KarenMarie
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Originally posted by: totalcommand
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Holy Cow! this thread sure took off since I left.
A few things occur to me.
If a woman gets pregnant and waits until she is about 8 1/2 months pregnant and just decides to change her mind and 'abort' the baby, that is supposed to be perfectly fine. And if, driving to the abortion clinic, her car gets hit by a drunk driver and the baby dies, he will get charged with either vehicular homicide or murder.
If a woman decides that she is gonna tell a guy that she is on birth control when she is not, just to get pregnant, he has no say what so ever that he will be a father. he has between 18 and 21yrs of child support to look forward to. And if, after altering his life to expect and actually WANT the baby, she decides to 'terminate' the pregnancy in the 8th month, there is nothing he can say or do about that either.
A woman's body is hers to do whatever she wants with. Get pregnant, not get pregnant. Abort at 3 months, abort at 8 months 3 weeks and 6 days...whatever she wants. No one else has any rights... not the father, not the baby.
And if a 13yr old girl decides that she wants to screw around, the state and the school as well as planned parenthood will be fully supportive of her decision and help her keep it from her parents. And if she happens to get pregnant... the state and planned parenthood will again help her keep it from her family when she decides to 'terminate'.
Nice job telling us how it is.
Now you should tell us how it ought to be without the sarcasm. And maybe some reasons why.
First of all I was not being sarcastic. I was stating facts as I see them. There is nothing I posted above that is untrue, or sarcastic.
As for how things ought to be... it is not for me to say. I am one of the few women i know that think abortion is a horrible thing. but, if i were in charge of the world I would do this...
1) first trimester abortion would be the ONLY ones that are legal. Unless the mother's health is in jepordy.
2) a women would need a damn good reason to have one, and 'i changed my mind' or 'i dont have enough money' would not be good enough. (rape, incest, and mother's life being endangered are imho acceptable)
3) A women would not be allowed to have more than one abortion every 8-10years, unless her life depended on it. I understand that the condom breaks, or ppl forget to take the pill or whatever. I got pregnant on the pill, i know shite happens. But this abortion as birth control crap has to stop.
4) no one under the age of 18 would be allowed t have an abortion without parental consent. And if... as the naysayers claim... there is abuse or incest in the family.. well, there are already laws in place that make those things illegal and every/any court in the country would take that kid out of the home in a heartbeat if that were the case. So, that excuse doesnt fly. An adult family member.. not the whole family, but an adult family member must be notified.
5) abstinence would be the first form of birth control taught in school. Other forms would be touched up, but the focus would be on keeping minors chaste.
6) partial birth abortions would immediately made illegal and anyone having one or preforming one would be immediatley arrested and charged with murder. If the baby is old/developed enough to survive outside the mothers womb, that would make it murder. If it is not a viable baby, see above rules.
7) I would immediately put the control of such issues back in the hands of the states where it Constitutionally belongs before a bunch of activist judges decided that they were above the law and could re-write it.
That is what I would do if i were in charge. But i am not in charge. But that is the way i see things. I think that it is wrong for a woman to think that it is her body and she can do whatever she chooses with it. I think that having sex is a serious responsibility and comes with consequences. And just as women will tell men... if they decide to keep a baby he doesnt want ... that he should have thought about it before he pulled his wang out, I think the same should apply for women. If they dont want to have kids, they need to either keep their knickers on or be 100,000% sure they are protected, or be prepared to have a child.
I am a hard ass and a horrible witch. I think abortion is wrong, except for extreme cases. And i am older and have seen a change from abortions being a horrible, shameful thing that were hard made, tough decisions... to a run of the mill, fully acceptable alternative to being responsible.
It saddens me. And all of the scenerios in my first post angers me.