i would like my wife to know atleast basic cooking. I dont expect her to be at the level of my mom (who incidently is an award winning chef). I can cook for myself and provide for the two of us if necessary. In my eye yes she should know some amount of basic cooking and enjoy helping me in cooking.
As for me being about "all good food", I have been pampered by my mom and yes I will have to vote for a home cooked meal. Though i love to eat outside, it does get expensive. My taste for "home cooked meals" is so strong that I drive 40 miles round trip to my parents place for dinner every night.
Well as for you sucking in cooking, you can learn to cook. I am sure you know how to boil water and make pasta. Others you can always learn. As for disappointing a man, I think you should as vipergts about it.
I dont expect my wife to do all teh cooking I will split up some of the cooking, but it would good for her to know some of the stuff.
If she doenst like cooking she better be open to eating stuff other than what she is used to.