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Help yes. Full ride no. My parents split it 50/50 with me. They picked up the room & board & books. I picked up tuition through scholarships, work study, and loans.
It's a good agreement. Your parents have a vested interest in your education and have a right to kick your ass if you are screwing around. Plus, if do jack around it's your own pocketbook that is being affected too since you'll be paying on those loans when you get out.
I also do not agree with the statement "Since my parents didn't pay for it I couldn't go to the best school". To that I say bullsh!t. The creme rises to the top. If you are good enough to get into that school you would have gotten scholarships or a sponsor to get there(or just sucked it up and take loans). Or, if you really were that bright of a kid, the school wouldn't have made much of a choice since you likely would do well with a degree from any number of schools.
The biggest factor in a sucessful career is you. Not your degree. A degree from a lofty school will get you some looks, but you still have to sell yourself. A school name won't do that for you.
It's a good agreement. Your parents have a vested interest in your education and have a right to kick your ass if you are screwing around. Plus, if do jack around it's your own pocketbook that is being affected too since you'll be paying on those loans when you get out.
I also do not agree with the statement "Since my parents didn't pay for it I couldn't go to the best school". To that I say bullsh!t. The creme rises to the top. If you are good enough to get into that school you would have gotten scholarships or a sponsor to get there(or just sucked it up and take loans). Or, if you really were that bright of a kid, the school wouldn't have made much of a choice since you likely would do well with a degree from any number of schools.
The biggest factor in a sucessful career is you. Not your degree. A degree from a lofty school will get you some looks, but you still have to sell yourself. A school name won't do that for you.