Anyone else racially ambiguous?

BD2003

Lifer
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Apparently, I look completely racially ambiguous.

Within a few minutes of meeting me, everyone asks me the same question: "What are you?"

I get this so often, I usually ask people to guess first. I have gotten every race in the book....and only rarely, do people come even close. In fact, people tend to think that I'm their race, more often than not.

Most often, I get some sort of middle eastern. I've gotten turkish, persian, palestinian, israeli, morrocan, hell, I've even gotten saudi. Every now and then I hear indian, sometimes pakistani, and the other day, someone thought I was sri lankan. I'm definitely NOT Sri Lankan, but the kid did look like my twin.

If it's not middle eastern, it's usually hispanic. Puerto rican, cuban, hell, even mexican (I'm way, way too tall). People come up to me, asking me for directions in spanish, and when I break it to them that I have no idea what theyre saying, they look completely confused. Then again, only half my hispanic friends can actually speak spanish.

White kids often assume I'm greek, or native american. I guess they're darkish? Actually, come to think of it, white kids tend to assume middle eastern before anything.

Asians assume I'm part asian - I've gotten chinese, korean, japanese, thai, indonesian...the works. I did grow up in Flushing, Queens....coincidence? Hmmm.....

A black kid thought I was half black...although thats the only time I've ever heard that one, which is actually somewhat surprising.

And the reality is far from uncommon...its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race, that somehow managed to come out completely ambiguous.

The only people who ever actually get it half-right are the people who actually share the same nationality...and most of the time, only after they hear my last name.

I'm starting to have a bit of fun with it....sometimes I let people hang thinking the wrong thing for a while. I had this girl convinced I was 100% mexican for hours, before I finally told her.

Next person that asks, I'm going with aztec. No one knows wtf an aztec looks like, but I'm sure I can pass for it. If he/she is a real dumbass, I might even try atlantean.

My girlfriend jokes about how I should start a site, and take wagers to see if anyone could actually guess...I could totally clean up.

Anyone else in the same boat?

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Take your best guess. And I am a mix, but one part is more prominent than the other.
 

chambersc

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Originally posted by: BD2003
And the reality is far from uncommon...its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race, that somehow managed to come out completely ambiguous.

Don't leave us hanging, which mix are you? Either that or post a face pic and have ATOT guess!
 

acemcmac

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I think its sad that you get asked that a lot. Why does it matter?

here's an LOL for you: The KKK would describe you as one of the "mud people"

 

BD2003

Lifer
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Originally posted by: chambersc
Originally posted by: BD2003
And the reality is far from uncommon...its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race, that somehow managed to come out completely ambiguous.

Don't leave us hanging, which mix are you? Either that or post a face pic and have ATOT guess!

Ah, where would be the fun in that, if I just told you?
 

ElFenix

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Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: chambersc
Originally posted by: BD2003
And the reality is far from uncommon...its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race, that somehow managed to come out completely ambiguous.

Don't leave us hanging, which mix are you? Either that or post a face pic and have ATOT guess!

Ah, where would be the fun in that, if I just told you?
then post a damn pic at least
 

BD2003

Lifer
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Originally posted by: ElFenix
Originally posted by: BD2003
Originally posted by: chambersc
Originally posted by: BD2003
And the reality is far from uncommon...its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race, that somehow managed to come out completely ambiguous.

Don't leave us hanging, which mix are you? Either that or post a face pic and have ATOT guess!

Ah, where would be the fun in that, if I just told you?
then post a damn pic at least

Relax, its coming...just have to remember my bbzzdd password.
 

cKGunslinger

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"I don't see color. People tell me I'm white, and I believe them, because I have no problem getting a cab."
 

mugs

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I'm not racially ambiguous, I'm plain white. However many people assume I'm Mexican based on my name if they haven't met me in person.
 

z42

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I'm guessing Italian/Jewish?

for the record, I'm neither Italian or Jewish.
 

Atheus

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I think I see a little India/Pakistan in you, mixed with a lighter race like european, or eastern european maybe... there's this though...

"its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race"

so maybe the lighter race is another 'asian' one? More northern maybe? Am I close?
 

AnthroAndStargate

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This is why us Anthropologists dont like the term race - it's kind of an archaic concept that is starting to melt away, however ethnicity.. thats another story all together
 

BD2003

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Originally posted by: Atheus
I think I see a little India/Pakistan in you, mixed with a lighter race like european, or eastern european maybe... there's this though...

"its just a particular mix, from what most people would consider the same race"

so maybe the lighter race is another 'asian' one? More northern maybe? Am I close?

Perhaps. Or perhaps not. :p
 

CKent

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I would guess middle eastern. I'd rule out black & asian because you don't have a blunted nose. Agree with another poster though that race is a bad term that's on its way out.
 

tw1164

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How are you defining the term "Race"? In most of your OP you're referring yourself as various nationalities/enthic groups?