<< So I shipped at back, at almost half the expense of the product itself. Skip ahead 4 months. He has ignored 5 increasingly urgent, but always civil, emails. He has refused to return two phone calls to his office. And most recently, after I posted on his message board in the "order-related difficulties" section, he deleted my two posts and banned me from further posting - all entirely without communication. >>
This is the part most of the people in this thread have a problem with. What was the tone of these "urgent, but always civil, emails"? If you came off sounding like a whiney bastard, then that could explain things. Also, have you checked all the correspondence you originally received from Ian to make sure he did not indicate to you that he no longer carried the product you were returning?
I order all of my cooling equipment from 2cooltek, but I cannot recall if I have ever had to deal with returning an item. As far as paying for return shipping, that will happen with 100% of all smaller on-line retailers. Large volume retailers like Dell can afford to absorb return shipping on products because their volume of sales allows them to absorb this cost. A smaller retailer like 2cooltek cannot absorb this cost, which is why it gets passed on to you, the consumer. Also, since this is a 1 man operation, the demands on Ian's time are much greater than at Dell where they can afford to pay hundreds of people to deal specifically with whiney people with problems.
Before we can accept the facts you have presented, you need to give more evidence that you made every attempt to contact Ian in a civil, adult manner. From the number of people willing to back him up just in this thread, I'd say the blame may point to you, dpostma, as being the culprit here, not Ian. Of course, it could just mean that Ian has turned a corner to the dark side and 2cooltek is ready for a slide, but until the preponderance of responses in a thread like this indicates that 2cooltek is indeed a shady retailer, I will continue to buy all my cooling products from him.