Cheating girlfriend: what would you have done? (update: what I did)

[UnixFreak]

<< When you write these things, does it fully compensate for your severe feelings of inadequacy? Or do you still walk away feeling empty and inferior, no matter how much machismo you put into your posts? >>



So you're a psychiatrist, right? You read (part) of my posts, and your expert analysis is that I have feelings of inadequacy? Please. The fact that I dont let women do this to me shows just the opposite. If I was feeling inadequate, I would feel like I am not good enough, and I need to let a girl do this, just to keep her. Think about it.

 

[weezergirl]

well i just read what you ended up doing. the only thing i am a bit weary about is the second ultimatum. how if she does it again, then this time u will definitely break up with her. first off, now that she knows this if she ends up cheating on you again do you seriously think she will tell you? and second, do you think if you did find out you could have the guts to actually break up with her? she knew the consequences beforehand, given her past, and how you felt about it. yet she still let it happen. who's to say it won't happen again? anyways, there is always a chance that it will work for you guys but i for one would not tolerate somebody cheating on me and i know my bf would not either. and we would both never do something like that knowing it would hurt each other so much. mistakes happen, but when their mistakes drive u into depression and make you want to commit suicide, it's time to reevaluate your relationship.

 

[UnixFreak]

<< I may not agree with you UnixFreak, but I thank you for taking the time to comment. >>



I am not trying to be mean, I am trying to help, bro.

 

[Shy]

<< I am not trying to be mean, I am trying to help, bro. >>



Hey, I understand. If I didn't care for her as much as I do, I'd have followed your adivce and she'd be long gone.

-Shy

edited: spelling mistakes and a comma. too much work! shy losing ability to type!

 

[Shy]

Alright guys, I'm leaving civilization for the weekend. Thanks to everyone who posted. Since I won't be able to check these precious forums again 'till Monday, I figure we might as well just let this thread die.

And if any of you are still begging for pics of my &quot;special lady friend&quot; (to quote the always entertaining Big Lebowski), perhaps I'll entertain the idea Monday night when I return and have access to a scanner.

But maybe not. I'm not that nice a guy =)

-Shy