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Dear ATOT virgins: please go get laid.

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Red Squirrel said:
Sex is a reproductive tool as well as an act of affection that is reserved for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Sadly today's world accepts everything as being ok when it comes to that such as sex before marriage, gays, lesbians etc. The concept of a real proper family is diminishing more and more these days.

In the end, when you do find the girl you want to spend the rest of your life with, what do you think that girl will like more, if she's just one of many that you had sex with, or if she's the first and only, because you saved it for her?

Personally, I'm happy single right now, so I could not care less about sex. I just don't see the thrill of having sex with some random girl. To me it's something personal that is between me and a special girl that I want to spend the rest of my life with, if ever I decide I do want a girl in my life.
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Spoken like a virgin who can't get any...
 
Red Squirrel rose a good point, that's exactly how it worked in the past, dating was fun, enjoyable and easy.
Yet in current system the stigma surrounding virginity is pretty bad, the older you are the worse it will get.
btw, Forget that confidence cliche, it's shit alpha guys on internet are spreading everywhere, for purpose to completely destroy your chances to have any relationships(or sex for that matter).
Only thing you need is to have basic hygienic and communication matters and be with women in frequent interaction, there is no other way to gain experience and confidence than just being with them and learn via hit and miss pattern, you won't get laid in week or 2 but you will get somewhere sooner or later.
The worst case scenario is for people suffering from fear of intimacy, for those dating and sex are worst nightmares and are very challenging to withstand.
 
EliteRetard said:
Lets just say I'm in that ~35yr category...I've never kissed a girl or even so much as held hands. There is no way a hot 18-25yr old is going to want anything to do with me.

I look very similar to this:
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Even in the extremely off chance some hot female has some slight interest in me, I would never know it because I was never taught anything. I rarely go out and even rarer am I alone (usually I only leave to help a friend/family). I am literally retarded and extremely socially awkward, I come off as creepy and offensive to most people and I still haven't figured out why.
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So shave your fucking face and go out and meet women. Looks like you're aware of some of the things you're doing wrong.

You can't just wait for pussy to fall in your lap, you have to go out and get it.
 
have you guys ever imaginaded a girl with the same problems as you? self steem, social fears etc?

the way you're talking, i guess that when you dream about a girl you call it a nightmare haha

they're just as human, weak and fragile as you are..
 
Eliteretard needs to stop making excuses. You say your 35 and your only looking at 18-25? Wtf is wrong with you? Look at wemon your age and start bathing. Its pretty easy. Sure you dont want to belong to a club that would have you a member but at some point you got to get into the game.


I do know some people dont know how to be happy. You have to be happy on your own before you can be happy with someone else.


If thats really what you look like bathing helps.....
 
Red Squirrel said:
Personally, I'm happy single right now, so I could not care less about sex. I just don't see the thrill of having sex with some random girl. To me it's something personal that is between me and a special girl that I want to spend the rest of my life with, if ever I decide I do want a girl in my life.
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Hmm, I thought you were a girl. I stand corrected.
 
While I'm not in the virgin club, I will say that getting out if it is overrated. There isn't something magical about you that is going to change.

Regular sex is nice but to go after whatever or pay for sex just to get out if the club isn't really worth the effort.
 
Capt Caveman said:
Spoken like a virgin who can't get any...
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It's not a matter of can or cannot, it's a matter of want. There are plenty of situations where I could have got sex if I really wanted to but it just does not interest me to do it with some random girl just so I can say I did it.

I could not care less about sex. There are more exciting things in life to put on my bucket list, such as sky diving.
 
Red Squirrel said:
It's not a matter of can or cannot, it's a matter of want. There are plenty of situations where I could have got sex if I really wanted to but it just does not interest me to do it with some random girl just so I can say I did it.

I could not care less about sex. There are more exciting things in life to put on my bucket list, such as sky diving.
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Asexual.
 
Red Squirrel said:
It's not a matter of can or cannot, it's a matter of want. There are plenty of situations where I could have got sex if I really wanted to but it just does not interest me to do it with some random girl just so I can say I did it.

I could not care less about sex. There are more exciting things in life to put on my bucket list, such as sky diving.
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Sure.

Of course, you could also develop a relationship with a girl. It's just not random sex or having sex with the girl you're going to marry.

Excuses. You're either gay or as mentioned asexual.

Yes, b/c you couldn't go ski diving one day and then go out with your gf afterwards and have sex. :biggrin:
 
Sad sad world this atot is. Heck I was a hideous youth and only slightly better looking as I got older and I've managed to have girlfriends and now a wife. You guys that can't are just making excuses and or just too chicken to make it happen. Don't be a coward your whole life and miss out on having a relationship with a woman.
 
Capt Caveman said:
Excuses. You're either gay or as mentioned asexual.
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Gays are very sexually driven, they are just attracted to same sex partner.

Either way, if Red Squirrel is not asexual, than I guess it would be worth working on sex stuff, because it's our biological need, the only difference between eating and sex is that you won't die from not having it, yet your body craves for it same way like for food, water, sleeping etc.
 
If getting laid is still, like, one of the most important goals in your life (whether you've been laid or not)...congrats, you've got it easy.

When you've matured past the basic desire to stick your dick in stuff, life gets more depressing.

I yearn to find an available woman of high intellect and emotional compatibility. So we can cuddle. Or something.

Fucking some vapid whore does not fill the emptiness.
 
Red Squirrel said:
It's not a matter of can or cannot, it's a matter of want. There are plenty of situations where I could have got sex if I really wanted to but it just does not interest me to do it with some random girl just so I can say I did it.

I could not care less about sex. There are more exciting things in life to put on my bucket list, such as sky diving.
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Do you fap?
 
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