because the point of this thread is to let people know he is gay
(as opposed to asking a question about his relationship - just like every other relationship thread here)
put it in your sig PSA: I'm gay not a woman.
Anyway, the best thing to do with an ex is stop talking to him/her for awhile and forget about them. In six months after you've gotten past your rebound and don't really care about your ex at all, its a fine time to become friends again. I'm best friends with one of my exs, and my girlfriend is friends with her too, but that was after I stopped talking to her (cause she was a pain in the ass) for a few months.
Anyway, the best thing to do with an ex is stop talking to him/her for awhile and forget about them. In six months after you've gotten past your rebound and don't really care about your ex at all, its a fine time to become friends again. I'm best friends with one of my exs, and my girlfriend is friends with her too, but that was after I stopped talking to her (cause she was a pain in the ass) for a few months.
Well either which way, I told him yesterday not to call anymore. I don't deserve what he is doing and it's done. I don't want to mess with it anymore.
He just tells me over and over that it doesn't have to be this way, that we can just be best buds.
He lost a friend because he doesn't know what he wants and I do.
He just tells me over and over that it doesn't have to be this way, that we can just be best buds.
He lost a friend because he doesn't know what he wants and I do.
purbeast0
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no i actually have no problems with gays. it actually bothers me when people refer to saying "oh thats so gay" or "i hate him, hes such a f@g". I don't like when words used for gay people are used in a negative context, its just stupid and ignorant. go read the thread "Does it bother you when people use the word retarded?" and find my comment there.
its just that EVERY SINGLE thread this guy posts lets the whole world know he's gay. it would bother me just as much if someone else had 90% of their threads being YAG(irl)T and talked about how they are straight in every thread as well.
it has nothing to do with him being gay, it has to do with him being an attention whore about it.
That's what I wanted. But then he told me he missed me and might have made a mistake.
And how much he wants to be friends. So now I just told him to leave me alone so I can get on with my life. He didn't seem to care. He is happy without me around. I just think he feels bad about doing what he has done.
And oh, if I put that in my sig, I sure everyone would be telling me to quit advertising my sexuality.
Gotcha. I understand your point.
Maybe he doesn't have much else going on other than being gay....:shouldershrug;
um, maybe it actually has to do with him going thru a difficult or painful breakup.. that's probably what he feels he needs to talk about right now. Plenty of other people here make multiple posts about their relationship dramas. the fact you single Zysoclaplem out indicates you do actually have a problem with gays
huh? don't people talk about what is on their mind right now? jeesus, you're just as bad as the rest
Good luck to you. Don't let him mess with your head with crap like I miss you or I want you around, blah blah. Prolonged distance can wash away all the bad taste from a crappy relationship like nothing else.
purbeast0
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So when I single out Nik because in every thread he says "WRONG FORUM", does that mean i have a problem with straight people as well?
you are a moron who is jumping to conclusions. the fact that its annoying doesnt have to do with him being gay, its the fact that he says it in every thread of his. it is annoying (as poitned above with the Nik example) when anyone repeats the same thing in every thread.
Go search on MedicineBear (or whatever his name is) and look how his first 10 posts or whatever were about fat women at his job and how he hates them. Look at my responses in there as well, talking about how its getting old that each thread he makes is about the same thing (rant about fat women), has nothing to do with any type of sexuality, and then get back to me.
Am I unstable because I got mad at my ex
Does everyone have something negative to say about everyone?
Do you ever just have bursts of motivation
and inspiration?
Men are insensitive jerks...
Funny Joke
Hope it's not a repost
Anyone else love the movie Anchorman?
Do you have any family members...
That just cannot get along?
What type of TP does your office bathroom have?
Apartment Air Conditioner not working
*semi-rant*
Questions about asking someone out
What do you think?
Ever attempted suicide?
Those are my last 11 posts as searched for. As you can see, I often talk about other things as well.
The problem is, I just went through a break-up...and need to vent every once in a while. Or talk to someone. I find it easy to talk about it on the forum because I don't have to pretend I am straight so I don't get my ass beat.
I trust alot of the opinions on this board.
I don't mind constructive criticism, but every single thread I post is not about my love life/relationships.
purbeast0
No Lifer
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OK then I stand corrected. I guess its more that when I notice there is a thread dedicated to a gay topic, I notice its you, which gets me thinking that way. No hard feelings dude (attention whore
)and for the record, my cousin who is the same age as me is gay, and i love him to death and have no hard feelings towards him at all.
Originally posted by: purbeast0
OK then I stand corrected. I guess its more that when I notice there is a thread dedicated to a gay topic, I notice its you, which gets me thinking that way. No hard feelings dude (attention whore
and for the record, my cousin who is the same age as me is gay, and i love him to death and have no hard feelings towards him at all.
I never said you didn't care for gays. And I understand that sometimes things just stick out, and other things are forgotten because they don't stick out.
And I never consider my threads gay. I hardly ever mention it at all, except when people ask me because they are confused.
I just assume that people know because they have asked so much.
You don't have to be gay to understand a gay relationship. The same things happen. There is only a small physical difference, in my opinion. Emotion wise, and just overall, it's basically the same. Which is why I think people can understand what I am going through or give good advice.
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