CHILD ABUSE

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FettsBabe

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Citrix..."mind your own business" I guess you would say that if you knew someone was being beaten and bruised or molested...people like you make me sick.

Silence is not the answer.

Booberfett is not my hubby! Why do people think that...he is in Missouri or Minnesota and I'm in NC!!!!

Psychoholic is my hubby.

 

Pacfanweb

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Rock on FB. More people need to step up like you did. There are too many stupid people raising kids these days for everyone to just mind their own business and ignore abuse.

There is Children's Nyquil that contains no alcohol. Adult Nyquil does contain alcohol.

It does say on the label that for children under a certain age, ask your doctor....and he/she will tell you to GET SOME FREAKING CHILDREN'S NYQUIL.

Plus, this idiot lady said it helped the child sleep.....no, it helped drug her child so she didn't have to deal with him. She never said the kid was sick.
 

FettsBabe

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Pac - you are exactly right. The child was not sick and ate a healthy meal. She just chose to drug him. A few minutes after giving it to him he couldn't even hold his head up. I would have called CPS but I didn't have their name and they were leaving.

I hope she changes. Idiots like her are a dime a dozen.
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: FettsBabe
Yeah, I pretty much called her a child abuser and a stupid b**** all in one really big firm sentence!!!!

So... did you get a good tip?
 

FettsBabe

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I would have paid for their meal if they would have spoken to a doctor that minute! I got $3.50 on $40, but they paid before I told the f'n idiots off!!! LMAO!!!!
 

FettsBabe

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"How about "kids can't defend themselves"? "

Exactly!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I guess a 2-3 year old should say Yeah Mom and Dad you are stupid don't give me that. They trust us and we should honor that trust not abuse it!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Lifer
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Originally posted by: FettsBabe
I would have paid for their meal if they would have spoken to a doctor that minute! I got $3.50 on $40, but they paid before I told the f'n idiots off!!! LMAO!!!!

Wow. So not only are they assholes who drug their kid (apparently on a regular basis), but they're assholes who tip badly.
 

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Originally posted by: FettsBabe
Citrix..."mind your own business" I guess you would say that if you knew someone was being beaten and bruised or molested...people like you make me sick.

Silence is not the answer.

Booberfett is not my hubby! Why do people think that...he is in Missouri or Minnesota and I'm in NC!!!!

Psychoholic is my hubby.

you make me sick for wanting to call CPS on a family you dont know based on ONE incident.

FYI if i knew with out a doubt that a child was being beaten NOT spanked or being sexually abused your damn right i would make the call. But before i made that call i would make absoutely sure the allegations are correct and true. I could not live with myself if i was wrong and a family was put through the CPS hell and split up.

so again before you call CPS on somebody you better make damn sure you are right and not reacting to a knee jerk emotion.

also, if that couple calls your boss about this you may be out of a job.
 

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Originally posted by: FettsBabe
Booberfett is not my hubby! Why do people think that...he is in Missouri or Minnesota and I'm in NC!!!!
Just a guess, but it might be your name.

 

FettsBabe

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Chill Out!!!!

1st - The child's welfare is above anything the parents go through with CPS.

2nd - CPS has changed seriously changed in the last few years.

3rd - No, you don't wait until you see it, if you suspect it that is enough.

4th - Its not for you to decide...its CPS!

You tell the child...yeah I wanted to make sure you were abused before I actually did something...sorry, I just couldn't bear to put your parents through an investigation.

Last time I checked when you are a parent your childs interest is above your own. Where do you even get your opinion as ok???????????//
 

FettsBabe

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Fett as in Star Wars!!!! Babe as in I would love him...guns, doesn't speak and great body!!!! lmao
 

OutHouse

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Originally posted by: FettsBabe
Chill Out!!!!

1st - The child's welfare is above anything the parents go through with CPS.

its not just the parents but also the kid and the siblings.

2nd - CPS has changed seriously changed in the last few years.

if you say so.

3rd - No, you don't wait until you see it, if you suspect it that is enough.

totall BS. sure go ahead and ruin lives on false allegations you will have to live with it not me.


4th - Its not for you to decide...its CPS!

that is some of the most brainwashed crap i have seen posted. so if i see a bunch of bruises on a girl and I call CPS and turn the parents in for abuse based on those bruises alone? and after CPS turns everybodys life upside down it turns out the girl plays competive sports?
You tell the child...yeah I wanted to make sure you were abused before I actually did something...sorry, I just couldn't bear to put your parents through an investigation.

yea you should because again its not just the parents who will get questioned.

Last time I checked when you are a parent your childs interest is above your own. Where do you even get your opinion as ok???????????//

i know all about being a parent, i have 3 kids and where i get my opinion from is from seeing a friend and his wife of of ours get totally owned by CPS on false reporting. Ive seen first hand on what that does to a family and that crap stays on your record even proven false. so unless you know for a FACT that a kid is getting abused keep your mouth shut and quit sticking your nose in other peoples affairs.

this is my last post in this thread.

 

FettsBabe

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"this is my last post in this thread"

Run Like A Chicken Big Boy!!!!

A child's interest is above the parents and I saw them give a alcohol based adult medication to their child who said it was for "sleep."
I also saw his head start to tilt a few minutes later and he could barely hold it up.

Drug abuse, child abuse, child neglect and possibly child death. Oh, yeah, but I am supposed to be sure... I saw it big boy...i meant little chicken!!!!!!
 
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Originally posted by: FettsBabe
"this is my last post in this thread"

Run Like A Chicken Big Boy!!!!

A child's interest is above the parents and I saw them give a alcohol based adult medication to their child who said it was for "sleep."
I also saw his head start to tilt a few minutes later and he could barely hold it up.

Drug abuse, child abuse, child neglect and possibly child death. Oh, yeah, but I am supposed to be sure... I saw it big boy...i meant little chicken!!!!!!

What I want to know is how you ever became an elite member. :confused:
 

sygyzy

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I am surprised you said it too considering the person you seem to love the most is yourself.
 

Captante

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Although its nice that you spoke up & I agree that drugging a child with adult cold medicine is flat out wrong, I have to question how much actual experience you have in dealing with CPS if you think they do a fair & equitable job of investigating familys accused of abuse.

I agree with Citrix that calling them on the parents based on the one incident that you witnessed would be irresponsible & an over-reaction on your part ... further I think you need to calm down.
 

rise

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citrix knows far more of the ways of the world than op, thats evident.