Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
WOW! I am glad i dont have you guys as husbands.:roll:
so you'd have a problem with getting a man-made diamond? even though its more perfect than a natural one?
if so, why?
not at all. i would be happy with anything HE choose. I suggested that, but he said no to it.
So then I dont get it, we are saying we would have said YES to your suggestion, what makes us so bad?
Too many commercials have too many women thinking the only way he REALLY loves you is if the ring is big and the wedding is expensive.
So much about marriage is all about money nowadays its not funny.
If and when I ever get married TWO things have to be understood. SHE will want a synth. diamond and she will know WHY she wants it over a "real" one. and second, the wedding will be like, 10 people, tops. Parents, best friends, thats it.
I don't need to spend $40,000 to make a lifelong commitment, and all that crap, is purely commercial. The cakes, the reception, the catering, its all popular because of BUSINESS.
Used to be if there was food it was because FAMILY got together and made it. If there was an elaborate bit of decoration, it was because FAMILY got together and did it.
Now everyones too lazy, doesn't care, and is expected to just hire someone else to do it.
Loses all its meaning.
A diamond should MEAN something. It should be a symbol unsullied by the struggle and death of innocent men women and children.
And I don't really know that I'd want to spend the rest of my life with someone who didn't get that.