He might be more athletic than me, but athletic is a nebulous term, is it not? Athletic in what way? Is he a better runner than me? Yea maybe, probably. What about sports? I dunno, what sport? Powerlifting is a sport, one in which I hold some hardware, so probably not that one, maybe you mean some more "fast twitch" or coordination-reliant sports like basketball or football? I dunno, again, maybe, probably. I'm not here to compare myself to him or anyone else, neither did he, you're the only one doing that. How athletic or good looking he is in relation to myself really has nothing to do with anything that's been posted in this thread.
It's really pretty simple. From the start I have not criticized his decision to not lift heavy. That's his decision based on his goals and his body. That's fine. But this forum is used as a general advice board, and as general advice, "I don't lift heavy because I don't want to get big" is not true, so I pointed that out. The random other tangents he went on about lifters being fat and not being able to run and chalk and whatever else (seriously, this discussion was over a month ago, who cares) were just nonsense attacks, so they were called as such.
You talk about "hate" and are throwing around insults, even putting insults in my mouth that I never said, I'm not sure where that's coming from. Maybe this is your buddy and you feel insulted that someone dared argue with him on the internet, but the only one being hateful here is you. Anyway, I'm off to my basement to do heavy deadlifts despite being under 10% body fat and in the "normal" BMI range. Have a good Friday!