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aidanjm

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Originally posted by: purbeast0
Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: purbeast0
its just that EVERY SINGLE thread this guy posts lets the whole world know he's gay. it would bother me just as much if someone else had 90% of their threads being YAG(irl)T and talked about how they are straight in every thread as well.

it has nothing to do with him being gay, it has to do with him being an attention whore about it.

um, maybe it actually has to do with him going thru a difficult or painful breakup.. that's probably what he feels he needs to talk about right now. Plenty of other people here make multiple posts about their relationship dramas. the fact you single Zysoclaplem out indicates you do actually have a problem with gays

So when I single out Nik because in every thread he says "WRONG FORUM", does that mean i have a problem with straight people as well?

no. it means you have a problem with people who say "wrong forum" in every post.

Originally posted by: purbeast0
you are a moron who is jumping to conclusions.

you are someone who lacks self-awareness

Originally posted by: purbeast0
the fact that its annoying doesnt have to do with him being gay, its the fact that he says it in every thread of his.

Please point out where he says he is gay in the opening post. Or any of his other opening posts.

Originally posted by: purbeast0
it is annoying (as poitned above with the Nik example) when anyone repeats the same thing in every thread.

it's annoying to you, because you are homophobic

Originally posted by: purbeast0
Go search on MedicineBear (or whatever his name is) and look how his first 10 posts or whatever were about fat women at his job and how he hates them. Look at my responses in there as well, talking about how its getting old that each thread he makes is about the same thing (rant about fat women), has nothing to do with any type of sexuality, and then get back to me.

when I see you complaining about all the other posters here to make repeated posts on the same topic, I may take what you're saying seriously. Until then, you're just another homophobe
 

aidanjm

Lifer
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Originally posted by: purbeast0
and for the record, my cousin who is the same age as me is gay, and i love him to death and have no hard feelings towards him at all.

I weep for your cousin. Gay people with relatives such as yourself are the very ones who end up killing themselves. The "love" you offer is entirely conditional (he can never be "too gay") and hence entirely toxic.
 

meltdown75

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it has nothing to do with being homophobic...

it would be just as annoying if someone constantly posted about being straight, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, whatever.

i have nothing against any of these lifestyles btw. it is just strange that someone would post about it here, knowing that a good % of the user base is straight, and a considerable % is probably anti-gay. seems like begging for flames imho, or perhaps even a version of trolling.

no offense OP...
 

aidanjm

Lifer
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Originally posted by: meltdown75
it has nothing to do with being homophobic...

sure it does

Originally posted by: meltdown75
it would be just as annoying if someone constantly posted about being straight, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, whatever.

no more annoying than people like you constantly mentioning your attraction to women

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i have nothing against any of these lifestyles btw. it is just strange that someone would post about it here, knowing that a good % of the user base is straight,

Zysoclaplem is part of this community, why shouldn't he post about his relationship problems here.. essentially you are saying if he wants to talk about his relationship, he shouldn't do that here, he should go somewhere else..

Originally posted by: meltdown75
and a considerable % is probably anti-gay. seems like begging for flames imho, or perhaps even a version of trolling.

i.e., his even attempting to discuss his relationship issues here is a form of trolling

that is a deeply anti-gay viewpoint

(I doubt you could comprehend it as such)

Originally posted by: meltdown75
no offense OP...

you're comments are pretty revolting. I'd be offended.
 

Zysoclaplem

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Originally posted by: meltdown75
it has nothing to do with being homophobic...

it would be just as annoying if someone constantly posted about being straight, lesbian, bisexual, transsexual, whatever.

i have nothing against any of these lifestyles btw. it is just strange that someone would post about it here, knowing that a good % of the user base is straight, and a considerable % is probably anti-gay. seems like begging for flames imho, or perhaps even a version of trolling.

no offense OP...

I would consider it strange if my posts were about male-to-male sex problems.
Why does my ass hurt, does anyone else ever have this happen?
or
I cannot figure out how to get my leather chaps on, can someone help me out with this.

