Originally posted by: Deeko
Oh? Tell me what is so moronic about my post, barney.
Am I moronic for going to college and paying for it myself? No, I consider that being responsible.
Am I moronic for saying people that are 18 should go to college, get a job, or join the miliary? I certainly hope not, or else we'll have a society of lazy hippies that don't do anything with their lives.
Am I moronic in saying that you have no excuse for still living at home 2 years have you graduate? This is the only place in my post you could even argue, but I still think you're wrong. If you haven't gone to college (yes, I'm considering that moving out...I'll grant an exception for going to college from home, but I firmly believe people who do this are missing at least 50% of what you gain in college) or gotten a job capable of sustaining yourself within two years of graduating high school, you're officially a leech and need to get your ass in gear.
Tell me again sir, how this is "the most moronic thing ever"?
While I don't feel it is the most moronic thing ever, I side with Barney.
You have a strange mentality that once you hit 18 you are immediately a freeloader. I am well aware that everyone's family situations are different, so I imagine your viewpoint stems from that.
For example, I am really close to my family and I have no problem living with them for the time being. On top of that, I know that me getting the right start at a young age is more important to them than paying extra for food/electricity/whatever. No, we aren't rich at all - my dad is 62 and still busting his ass at work at a blue collar job. But family is what is important to him, and he'd sacrifice whatever he can to get us better lives.
I'm currently 23, graduated a bit over a year ago, and getting paid fairly well. I still live at home primarily because I am saving money to buy a house. I pay my share of car insurance, cell phone, internet, and cable.
I lived on my own for 4 years in college - and that is not really "moving out" - it's more so just being away from home for an extended period of time. "Moving out" is when "home" is no longer with your parents - but rather on your own, or with a roommate.
Anyway, I can definitely "sustain myself" by moving out and renting. I cannot afford to buy a home - and with the current housing foreclosure situation, it seems more people should have lived at home for a while so they could afford their own houses (I don't mean that
literally, it's a joke).
So yea, I think I'd rather live with my family till I'm 25 and then own an appreciating asset rather than moving out young and putting money toward housing that I will never see again. I know I am missing out on being on my own - I do miss it. I just don't miss it enough to sacrifice long-term financial goals for short term gratification.
To OP:
Still live at home (23)
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