At what point does it become okay to hit a woman back?

[her209]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: her209

Originally posted by: silverpig

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
At which point she punches me in the face, the gloves are off now. I turn around and punch her as hard as I could, a pretty good haymaker, to the face.

edit: For the record, I have two black eyes, stitches above one ete, and a bruised right cheek, I was spitting blood.

QFT and FTW. Those that think chicks are just harmless haven't gotten in a real fight with one.

Heck a pre-teen can lay a good wallop on you if you are not expecting it.

Do a little more reading:

After I punched the girl 2 guys came over and kicked my ass pretty bad because I punched a girl.

:roll:

I've had the case after some b*tches tried to wrong me, I corrected the situation. They tried to play the "victim" card to some other guys at the bar to see if the guys would help them. I mean, what were these guys thinking? I'm going to help these b*tches out (not knowing what the situation is) and I might get free ass tonight? Seriously.

Whatever, I can't help but think some guy got my girl in his bed last night.

She's been 100% honest to me but after last night I'm not sure.

After she lets her friends wail on me and just stands by and watch me get beat up by two other guys for defending myself, I wouldn't be calling her my girlfriend anymore.

 

[fitzov]

Originally posted by: Kilgor

Originally posted by: fitzov
There is the fading norm that men should not hit women, and the fading norm that women should be ladylike.

No there is a fading norm that men are men not wussy shemen that hit women.

there's some fairly tough women out there that will beat some men to a pulp--it's not about being a wussy

 

[fitzov]

Plus when you do those things, like popping shoulders out of sockets or hyper-extending an elbow, it seems to me less full of rage than a haymaker to the face.

Chuck Norris silently comes out of the shadows and calmly dislocates the woman's shoulder.

 

[RbSX]

I feel really sick right now.

I really care about this girl and last night put her in an impossible situation.

 

[LEDominator]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
Last night I went to the club with my girlfriend and some of her friends and a friend of mine. Later on in the evening we'd all had a fair amount to drink, at which point my girlfriend hits me jokingly, and i hit her back.. jokingly.

Next thing I know her 3 female friends start punching me, seriously. They weren't joking. At which point I start losing my cool, me and my buddy walk outside. Take a breather, the club was closing anyhow.

I start to kinda get angry when I see these two guys going after my girl, so obviously I'm not so happy about this. Go back to my car, grab my jacket and meet her in front of her friends place that we're meeting up at afterwards.

I see my girlfriend go up the elevator, I call her and tell her I need her to come down I have to talk to her about her friends hitting me.

She AND one of her friends come down, I tell my girlfriend that there is one thing in life that I won't take and that's being hit by anyone, especially a woman because I hate the double standard of not being able to hit back. I also told her I think her friend is a B1TCH for thinking she can get away with hitting me. I was hit by my parents as a kid, I promised myself it would never happen again, by anybody.

At which point she comes outside and starts giving me sh1t and starts getting physical, after 4 or 5 minutes of being pushed, prodded and punched, I finally turn around and trip the girl, tell her to get the fvck away from me because I'm not her punching bag and that this is between me and my girlfriend.

At which point she punches me in the face, the gloves are off now. I turn around and punch her as hard as I could, a pretty good haymaker, to the face.

So.. at which point does it become okay for a guy to defend himself? Seriously, how many punches before the double standard gets to go out the window?

Cliffs notes:

Read the fvcking post

Now obviously I feel ****** about it, but my question is

edit: For the record, I have two black eyes, stitches above one ete, and a bruised right cheek, I was spitting blood.

No cops? NM, went back and read through

 

[Tiamat]

you hit a woman when she becomes a bitch. thats about the only time.

 

[her209]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
I feel really sick right now.

I really care about this girl and last night put her in an impossible situation.

Believe me, there are much better chicks out there than the one you have.

 

[reverend boltron]

Originally posted by: fitzov

Plus when you do those things, like popping shoulders out of sockets or hyper-extending an elbow, it seems to me less full of rage than a haymaker to the face.

