mrCide: you are going to take some heat for that, I personally agree with you, but it is so taboo to say things like that in the age of "everyone needs to have good self-esteem", yes I am superior, although it may be temporary, to someone who is relying on others for survival. I make it on my own every day, that makes me a contributor rather than a leech. Like I said, I do not want to put anyone down for ever using welfare, once in awhile everyone gets down on their luck in one way or another, and perhaps due to poor planning has no choice but to rely on it. But while you are on it, you should be as humble as ever, because we are your supporters. Just pull yourself out of that hole and make something of yourself, I know its hard as hell, but you can do it.