All I post about is my life. Nothing else. I consider myself a normal guy, and got past my homosexuality a long time ago. I don't even consider it being a problem when I post about relationship things. And I never will.
I don't know what you think a gay relationship is like.
We eat out, and talk, and watch TV. We kiss and hug and take off work when our SOs are sick. We meet each others parents.

We don't swing or have an "open" type relationship.
When I talk about my relationships, or ask questions about what others have been through, it is going to come up that I am gay. Whether I say I am gay or not.
Next time, just try to think of me as a person instead of a gay. :)
 

meltdown75

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aidanjm,

believe me i am not homophobic. i have friends and *gasp* family that are homosexual. let's just leave that there.

not once did i say that Zypo shouldn't post here about anything. all i said was that he might be better served on an openly-gay YAGT.org type of forum. this isn't rocket science, just a friendly suggestion. do i personally get annoyed by his posts? no.

deeply anti-gay? buddy please. i see past the sexual orientation and for that matter any other obviously visible trait and try to see into the inner person. i pride myself on being accepting of different lifestyles and views. i truly believe we can all "get along".

as for you being offended by my comments, well... i apologize and i can assure you it was not my intent.
 

meltdown75

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if there is no rationality apparent in my suggestion then i rest my case!

sorry to "crap" in your thread Zypo.

I'm off to the Martha Stewart forums to ask a computer question. bye!
 

aidanjm

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Originally posted by: meltdown75
I'm off to the Martha Stewart forums to ask a computer question. bye!

and I'm going to stay right here on the AT OT forum and post a question about my angsty relationship with my girlfriend!

how inappropriate is that!

 

daveymark

Lifer
Sep 15, 2003
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Originally posted by: MaxDepth
Originally posted by: daveymark
Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Yuck.



homophobe much?


pics of the ex bf, Z?
Just because the person said yuck does not make them phobic. Now if they said something like all gays must die then you could call them that.



I didn't call anyone anything, I simply asked a question.
 

Yreka

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Having someone dump you and say "We can still be friends" is like having your mom say " Your dog died, but you can still keep it".

Ditch his ass
 

daveymark

Lifer
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Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Originally posted by: daveymark
Originally posted by: AdamSnow
Yuck.

homophobe much?

I don?t care if that is their life style... I would just be a happier person if I didn?t have to hear about their intimate encounters...

Then don't read the thread. And don't read all the other threads about guys that had an intimate encounter with their ladies. In fact, with all the YAGT threads lately, ATOT is a pretty hazarous place for you to be right now. You may want to give yourself a vacation, or resign yourself to the fact that you'll be pretty unhappy each time you click a link in ATOT.

 

purbeast0

No Lifer
Sep 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: meltdown75
aidanjm,

believe me i am not homophobic. i have friends and *gasp* family that are homosexual. let's just leave that there.

not once did i say that Zypo shouldn't post here about anything. all i said was that he might be better served on an openly-gay YAGT.org type of forum. this isn't rocket science, just a friendly suggestion. do i personally get annoyed by his posts? no.

deeply anti-gay? buddy please. i see past the sexual orientation and for that matter any other obviously visible trait and try to see into the inner person. i pride myself on being accepting of different lifestyles and views. i truly believe we can all "get along".

as for you being offended by my comments, well... i apologize and i can assure you it was not my intent.

don't worry meltdown, its just that aidanjm knows us better than we know ourselves ...

:(
 

aidanjm

Lifer
Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: meltdown75
aidanjm,

believe me i am not homophobic. i have friends and *gasp* family that are homosexual.

Hitler had 'friends' who were Jewish. Your point?

Originally posted by: meltdown75
let's just leave that there.

not once did i say that Zypo

Who is Zypo?

Originally posted by: meltdown75
shouldn't post here about anything. all i said was that he might be better served on an openly-gay YAGT.org type of forum.

And do you make a similar suggestion for other YAGT posters, i.e., that they might be served better on an openly heterosexual YAGT.org type of forum?

