so, I've got to go visit the extended family in the great frozen north this up-coming July... it's probably going to be the last time I see my grandmother alive, so I kinda have to do it. my entire immediate family's going up so that my grandmother can see her new granddaughter as well.
I've got 3 options for getting up there and I can't decide which is the best of the worst...
#1: go with my parents.
+I won't have to do any driving or pay for gas
-I'll be stuck in a car with my parents for 8 hours
-my dad listens to terribad music but my mom yells at me when I put headphones on in the car (because it's antisocial)
-my dad's one of those "no stopping until we reach the destination" drivers
#2: go with my sister/brother-in-law/niece
+good music
+more relaxed atmosphere
-potentially screaming baby in the back seat
-I'd feel like a free-loader for not being able to help drive (my BIL drives stick)
-tied to my sister's schedule which probably means leaving any family gathering by 7 pm
#3: drive by myself
+my music, my schedule, my pace
+could probably get a free-ish premium rental car from a friend and just pay for mileage
-8 hours of driving by myself (longest I've ever done solo is 3 hours and I'd feel bad bringing a friend since they'd be hella bored the whole time since it'll be all family stuff)
I've got 3 options for getting up there and I can't decide which is the best of the worst...
#1: go with my parents.
+I won't have to do any driving or pay for gas
-I'll be stuck in a car with my parents for 8 hours
-my dad listens to terribad music but my mom yells at me when I put headphones on in the car (because it's antisocial)
-my dad's one of those "no stopping until we reach the destination" drivers
#2: go with my sister/brother-in-law/niece
+good music
+more relaxed atmosphere
-potentially screaming baby in the back seat
-I'd feel like a free-loader for not being able to help drive (my BIL drives stick)
-tied to my sister's schedule which probably means leaving any family gathering by 7 pm
#3: drive by myself
+my music, my schedule, my pace
+could probably get a free-ish premium rental car from a friend and just pay for mileage
-8 hours of driving by myself (longest I've ever done solo is 3 hours and I'd feel bad bringing a friend since they'd be hella bored the whole time since it'll be all family stuff)