to all: I am sorry for the bad experiences you all have had with those proclaiming to be Christians. However not I nor anyone else can make people quit calling themselves "Christains". Instead of thinking bad of Christians I would urge you to see what the Bible says about Christians and then determine whether that person is a true Christian or not.
I am curious what the difference between "born again Christian" and Christain is? John 3:3 "Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God." That is what Jesus said. Every true Christian has been born again. (I suppose it is possible for them to not know this terminology) That does not mean I went through some physical rebirth but spiritual rebirth. So it is impossible to be a Christain and not be born again. Now with this I do believe that there are many who claim Christianity and are not saved and there are many who claim to "be born again" and are not saved and there are many who claim both and are not saved.
Some of you all say that you were raised Christian. Christianity is a work in the heart. You cannot be raised it. I was raised IN a Christian home. An actual good one. This did not, does not, and never will make me a Christian. My parents took me to church (not the best churches though) and lived according to the word of God (not perfectly, no one does). Perhaps this is what some of you had. For me, this made Christianity more appealing because I saw my neighbors on drugs and cussing and running around with no purpose and I also saw in contrast what my parents had and still have. Now if this is what you all were talking about then okay but if not then you were not raised in a Christian home. Going to church does not constitute a Christian home. It constitutes a church going home. A Christian home is (as the above mentioned states) one where the members are Christians, i.e. born again, disciples of Christ, obedient to His commands,
My faith is based on the gift of God. "For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast." Ephesians 2:8,9
That is why I am no better than anyone else. God has shown mercy on me apart from anything I had, am currently, or will ever do.
to Napalm381: There is the fact that Jesus, God the Son, was taught and believed the OT. So I have no trouble at all accepting the same thing that Jesus did during His human life. This may mean nothing to you but it's huge to me.
Many have a knowledge of God and Christ and are monotheistic, this is not salvation. This is the same thing that the demons possess. (James 2:19 "You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that--and shudder."
to Total Reflected Power: being born again is when God shows saving faith and grace to someone through Jesus Christ His Son and makes the individual a "new creature" 2 Corinthians 5:17 Before this I sought my own glory, and did not love God. ("For this is the love of God that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome." 1 John 5:3) Yes, I proclaim it to the best of my ability in my words and deeds. Yes, again. I believe all that the Bible affirms is the inspired word of God, innerant, and sufficient. Adam and Eve lived.
Sorry this is so unorganized.
Well that is my understanding with the light that I have been given.