Am I unstable because I got mad at my ex

[Zysoclaplem]

We broke up, he wanted to, I didn't. Fine. Done deal.
He starts talking to this guy, and hanging out with this guy, fine. I'm mad and upset, and he needs to leave me alone and not tell me these things. Fine. He still wants me as his best friend while he dates someone else. Not so fine. I need time to heal.
Then he tells me out of the blue that he misses me, and thinks we could date again. He says he might have been wrong. Yay! Great. Things are looking up. Sex proceeds. Yes, I started it, not him. He always lets me know that. But it takes two to tango. A few days later, he changes his mind. WTF? Says that he doesn't want to anymore, and really likes this other guy. So I am pissed off at him because I think he is fvcking with my mind.

Am I unstable for being angry?
Or am I getting my head fvcked around with?

 

[radioouman]

Are you a girl? Is your guy turning gay? Or are you both gay? I'm confused.

 

[leftyman]

slap that manbitch

 

[Accipiter22]

wait I thought you were a girl....why is your ex bf talking to a guy?

"mommy why are those two women holding hands???" -me on my first trip to northampton

 

[leftyman]

Zysoclaplem is gay i believe

 

[Phoenix15]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Or am I getting my head fvcked around with?

Among other things.

Sounds like a booty call type thing to me. Leave him and move on. You don't need someone who will be on again off again like that.

 

[Muse]

You better be clear on this. You aren't sick or weird for being mad, but you better leave this guy in the dust. Leave him alone, rebuff him if necessary, move on, forget him.

 

[purbeast0]

YAGTBZTLEKHSG

Yet Another Gay Thread By Zysoclaplem To Let Everyone Know He's Still Gay.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

I have been here for about 2 years, and I would say that in about 70% of my posts, people still argue whether I am a woman or a gay man...lol.

 

[meltdown75]

No offense, but wouldn't you be better served asking in an openly gay forum, or maybe PMing another gay ATer? I'm assuming very few here know the ins & outs (no pun intended) of gay relationships...

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: purbeast0
YAGTBZTLEKHSG

Yet Another Gay Thread By Zysoclaplem To Let Everyone Know He's Still Gay.

It's a relationship thread. It's what is going on in my life. I never mentioned the word gay or homosexual not once in the original post did I?
No?
Oh okay then get over it.
Thanks
Goodbye

 

[leftyman]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
No offense, but wouldn't you be better served asking in an openly gay forum, or maybe PMing another gay ATer? I'm assuming very few here know the ins & outs (no pun intended) of gay relationships...

 

[m2kewl]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
We broke up, he wanted to, I didn't. Fine. Done deal.
He starts talking to this guy, and hanging out with this guy, fine. I'm mad and upset, and he needs to leave me alone and not tell me these things. Fine. He still wants me as his best friend while he dates someone else. Not so fine. I need time to heal.
Then he tells me out of the blue that he misses me, and thinks we could date again. He says he might have been wrong. Yay! Great. Things are looking up. Sex proceeds. Yes, I started it, not him. He always lets me know that. But it takes two to tango. A few days later, he changes his mind. WTF? Says that he doesn't want to anymore, and really likes this other guy. So I am pissed off at him because I think he is fvcking with my mind.

Am I unstable for being angry?
Or am I getting my head fvcked around with?

someone please tell me this is not a gay thread...

 

[Slvrtg277]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
No offense, but wouldn't you be better served asking in an openly gay forum, or maybe PMing another gay ATer? I'm assuming very few here know the ins & outs (no pun intended) of gay relationships...

Who cares? Take the sex of the parties involved out of the equation and the answer is still the same.

You got played for a booty call. Don't let it happen again.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Originally posted by: meltdown75
No offense, but wouldn't you be better served asking in an openly gay forum, or maybe PMing another gay ATer? I'm assuming very few here know the ins & outs (no pun intended) of gay relationships...

It's just like a straight relationship.

Should I change myself to person A, my ex to person B, and my ex's new relationship to person C? I mean honestly, it's not that different from any other relationship.

 

[acemcmac]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: purbeast0
YAGTBZTLEKHSG

Yet Another Gay Thread By Zysoclaplem To Let Everyone Know He's Still Gay.

