as flirting and trust me, it works. Wherever the conversasion goes, make sure it stays at least on the cusp of sexual innuendo and connotation. There is a fine art to flirting at this point and it takes loosening the reigns of being nice and actually thinking of the girl as not a friend but a foe. She has something you want, and you have something she wants but you need to make her feel as if you are the one with the upper hand and are giving out concessions and not the other way around. This drives women crazy for some stupid reason.
Most girls like to do SOMETHING out of the ordinary and follow something. they either love a certain band, or a sporting event (yes girls like sporting events and players of sports), or a show, or SOMETHING. Find out what she likes most in the world to do or go see. If she thinks she has you firmly put on the friends ladder you can turn this around completely on her and make her head spin. Do this buy coming up with a way to do said event with the ability to bring her along but don't mention that to her.Like buying an extra ticket to a concert or something or take time off to plan a roadtrip somewhere. Make sure that whatever the event IS you will enjoy it even if the plan backfires and that you have a plan B of someone to take in her place.
Then, make your move by mentioning you are going to do whatever it is she's extremely wanting to do. When she asks to come with say you already are taking someone else and mention a MALE name. this makes a hot woman who's "used" you as a friend in the past think she can push you right over and worm her way into letting her go. While you actually want her to do this you want her to do it on YOUR terms and not hers. Make them beg and plead to go.
After the girl asks to go with you instead of your male friend firmly say no. When they ask again, say "What makes you think you are more worthy then <insert name> to go with me to <insert place>?" The whole point is you want them chasing YOU and not the other way around if they are still young. Whatever reason is given by a girl just say the same is true for the guy friend and ask her "what have you done for me lately?" or get a bit lewd at this point and ask more directly, "and how would you make it worth my while to take you instead then?" This is known commonly as flirting and trust me, it works. Wherever the conversasion goes, make sure it stays at least on the cusp of sexual innuendo and connotation. There is a fine art to flirting at this point and it takes loosening the reigns of being nice and actually thinking of the girl as not a friend but a foe. She has something you want, and you have something she wants but you need to make her feel as if you are the one with the upper hand and are giving out concessions and not the other way around. This drives women crazy for some stupid reason.
HumblePie
Lifer
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Incorrect, she is STILL playing him with this message. Hence, the I hope you understand and I need time to think. She's wanting to use him as a "male" friend and an emotional crutch. That's why her message is ambiguous and not clearly defined as say a message that simply states. "I'm sorry, we had fun but I feel different about you now and I am moving on to other people." NOW THAT is a well defined statement that lets a man know in no uncertain terms that it is definately over and it's time to move on completely. Instead, she's trying to use his nice guy naivette to play him and hope he doesn't read between the lines exactly to interrupt it and completely abandon her just yet.
HumblePie
Lifer
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uhhh... really over the last few years as I've been used and used again by women but really just within the last year or two started figuring out the "game" as played by young men and women. It just dawned on me and all my past experiences and the experiences of others I know about fit into what I described above.
newParadigm
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this sounds like the problem im having right now, except, i just found out that shes already going out with the competition. I think they're breaking up though, cause I know one of her friends pretty well, and she said the shes going through a tough time....
moshquerade
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HumblePie
Lifer
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What part is an exception that I have not already given? Go read the ladder theory website and take what you can from it. It's FAIRLY accurate but I have a couple exceptions to his theory. One is the known since a toddler or the over dominated by the parents woman and basically hitched before she knows it.
He doesn't cover those exceptions nor does he define the fact that his ladder theory mostly pertains to good looking women which are a 6+ on a scale of 10. the 5 and under crowd of woman would LIKE to conform to the ladder theory but they can't. Nor does the theory conform to complete sluts. Yes, there are some of those girls out there which don't HAVE a friends ladder and anyone can get into those pants if they want.
So if you read the ladder theory, which isn't perfect and adjust it based of what I said. Which is that it applies to single, young, good looking women and not to women of different age categories and "experiences" change their behavioral patterns when dealing with men. There are exceptions as well he didn't cover in his theory that I mentioned above but they are a moot point. Such as the hot chick that hooks up with the nice guy because they were always together since they first learn to wipe their own a$$es. It happens, but unless it's happened to you, then you are sh~t out of luck.
Daayuum that describes my Ex to a T!
General rule of thumb is nice guys usually get fvcked over....
Ausm
if they work on overkill on the foreplay, that shouldn't be a problem.
She'll be ready to go before the guy even gets started
Originally posted by: EyeMWing
Originally posted by: Fritzo
Wow..this is so true. I was so used in high school because I was the "nice guy". Always able to drive, always there to lend money, always there to give advice. Always going home by myself while the hot girls went out with my crazy drummer and my psycho singer after Sat. night shows.
Now I'm in my 30's, and I'm pretty successful, stayed in shape, and retained most of my youthful looks. I went to a high school reunion last year and DAMN- I could have had an 8-some in the back seat of my SUV if I wanted too
The moral of the story: Girls- that nice guy may seem boring to you at first, but he's probably going to be the best thing to happen to you.
Your story artificially induces hope.
What hope? That 10 years down the line, a nice guy will have the chance to bang used up girls that look like they're 50? haha
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