I'm not saying this isn't true because every chip OC's a little different but wow that's all it can get is 4.3. My chip is at 4.5 w/1.42v and is stable. Tested with Prime95 & OCCT.
but i think a lot of use haven't thought about if his motherboard can even handle OCing a FX 8 core
This I think has been glossed over.
His board's VRM and power delivery components have had years of hard use already. The difference between 'stock' 8320 and 8350 are 125W and 140W respectively IIRC. The 8320 is validated for the board, the 8350 is not. The only reason I could think of would be that 140W+ is too much to push through the board reliably.
Ironically I'm helping an old friend today with his FX8150 build, it cooked his mobo (Micro Center combo with a midrange Asus mobo) after about 4 months. That was in combo with a GTX465 and a Corsair 750HX power supply. System was not overclocked in any way, but given that the board pooped its pants, I'm guessing power delivery wasn't up to snuff.
Once you're dealing with the kind of power necessary to feed these beasts (check IDC's testing of the 8350!), I wouldn't personally recommend pushing either the 8320 or 8350 on such a board without being well prepared to pop it and then spend $150+ getting a really sturdy board if OC is a goal. This is not the same world Intel users have been used to with 32nm in any way at all. Heck even Intel 45nm was cake on a mobo by comparison. I have a mid 3Ghz E5200 that's been on a $50 G31 board for I think at least 3 years now, maybe closer to 4.
That's just my take, but I think it's just something that bears consideration. Who knows, it may work great in that board at 4.5Ghz for years (!!). I think the 4.5Ghz factor would be more bragging rights than practicality though. CF 5850 + stock 8320 is more than enough to game very well at 1080p/1200p settings.