Cheating or not cheating?

[Feneant2]

I will keep this short as people hate long thread.

I am close with our student at work, we spend a lot of time together and there is a lot of harmles flirting going on.

Last Friday, we spent the evening together, we went out to eat, hung out around town a bit and then went back to my place to watch a movie. There was no physical contact involved.

Now, I am single but she is not. To this, my coworker says she is cheating (his girlfriend concurs), but I say it is not.

Vote away so I can rub it in his ugly Anandtech reading face. (he is reading this post now)

 

[T3C]

Yes she is.

 

[geckojohn]

nice job! was it a pr0n movie? THat will make all the difference in the world.

 

[eigen]

she is cheating.Believe me I know.She is not cheating physically yet, but she is cheating emotionally.Bang her now.

 

[SaturnX]

Yeah she is.. how would you like it if you had a girlfriend and she was spending evenings, and dinners with some other guy...

--Mark

 

[BriGy86]

i don't think it is, but don't let it get any further

 

[AdamSnow]

Not cheating if nothing happened...

BUT : I'd be pissed if my girlfriend did that.

 

[ggnl]

It could be considered cheating if she lied to her bf about what she did. Otherwise, it's completely harmless.

 

[cjgallen]

Originally posted by: Feneant2
Vote away so I can rub it in his ugly Anandtech reading face. (he is reading this post now)

We should link him to your other threads where you bragged about peeing in her butt 😉

 

[DeadByDawn]

If she can't tell her SO about what she did, then she is cheating.

 

[KK]

Originally posted by: Feneant2
There was no physical contact involved.

wft, are you gay? Not that there's anything wrong with that.

 

[imthebadguy]

just rub one out, and then ask if she wants to bang

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

If you have to ask...

 

[xospec1alk]

flirting != cheating.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: KK

Originally posted by: Feneant2
There was no physical contact involved.

wft, are you gay? Not that there's anything wrong with that.

:roll:

 

[jdub1107]

Originally posted by: DeadByDawn
If she can't tell her SO about what she did, then she is cheating.

Yep, really depends if her SO knows about it. Even then she still could be emotionally cheating. The situation seems more like cheating than not.

 

[eigen]

Originally posted by: xospec1alk
flirting != cheating.

watching movies at a dudes house != flirting.

 

[isekii]

it's not cool for her SO but it's definitely not cheating.

 

[Patt]

Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Not cheating if nothing happened...

BUT : I'd be pissed if my girlfriend did that.

This man speaks the truth.

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Originally posted by: Patt

Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Not cheating if nothing happened...

BUT : I'd be pissed if my girlfriend did that.

This man speaks the truth.

Cheating is more than physical interaction.

 

[Feneant2]

Amusing, my coworker is reading about butt peeing and she walks in his cubicle...
It's a close vote

 

[cjgallen]

Originally posted by: Feneant2
Amusing, my coworker is reading about butt peeing and she walks in his cubicle...
It's a close vote

Glad I could help 🙂

 

[ElFenix]

Originally posted by: eigen

Originally posted by: xospec1alk
flirting != cheating.

watching movies at a dudes house != flirting.

knowing how atoters operate, the poster probably thought that what she was doing, such as talking about her cat, was flirting. when in fact, it is not. see, he probably thinks she is coming onto him when in reality she would be abhorred by the idea. so, as he is construing her normal everyday behavior as flirting, she is not cheating. she merely has a male friend.

 

[beach2nd]

pics?

 

[Aharami]

Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Not cheating if nothing happened...

BUT : I'd be pissed if my girlfriend did that.

yea