Israel should exist as part of an Pan-Arab federal state with full autonomy except defense, finance and foreign relations. Jerusalem should exist as a special territory governed by all the stakeholders combined. Nobody needs to be physically destroyed or killed but the current Israeli Zionist expansive and aggressive approach needs to stop.
This idea is intriguing, first time I hear it. Few questions which I would appreciate if you took the time to answer:
1. How will you bridge the GDP per capita gaps between Israel and the pan Arab entity? Israel's GDP per capita is about $30k; Egypt's is $6,200, Syria's $2,700, Pakistan's $1,050, Jordan's $4,500. Obviously there will be tremendous economical gaps which might cause anger; furthermore, it's not fiscally possible to unite such different economies, with huge inflation and unemployment rates in Arab states.
2. What kind of educational mandate will Jews receive? Will they be able to teach their kids what they see fit without external intervention?
3. What guarantees are there that the pan Arabian state will keep protecting the Jews even if the political structure of it were to destabilize?
4. What kind of military opportunity do you see to force Israel into this scheme? Israel would have to be first disarmed of WMDs, all second strike capabilities, all anti ICBM capabilities (Arrow missile, etc.) and even then it seems nearly impossible to beat it with conventional means - and you said yourself that a genocide is not something you desire, so that rules out using the Pakistani WMDs offensively.
5. Continuing the last question, and this is something I already ask, if someone would assure you that your plan will work out militarily, what kind of sacrifice would you think is acceptable for the Muslim states? 100,000 men? Millions? An entire state?
6. Do you think a threshold exists by which Muslim will have to accept Israel as a given fact? Like in 10, 20 years from now. Assuming you will not be able to militarily force your vision and the military balance of power remains as it is today, do you see an expiration date to the conflict or is it something perpetual and holy?