Originally posted by: Geekbabe
The problem with friends who suddenly get religion is that very often they decide that you need to get it too.Aside from all his fears that this woman is being taken advantage of (and what friend worthy of the title doesn't worry when this is happening to a friend?) the worst part of this whole thing is that she's now going to spend a lot of time and energy preaching her new found fundamentalist viewpoints to him. Sorry,but the only thing worse than a reformed smoker at a party is a newborn fundamentalist.
To the OP, all I can suggest is that you point out logically to her the points you've mentioned here.. and put strict limits on the amount of fundie BS you're willing to listen to,be prepared to end the friendship.
I agree, I dislike people who prostelitize, even if they share my beliefs. However, you assume that all who have religion will prostelitize, this is not true, the majority of people will not say anything about religion unless you ask them about it. Most of my family is pretty religious, and they won't say anything to me about it unless I ask them a question, then they are more than willing to answer it, but not prostletize. Also, I think that the original poster may be putting quite a bit of spin on the situation by calling them fundementalists as such I don't think it is fair to assume his friend will begin prostletizing. Finally, you are all saying "point out logically where her religion fails, that will get her!" I would like to see some points that you can prove fail? More than likely you will simply say you cannot prove the existence of God, nor that of miracles, however you cannot disprove their existence, and being that you are attempting to disuade people from religion the burden of proof is on you, hence your arguments fail.