It's a relationship thread. It's what is going on in my life. I never mentioned the word gay or homosexual not once in the original post did I?
No?
Oh okay then get over it.
Thanks
Goodbye

it's hard to follow without you specifying.

 

[meltdown75]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem

Originally posted by: meltdown75
No offense, but wouldn't you be better served asking in an openly gay forum, or maybe PMing another gay ATer? I'm assuming very few here know the ins & outs (no pun intended) of gay relationships...

It's just like a straight relationship.

Should I change myself to person A, my ex to person B, and my ex's new relationship to person C? I mean honestly, it's not that different from any other relationship.

My bad. Pardon my post. :thumbsup:

 

[Amused]

Ditch the bum. He's using you and completely disregarding your feelings.

And some people need to grow the fsck up. Who cares if he's gay? A relationship is a relationship.

 

[dullard]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
We broke up, he wanted to, I didn't. Fine. Done deal.

That is it. Done deal. No going back for seconds. No more hooking up. No more dating again. Done deal. If you think otherwise then yes you are "getting my head fuc&ed around with".

I made that mistake once. Even got married afterward. Then 6 years of hell ensued. I'm only now scraping myself out of the ashes.

 

[Amused]

Originally posted by: m2kewl

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
We broke up, he wanted to, I didn't. Fine. Done deal.
He starts talking to this guy, and hanging out with this guy, fine. I'm mad and upset, and he needs to leave me alone and not tell me these things. Fine. He still wants me as his best friend while he dates someone else. Not so fine. I need time to heal.
Then he tells me out of the blue that he misses me, and thinks we could date again. He says he might have been wrong. Yay! Great. Things are looking up. Sex proceeds. Yes, I started it, not him. He always lets me know that. But it takes two to tango. A few days later, he changes his mind. WTF? Says that he doesn't want to anymore, and really likes this other guy. So I am pissed off at him because I think he is fvcking with my mind.

Am I unstable for being angry?
Or am I getting my head fvcked around with?

someone please tell me this is not a gay thread...

It is. Be vary careful not to read too many of them or you may turn gay yourself. :Q

:roll:

 

[Pliablemoose]

Originally posted by: Slvrtg277

Originally posted by: meltdown75
No offense, but wouldn't you be better served asking in an openly gay forum, or maybe PMing another gay ATer? I'm assuming very few here know the ins & outs (no pun intended) of gay relationships...

Who cares? Take the sex of the parties involved out of the equation and the answer is still the same.

You got played for a gay booty call. Don't let it happen again.

Edited for accuracy & mental imagery.

 

[leftyman]

use him for a bootie call than kick his ass to the curb...just like a real man.

 

[Slvrtg277]

Originally posted by: Amused
Ditch the bum. He's using you and completely disregarding your feelings.

And some people need to grow the fsck up. Who cares if he's gay? A relationship is a relationship.

That was my point. Thanks to Amused for hammering it in a little harder.

:beer:

 

[aidanjm]

Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
We broke up, he wanted to, I didn't. Fine. Done deal.
He starts talking to this guy, and hanging out with this guy, fine. I'm mad and upset, and he needs to leave me alone and not tell me these things. Fine. He still wants me as his best friend while he dates someone else. Not so fine. I need time to heal.
Then he tells me out of the blue that he misses me, and thinks we could date again. He says he might have been wrong. Yay! Great. Things are looking up. Sex proceeds. Yes, I started it, not him. He always lets me know that. But it takes two to tango. A few days later, he changes his mind. WTF? Says that he doesn't want to anymore, and really likes this other guy. So I am pissed off at him because I think he is fvcking with my mind.

Am I unstable for being angry?
Or am I getting my head fvcked around with?

you're being played with

one of my friends had a situation like that, he eventually realized he couldn't even be friends with his ex, & broke off all contact

 

[lightweight]

Sounds to me like he's the one that can't make up his mind about things. As far as being friends with him.. answer a question and be honest with yourself: Do you want to be friends with him because you want him as a friend, or do you want to be friends with him because theres a chance of more than friends later? I don't know about the homosexual crowd in your area, but I'm sure there are more interesting people for you to hang out with, and have a relationship with (that's what it sounds like you want).

As far as being unstable, I couldn't tell but is it affecting other things you're doing during your day? If it is, then you might be a little unstable.