Sorry if I sound condescending, but you do know how to install/remove SODIMM memory, right? Unhook the little clips on the sides so that the RAM pops up at a ~45 degree angle, pull the RAM out at that angle. Installation is the exact opposite of this. It really shouldn't be hard. The socket pins might "bite down" a bit on the connectors, but not enough for it to even possibly damage anything. If the socket pins provide too much resistance, that might cause your RAM to not seat properly and thus not be detected.Thanks. They are hard to remove but after some wiggling all looks good. It is a Skull Canyon NUC. Any tips for removing if I need to at another date? They are slotted quite firmly and I wouldn't want to snap anything....Thanks again for input!