Chuck Norris silently comes out of the shadows and calmly dislocates the woman's shoulder.

See how calm that was? No rage there, only coolness. *brrRRrR*

 

[DAGTA]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
I feel really sick right now.

I really care about this girl and last night put her in an impossible situation.

What was impossible about it? She had the opportunity at the club to tell her girlfriends to stop hitting you. She had the opportunity later to not bring her girlfriend when she came to talk to you. Seriously, your girlfriend doesn't seem to care as much about you as you care about her.

 

[sandmanwake]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
I feel really sick right now.

I really care about this girl and last night put her in an impossible situation.

What impossible situation? You were being assulted and you defended yourself. She then choose to stand by while you got your ass kicked instead of speaking up for you. How is speaking up that you were only defending yourself an impossible choice to make?

 

[Kirby]

yeah, i would of wailed on her ass too. as for the two guys that beat your ass, thats when the knife comes out.

 

[tweakmm]

A really good backhand to the face with some weight behind it and then a walk away would have been what I would have done.
You can't punch a girl in the face in a situation like that, but you can bitch slap a bitch to show where the physical power lies.

Although really a lot of this does sound like your fault.
"The company one keeps..."

 

[homercles337]

You deserved to get your ass kicked and should have gone to jail for the weekend (no OR until you see the judge Tuesday morn). You created the situation. What are you doing dating a chic with friends like that anyway? Im imagining that you and your chic (friends included) are wannabe gang bangers or something. Are you too stupid to realize there are double standards for a reason? Sheesh...I would have given you a couple thumps to the melon as well (mostly for being so immature).

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara
I feel really sick right now.

She obviously doesn't care about you, wake up and smell the coffee buddy.

I really care about this girl and last night put her in an impossible situation.

I don't see the impossibility of anything.

 

[amdhunter]

The minute she opens her mouth. :|

 

[tweakmm]

Now that I've gotten some brew handy and possibly an evening sitting in an office troubleshooting a citical PC instead of going out and partying, what were the races of everyone involved? :evil:

 

[AnonymouseUser]

You should not have hit her!!! :|









You should have body slammed her! 😉

 

[fitzov]

Originally posted by: nkgreen
yeah, i would of wailed on her ass too. as for the two guys that beat your ass, thats when the knife comes out.

lol...at which point the permitted concealed handgun becomes justified in the eyes of the law.

the blade drawn, the woman beaten

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: tweakmm
Now that I've gotten some brew handy and possibly an evening sitting in an office troubleshooting a citical PC instead of going out and partying, what were the races of everyone involved? :evil:

the girl was asian..

I just realized why i went off on her.

You know those up in yo face black chicks you see on TV?

That was this girl, short, chubby, in your face with all the hand gestures too.

Wouldn't back off.

 

[tweakmm]

Originally posted by: fitzov

Originally posted by: nkgreen
yeah, i would of wailed on her ass too. as for the two guys that beat your ass, thats when the knife comes out.

lol...at which point the permitted concealed handgun becomes justified in the eyes of the law.

the blade drawn, the woman beaten

Yeah, this is a great idea.
Let's escalate violence over escalated violence. This will surly lead to a good resolution.
Brilliant!

 

[phreakah]

women love it

 

[rsd]

The OP and most of the responses here are pathetic.

 

[ballmode]

When a woman hits you, she is not a woman.

 

[Mill]

Originally posted by: F22 Raptor

Originally posted by: allisolm
"Later on in the evening we'd all had a fair amount to drink..."
and therein lies the whole problem.

 

[91TTZ]

Originally posted by: homercles337
You deserved to get your ass kicked and should have gone to jail for the weekend (no OR until you see the judge Tuesday morn). You created the situation. What are you doing dating a chic with friends like that anyway? Im imagining that you and your chic (friends included) are wannabe gang bangers or something. Are you too stupid to realize there are double standards for a reason? Sheesh...I would have given you a couple thumps to the melon as well (mostly for being so immature).

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