Couple Charged With Having Intercourse In Front of 9-Year-Old Daughter to Teach Her About Sex

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Couple Charged With Having Intercourse In Front of 9-Year-Old Daughter to Teach Her About Sex
Saturday , February 10, 2007

PROVIDENCE, R.I. ? A Woonsocket mother and her boyfriend are headed to trial on charges they had intercourse in front of the woman's 9-year-old daughter as a way to teach the girl about sex.

Rebecca Arnold, of Woonsocket, and her boyfriend, David Prata, have pleaded not guilty to felony child-neglect charges. A pre-trial conference is scheduled for next month.

When questioned by an investigator from the state Department of Children, Youth and Families, Prata, 33, said he and Arnold, 36, had sex "all the time" in front of the child and that "we don't believe in hiding anything."

He said the girl would often be on the bed watching as the couple had sex. Though they did not ask her to leave, they also did not force her to remain on the bed, Prata said.

Asked why he thought a child that age should know about sexual acts, Prata replied, "We wanted to prepare her so she would know how," according to a report from the investigator, Vanessa E. Cisela.

The girl, who is now 11, went to live with her biological father in North Adams, Mass., after spending the summer with her mother in Woonsocket.

Her teacher called the Child Abuse Hotline in December 2004 to report that the girl said her mother and her boyfriend had sex in front of her.

The child told a Massachusetts social services investigator that her mother and Prata never touched her or tried to include her in the sex.

Woonsocket police arrested Prata and Arnold in February 2005. The couple is accused of "providing an environment that is lewd and depraved in a manner that makes their home unfit for the child to live in," according to court records.

Prata and Arnold are free on bail pending a March 19 pretrial conference in Family Court. They each face one to three years in prison or a maximum $1,000 fine, or both.

Their lawyers did not return phone calls from The Providence Journal.

 

Wuffsunie

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Who wants to bet on their getting more jail time than if they were physically abusive to each other in front of the child?
 

Phokus

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I think i've read the exact same story before several years ago too. Eww.
 

shortylickens

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I dont believe in hiding sexuality from kids. They will learn about it one way or another. Better to teach them properly before TV, magazines and especially the internet do it.
HOWEVER......
I dont think banging in front of your kids is the healthy way to go about it.
Better to get an educational video or something.
 

bobdelt

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Kids should learn about sex on the street and in porno's - and not live pronos of your mom and her bf.
 

Brutuskend

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In a large part of the world seeing you parents having sex is how kids learn about sex.
And for the most part that's the way it's always been. Not only do a lot of families share a single room, but many share a single bed.

Charging them for that is, IMO nuts....
 

SKORPI0

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Woonsocket? More like Poonsocket. :D

WTF approach on teaching kids about sex. :Q
 
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What are the odds that the one woman (out of millions) who thought that was a good idea would end up dating a guy who ALSO thought it would be a good idea? The only thing this story tells me is those two idiots were meant for each other :p
 

Jeff7

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Had the guy been punching his girlfriend in front of their child, there'd likely only be an assault charge, but no child-neglect charges.
Go figure.

So what kind of intercourse was this? Normal, loving intercourse, or were they gettin' their freak on, with bondage and the like?

Who knows, maybe they're too poor to afford a TV, so this is a way to entertain the entire family at the same time. They could make it a game show - bet who's going to reach orgasm first, or else guess which ones are real and which are fake. Award points based on accuracy.
 

mrSHEiK124

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I don't actually see the problem here. If it was a 9 year old boy he'd have already found porn 2 years prior to the incident :p
 

mugs

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Originally posted by: Jeff7
Had the guy been punching his girlfriend in front of their child, there'd likely only be an assault charge, but no child-neglect charges.
Go figure.

Picture in your head your mother having sex.
 

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Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Jeff7
Had the guy been punching his girlfriend in front of their child, there'd likely only be an assault charge, but no child-neglect charges.
Go figure.

Picture in your head your mother having sex.

i think every kid at one point in time has walked in on there parents doing the dirty bird. its not such a big deal specially when you your self have been walked in on by your parents. though it would be nasty to watch my mom sit there and boogy down her bf but who knows, RI is wierd
 

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Originally posted by: HybridSquirrel
Originally posted by: mugs
Originally posted by: Jeff7
Had the guy been punching his girlfriend in front of their child, there'd likely only be an assault charge, but no child-neglect charges.
Go figure.

Picture in your head your mother having sex.

i think every kid at one point in time has walked in on there parents doing the dirty bird.

i never did, thank christ.