Dating sites?

[PingSpike]

btw, thanks for ruining this thread with the endless nested quotes.

 

[mrrman]

Ive used lavalife.com

 

[Ryan]

Myspace worked for me!

 

[blazerazor]

Originally posted by: gigapet
not to mention women on dating sites 9/10 times have something seriously wrong with them, the top 3 being:

1) extremely low self esteem and co-dependant ------who wants a girl like that?

2) serious emotional baggage from the damage done by the men in their previous relationships--------who wants to spend time cleaining up someone elses mess?

3) just down right tramps.

..:: Now thats my kind of woman. :thumbsup: :laugh: ::..

But really, This is always the kind of girl I end up with. :roll:

 

[abc]

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: HumblePie

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Hyperblaze

Originally posted by: gigapet

Originally posted by: Sudheer Anne
the reason why you aren't meeting girls and hooking up with them is because you are trying too hard. stop making it your goal to find a girl and hookup with them whenever you go out. just go out and have a good time and let whatever happens happen. life has a funny way of working out, and when you least expect to find someone you will. at least it has been that way in my case.

honestly, just be yourself and be relaxed around women. women are turned off and scared by guys that are on the prowl, and they are much more attracted to a guy that is carefree and just being himself.

terrible advice. Women are attracted to a guy that sees what he wants and isnt afraid to go for it. They are not attracted to the lame chumps that sit around waiting for something to happen.

you are generalizing too much. Not every woman wants the same thing or looking for the same kind of man.

Same goes for the guys. Not all guys look for the same kind of woman.

Me thinks you are used to one particular kind of woman.

I've met several types. Some types interest me, other types don't.

Women are genetically hardwired to seek out the alpha male. Its not something they "undo"

Gernally? yes. Always? no.

Not always the case that women want alpha males. Just like men are genetically "wired" to BE alpha males, however we all aren't. Yah, certain roles, and attraction schemes will work 9 times out of 10 if you are looking to get LAID. I have zero problems with getting my nuts off if I want. Heck, I could call right now for a nooner with some really skanky girls I know. Would I? no. I'm not into damaged goods or girls like that.

When you have progressed passed 25 and get closer to 30 gigapet and are STILL single, then you can comment.

men are not genetically wired to be alpha. This is not PC but Face it some people are just genetically inferior-----beta.......its darwin at work man.....back when we were hunter gatherers in small tribes....the alpha male was banging everyones wife subsequently passing on his genes while the beta raised the kids that he thought to be his........while the betas had to take mating opportunities on the rare occasion that they were given to them.

survivaly of the fittest is still very much alive today. Look at all the hollywood hearthrobs that every woman wants....... brad pitt, james bond, pacino, di nero, all VarYing in looks but all alpha.

eh.... only bec. these faces are promoted by american wasp entertainment media... you think BET publications promote these faces? lol.

You think BOLLYWOOD says 'brad pitt' hottest MAN alive??lol... nah, it's crap fed by 'seventeen' 'ym' 'vogue' 'peoplemagazine' 'accesshollywood' whatever for decades.

 

[thehstrybean]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Scribe
I know the usual suspects, Match.com, eharmony, etc... but most sites seem to be catering to the one night flings... any sites where people have had luck with long term serious relationships? I'm tired of the wham bam thank you maam... getting tired.

Anyways, lemme know.

yes, here's a good one:

GOTIAOITRWTMC.com

get off the internet and out into the real world to meet chicks

QFT...

 

[lokiju]

Originally posted by: HumblePie

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: Scribe
I know the usual suspects, Match.com, eharmony, etc... but most sites seem to be catering to the one night flings... any sites where people have had luck with long term serious relationships? I'm tired of the wham bam thank you maam... getting tired.

Anyways, lemme know.

yes, here's a good one:

GOTIAOITRWTMC.com

get off the internet and out into the real world to meet chicks

That's really mean to say. Literally, it's not that easy.

I work in a femaless environment. As a computer dork you don't get to see many girls. In school, I didn't get to meet many girls either. It's not from lack of trying, trust me.

I go out nearly every weekend. Bars, clubs, "scenes" or whatever. All I end up doing is being rejected over and over and spending way too much money on drinks that ost wayyy too much. I've even tried going to churches and volunteering time at places "girls would be" to get to a place where I could meet them.

It is true I'm not turned down all the time, but girls you meet in clubs are interested in one thing if they are available at all. If the OP, like me, is looking for a bit more then wham-bamm-thank-you-mam, maybe because we aren't overly horny sub-21 year olds anymore, then looking out on the weekend for chicks isn't going to work. Although there is always a chance you get lucky. Of course you can win the lottery too for millions of dollars. Personally, I think the chances of striking it rich from the lottery seem more likely then meeting a girl I like and likes me back out on the weekend.

Heck, I've taken up on flirting with EVERY chick I see and come across that catches my eye. In the post office, at souper salad (I made a long post on this one), from the grocery store, at my aunt's church, my brother's fiance's friends, friends's of friends of friends, and anything else I can.

This is why I gave up lol. Online doesn't work though to answer the OP's original question. Least not for me. As you've put it, you get really wierd psychos, those looking for sex only, or BOTS. The bots are the worst. Visit my cam sometime. It's free!!! just sign up with your credit card on our unsecured site and we promise not to file any charges..... ROFLMAO.

To the OP, I'd say not to sweat it. I'm not going to anymore. That by no means is to be taken as a quote from me to give up entirely. You should still try to put yourself in places where you can meet girls. Just don't go out of your way to try and hook up with them.

:beer: for one of the best YAGT threads evar!

And to confirm your findings, I have done many of the above items listed also without any luck at all, but still ended up finding a person that I'm scared to say is perfect for me through friends.

 

[alimoalem]

Originally posted by: Scribe
I know the usual suspects, Match.com, eharmony, etc... but most sites seem to be catering to the one night flings... any sites where people have had luck with long term serious relationships? I'm tired of the wham bam thank you maam... getting tired.

Anyways, lemme know.

lol on the wham bam thank you maam

what ethnicity are you? type (ethnicity) dating site in yahoo or google and see what comes up

 

[BurnItDwn]

My boss met his fiance at eharmony.com they seem like a very happy couple and I am happy for them.

 

[Shyatic]

Originally posted by: alimoalem

Originally posted by: Scribe
I know the usual suspects, Match.com, eharmony, etc... but most sites seem to be catering to the one night flings... any sites where people have had luck with long term serious relationships? I'm tired of the wham bam thank you maam... getting tired.

Anyways, lemme know.

lol on the wham bam thank you maam

what ethnicity are you? type (ethnicity) dating site in yahoo or google and see what comes up

My parents are from Pakistan -- I'm born and raised in the US. Makes for a terrible mix, trust me.