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Originally posted by: RKS
Originally posted by: txrandom
I'm not Asian, but I lived in Asia for several years. I graduated in the top of the class. What does that make me?
An English major?
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Originally posted by: RKS
Originally posted by: txrandom
I'm not Asian, but I lived in Asia for several years. I graduated in the top of the class. What does that make me?
An English major?
Originally posted by: timosyy
Pretty much, but my observations are pretty skewed, living in Northern Virginia. Most of the asians I know go to TJ (Thomas Jefferson High School for Science & Technology), which is ranked #1 in the nation I believe.
Its pretty brutal when the asian parents start comparing their kids...
Originally posted by: RKS
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
Originally posted by: steppinthrax
There are some quite big cultural differences between ?Asian? peoples and many Americans.
1. Asians are taught from the very beginning as children that education is very important and you can?t get far without it. Their elementary school is like our Middle and their middle is like our High.
2. In the United States a typical average adolescent male is more concerned with who is on his AIM list, MySpace, American Idol and a his personal sexual encounters rather then his studies and future (these are secondary). The belief is those teen years are supposed to be all about experiencing life. This translates to do what?s fun. Not what?s beneficial? The typical adolescent female has similar mindset.
3. A High School drop out who owns the new dodge charger has a higher chance of getting laid then the young biologist working on the cure for HIV. This just propagates the ?brain drain? we have in this country.
I could go on??
School systems are fundamentally different. In many Asian countries, you decide what you want to do while in high school. In the US, that is not the case. Education is still more general and less specialized until college.
I think that a lot of the values that Asians instill in their kids is excellent, but some of it is actually detrimental to the development of the child and the growth of the community as a whole. In their home countries perhaps you must be a doctor or engineer to survive. However, that doesn't translate well into the US. Leadership takes you much farther than that engineer or doctor degree.
exactly, I mean who wants to make 6 figures by working in a professional environment when you can lead an entire crew through lunch and dinner service. That's a lot more satisfying than a stupid piece paper from a silly college.
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
Originally posted by: RKS
Originally posted by: CanOWorms
Originally posted by: steppinthrax
There are some quite big cultural differences between ?Asian? peoples and many Americans.
1. Asians are taught from the very beginning as children that education is very important and you can?t get far without it. Their elementary school is like our Middle and their middle is like our High.
2. In the United States a typical average adolescent male is more concerned with who is on his AIM list, MySpace, American Idol and a his personal sexual encounters rather then his studies and future (these are secondary). The belief is those teen years are supposed to be all about experiencing life. This translates to do what?s fun. Not what?s beneficial? The typical adolescent female has similar mindset.
3. A High School drop out who owns the new dodge charger has a higher chance of getting laid then the young biologist working on the cure for HIV. This just propagates the ?brain drain? we have in this country.
I could go on??
School systems are fundamentally different. In many Asian countries, you decide what you want to do while in high school. In the US, that is not the case. Education is still more general and less specialized until college.
I think that a lot of the values that Asians instill in their kids is excellent, but some of it is actually detrimental to the development of the child and the growth of the community as a whole. In their home countries perhaps you must be a doctor or engineer to survive. However, that doesn't translate well into the US. Leadership takes you much farther than that engineer or doctor degree.
exactly, I mean who wants to make 6 figures by working in a professional environment when you can lead an entire crew through lunch and dinner service. That's a lot more satisfying than a stupid piece paper from a silly college.
I don't think that you understand what I'm saying. Being just an engineer or a doctor isn't as great as an engineer or doctor that leads.
The educational cultures (I am Indian which is similar in respect to education) of our parents do not match the educational environment of the United States.
Originally posted by: MrWizzard
Originally posted by: BlahBlahYouToo
they're the ones that everyone cheats off of, straight A's in class (esp math).
they're on the math team, chess team, debate team, etc.
but, they weren't the most social, not on any of the sports teams, and not popular with the girls.
was that your typical asian kid in hs?
I went to HS that had a huge Asian population. I would say 70%. They had perfected the art of cheating they had some really amazing methods. Then there where one ones that were total stoners so it kinda just averaged them out. Most of them where exchange students from Asia though so they went back when the year was over and another group would come the next year.
Originally posted by: Darthvoy
Originally posted by: MrWizzard
Originally posted by: BlahBlahYouToo
they're the ones that everyone cheats off of, straight A's in class (esp math).
they're on the math team, chess team, debate team, etc.
but, they weren't the most social, not on any of the sports teams, and not popular with the girls.
was that your typical asian kid in hs?
I went to HS that had a huge Asian population. I would say 70%. They had perfected the art of cheating they had some really amazing methods. Then there where one ones that were total stoners so it kinda just averaged them out. Most of them where exchange students from Asia though so they went back when the year was over and another group would come the next year.
funny thing you say. I once knew a Korean guy who told me about some pretty complex and stealthy methods he and his classmates would use to cheat. It WAS an art form.
Originally posted by: WraithETC
My HS top 5 were Indian, Asian, Asian, Jew, White (the nerdy math genius variety).
Originally posted by: sirjonk
last week on My Name is Earl his wife demands of the Indian doctor "we want a jewish doctor" and he says "Indians are the new jews". I lold.
Originally posted by: RKS
Originally posted by: txrandom
I'm not Asian, but I lived in Asia for several years. I graduated in the top of the class. What does that make me?
An English major?
Originally posted by: BrownTown
I would say in my classes they were generally not the smartest, but they often got really good grades because they worked so hard. for example if you looked at the top 5 GPAs 3/5 would be asian, but only one of the top 10 SATs were all white people. The highest SAT any asian got from my high school was 1520, and I had a 3.5 GPA (like 70/150 class rank) and got a 1530, and we had 5 white people get either a 1590 or 1580 (no 1600s though and the all girls school had 2 1600s my year, that was embaressing 🙁).
Originally posted by: timosyy
Pretty much, but my observations are pretty skewed, living in Northern Virginia. Most of the asians I know go to TJ (Thomas Jefferson High School for Science & Technology), which is ranked #1 in the nation I believe.
Its pretty brutal when the asian parents start comparing their kids...