Originally posted by: meltdown75
this isn't rocket science, just a friendly suggestion.

it's not a friendly suggestion, it is insulting and cruel exclusion. it is in essence a big "fvck you" to all homosexual people on this forum. "you're lives are too bizarre and odd for us to EVER comprehend - take it outside".

Originally posted by: meltdown75
do i personally get annoyed by his posts? no.

deeply anti-gay? buddy please. i see past the sexual orientation and for that matter any other obviously visible trait and try to see into the inner person.

No. You do not. You are HUNG UP on the external difference.

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i pride myself on being accepting of different lifestyles and views.

Maybe it's time for you to be a little less proud. I see no acceptance.

Originally posted by: meltdown75
i truly believe we can all "get along".

lol

Originally posted by: meltdown75
as for you being offended by my comments, well... i apologize and i can assure you it was not my intent.

I'm not offended by your comments, just revolted
 

aidanjm

Lifer
Aug 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: purbeast0
Originally posted by: meltdown75
aidanjm,

believe me i am not homophobic. i have friends and *gasp* family that are homosexual. let's just leave that there.

not once did i say that Zypo shouldn't post here about anything. all i said was that he might be better served on an openly-gay YAGT.org type of forum. this isn't rocket science, just a friendly suggestion. do i personally get annoyed by his posts? no.

deeply anti-gay? buddy please. i see past the sexual orientation and for that matter any other obviously visible trait and try to see into the inner person. i pride myself on being accepting of different lifestyles and views. i truly believe we can all "get along".

as for you being offended by my comments, well... i apologize and i can assure you it was not my intent.

don't worry meltdown, its just that aidanjm knows us better than we know ourselves ...

:(

That is correct. You are entirely lacking in self-awareness. So sad, so pathetic.

 

Slvrtg277

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Sep 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: meltdown75
I'm off to the Martha Stewart forums to ask a computer question. bye!

and I'm going to stay right here on the AT OT forum and post a question about my angsty relationship with my girlfriend!

how inappropriate is that!

Ok first of all, my ":shouldershrug;" comment went along with my "maybe he has nothing else going on..." comment. That meant that IF.....IF, that is his main focus in life right now and he's trying to figure things out and get through hardships, that might be why his posts reflect that so much. Again, IF.

The shouldershrug "said", "If that's the case, so what? He's just posting what's prevalent in his life at the moment."


Second of all, quit bashing people who you know nothing about. You're making yourself out to be an intolerant little whiny prick.
 

purbeast0

No Lifer
Sep 13, 2001
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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: purbeast0
Originally posted by: meltdown75
aidanjm,

believe me i am not homophobic. i have friends and *gasp* family that are homosexual. let's just leave that there.

not once did i say that Zypo shouldn't post here about anything. all i said was that he might be better served on an openly-gay YAGT.org type of forum. this isn't rocket science, just a friendly suggestion. do i personally get annoyed by his posts? no.

deeply anti-gay? buddy please. i see past the sexual orientation and for that matter any other obviously visible trait and try to see into the inner person. i pride myself on being accepting of different lifestyles and views. i truly believe we can all "get along".

as for you being offended by my comments, well... i apologize and i can assure you it was not my intent.

don't worry meltdown, its just that aidanjm knows us better than we know ourselves ...

:(

That is correct. You are entirely lacking in self-awareness. So sad, so pathetic.

exactly.
 

meltdown75

Lifer
Nov 17, 2004
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yep mmk.

aidjmnm, could you please refer to me as Gay Hater from now on? thanks buddy. just doing you a favour, you know... since that's where you're headed anyway.

:beer: cheers!
 

Muse

Lifer
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Originally posted by: dullard
Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
We broke up, he wanted to, I didn't. Fine. Done deal.
That is it. Done deal. No going back for seconds. No more hooking up. No more dating again. Done deal. If you think otherwise then yes you are "getting my head fuc&ed around with".

I made that mistake once. Even got married afterward. Then 6 years of hell ensued. I'm only now scraping myself out of the ashes.

The line that applies is from the Stones' "Yesterday's Papers":

"All these people just can't wait to fall back into their big mistake."