You yourself admit that it is somewhat arbitrary. Which is honest and I applaud you for that at least.
of course the real problem is malthusian. Most of the problems in the world today are a result of overpopulation. Why is immigration with Mexico such a contentious issue? b/c in Mexico there is not enough for the people there, and as a result they flood north looking for work, and people in the US are unhappy and it is completely understandable IMO. Why is global warming such a problem? because growing populations will continue to consume forests and burn more fossil fuels.
in light of such concrete problems. metaphysical issues like abortion are utterly unimportant.
My God, you're so full of shit. How can you manage to breathe with all that shit spewing from your mouth?
The solution to "overpopulation," as you put it, is not to kill all the fucking babies. Sure, we could go all Jonathan Swift and solve all the problems of hunger and overcrowding in the world. But that is not a moral or ethical option. Personal responsibility is the key, and that has abso-fucking-lutely nothing to do with abortion, regardless of which side of the isle you're on.
One thing, however, is for certain: the SCOTUS has no jurisdiction to pass law, and thus RvW has no legal standing. It is political suicide to admit that, though, and so it will never be overturned. Ultimately, the Constitution leaves it up to the States to decide. I suppose it could be argued that the 14th Amendment outlaws abortion at the federal level, but it would be up to the courts to determine whether or not a fetus is protected as a person. In the event the SCOTUS decides that a fetus is not a person, then it would be left up to State legislatures to determine whether the specific medical procedure of abortion is legal or not in their particular states. State medical boards already regulate other medical procedures, such as botox injections, so this should be treated no differently. If, on the other hand, the SCOTUS decides that a fetus is a person, and therefore accorded the appropriate rights and privileges, the act of abortion would be murder just the same as euthenasia.
Whether or not a fetus is alive is a question of science as much as it is a question of philosophy, and is ultimately the key to whether or not abortion is murder or a medical procedure. If it is the former, it is clearly illegal. If it is the latter, it is up to the states to decide whether or not it is allowed.
None of your qualifications for "life" exclude a fetus. You say that it must have a connection with a community...you must never have met a pregnant woman. Baby showers clearly indicate that a fetus has a connection with the community. People aren't buying shit for the mother, they're buying it for the baby. A stillborn child was never technically alive outside of its mother's womb, and yet people bury them with full ceremony and funerals. What about a baby discarded immediately after birth? It was technically alive by every definition of the word, but never had a connection to the community. It was never able to be self sufficient. Would you consider it legal for a mother to throw her newborn baby in a dumpster?
Certainly not. And this is why personal responsibility is the key. Society does not hold the answer to everything. Society is not a magic wand that can make every situation better. If a person has sex and gets pregnant, that person has made a choice and needs to deal with the consequences. Our society, though, rewards bad decisions. There was a thread in here a couple weeks ago about a woman with 12 children by three different men who had no job and no way to provide for the children outside of welfare. Why should society take care of her kids? I'm sure she could have had them aborted, but she didn't. Why are we, as society, rewarding her with a lifestyle where she doesn't have to do anything and everything is given to her, just because she made 12 horrible decisions in her life? Maybe, since they were clearly suffering, we should have just killed them. Better yet, we could have killed half and fed them to the other half. That way, half would still be alive and well fed.
You see where your line of reasoning leads to? Nothing moral and nothing ethical. As a society, we need to put the emphasis back on personal responsibility, and people will start being more responsible.
As a personal anecdote: I know two people...a man and a woman. Both have been in and out of prison their entire lives. Both are drug addicts. The man has a kid by another woman. These two decide to hook up and have a baby. Why? Because the state gives the woman extra food (WIC) and extra money (EBT) if she has a kid. So they have a baby girl (beautiful baby girl, the light of my life). You know what they do next? The girl robs a Kohls and when she gets caught, she runs away leaving her baby girl in the shopping cart in the parking lot. She goes to jail and is out on bail thanks to a family friend of ours (to the tune of a $600/mo payment). You know what she does then? She leaves the baby home and they both go and try to rob a Kohls. They both get arrested and go to jail. She forfeits her bail and our family friend is out all of the bond money. And we get a paniced call one morning saying we need to go to her "apartment" (section 8 housing) to pick up the little girl before the police do so she wont go into CPS. For the last 12 months, both have been in prison. And you know what? They've decided that the first thing they are going to do when they get out is to have another baby. Why? Because it's more free food and more free money. We are still caring for the baby, and we would not trade her for the world. She is absolutely brilliant and a wonder of a child.
This is the society you've created. Abortion was an option, but it was not taken up because we reward them more for having the baby, despite the fact they cannot take care of it. Sure, we can't tell them not to have sex, but we can sure as shit not reward them if they're stupid enough to get pregnant. There are hundreds of charities that provide free birth control to women who want it. You can go to Planned Parenthood in any city and get all the free condoms you want. Nearly every college health center gives free condoms for the asking. There is no reason what so ever that a woman ever needs to get pregnant if she doesn't want to (aside from rape, but we're not talking about rape right now). Abortion is simply another way for people to escape the responsibility of their actions. But, even so, despite all your "reasoning", poor people don't have abortions. The government pays them not to.
This is why abortion for convinience's sake should be illegal. It has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not a fetus is alive, can feel pain, has awareness, is self sufficient, is connected to the community, or any other qualification you'd like to put on it.
Thus, I put to you: the pro-choice position is untenable and illogical.