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50+ year-old woman kills attacker in self-defense

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He's trying to kill them? I'm fine with it. assuming there are no other options available to them. Also assuming police officers don't wear stab vests in America and aren't trained to deal with a guy with a knife without killing them.
I thought so.

This is an even more reprehensible position than people are giving you credit for. You're not morally opposed at all to someone being killed in self-defense. You just believe the state should have a monopoly on that force or that only those agents authorized by the state should ever be permitted to employ it. This represents the same kind of paternal elitist attitude that was essential to every police state (and especially more brutal collectivist ones).

There is no such thing as a stab vest, at least none that are all that effective. Slash vests, yes, but they offer limited protection from pointed weapons.
 
I've noticed, they are always talking in absolutes.

In life, there are high stakes and there are low stakes. If the stakes are low, you can afford to mess around and find the best solution for everyone involved. When the stakes are high, and there is much to be lost, you shouldn't expect such perfect solutions. In some situations a person may reasonably assume that their life is at stake. It's always possible that they are wrong, but choosing a response that would fall short of defending their life is foolish.

It's not that there are only two things that could have happened in this situation. It's that only one of them is relevant when choosing a proper action. Hope for the best, plan for the worst. Act with maximum force when you are in danger of losing that which is your dearest possession. It is the most logical response, and because morality is ultimately based on logic, it is the most moral response.
 
I disagree, in the rarest of cases it is clear the intent of the assailant.

No, it is not known that someone is going to kill the other person until they do it. They could always have a change of heart at the last second, or even trip and fall right before they do it which would give the victim a chance to get away. There is no possible way to know until they actually go through with the act.

No idea, I wasn't there, please explain how you know for a fact that killing the guy was the only option available to her.

I wasn't there either, but apparently the cops that looked over the evidence of what happened agree that she acted reasonably, given her options.
 
I'm glad he didn't die right away. I'm happy that he ran outside and had a bit to think about what just happened and where he's going.
 
You are so deathly wrong it's sad. Your views on the value of life, like I have said many times, are fucking scary. Life is NOT THAT VALUABLE. It's incredibly cheap and easy to replace. The woman has to LIVE with the rape, she has to LIVE with those memories, she has to LIVE in a personal hell from the experience. Fuck you neckbeard, you are a fucking piece of shit. I have called you out on your bullshit of "valuing human life" you don't, you don't value shit except your sheltered closed off world you created for yourself in your own head. You dumbass delusional idiot.

I don't care if I'm banned as this is like the 30th time I'm going to get an infraction for calling him a piece of shit. You moderators know exactly how fucking stupid he is and how much bullshit he comes in here and pulls, you let it slide. If it's ok for him to come in here and repeat the same non-sense over and over and over again just to troll, then it must be completely ok for me to call him a fucking piece of shit and suggest he kills himself to do the rest of us a favor and free up some bandwidth.

I agree with everything said here. 🙂
 
Here is what you can't seem to understand:
It is all well and good to list all of the options she had at her disposal while you're sitting there at the keyboard.
Now, being in the heat of the moment confronted with this actual situation at her most vulnerable (in the shower) having already been attacked and being able to fend him off long enough to extend her life... she has a couple seconds to make a life/death decision and you are expecting her to...
1. Stand there and compile a list of new options to fend him off
2. Weigh the pros and cons of those remaining options
3. After already having been attacked in the dark, aim the gun at him and tell him to fuck off.
4. Have the marksmanship while trembling with fear (not to mention it being 6:30 am and hurting her back in the first attack defending herself) to shoot him in the foot and or arm.
5. Come up with another method since the shower curtain rod did not work.

She was shooting to disable his ability to attack her. If he was killed, then that is a result of his decision to attack her.
That is the whole point of this. Until you are in that situation where for all you know you are a second from death, you can't say what you would do. You don't know that. But to condemn her for her reaction to that real-life split second life/death scenario, you are a real piece of work.


Point/Couterpoint, He bought the ticket, he knew what he was getting into. I say let him die. /Airplane
 
You are so deathly wrong it's sad. Your views on the value of life, like I have said many times, are fucking scary. Life is NOT THAT VALUABLE. It's incredibly cheap and easy to replace. The woman has to LIVE with the rape, she has to LIVE with those memories, she has to LIVE in a personal hell from the experience. Fuck you neckbeard, you are a fucking piece of shit. I have called you out on your bullshit of "valuing human life" you don't, you don't value shit except your sheltered closed off world you created for yourself in your own head. You dumbass delusional idiot.

I don't care if I'm banned as this is like the 30th time I'm going to get an infraction for calling him a piece of shit. You moderators know exactly how fucking stupid he is and how much bullshit he comes in here and pulls, you let it slide. If it's ok for him to come in here and repeat the same non-sense over and over and over again just to troll, then it must be completely ok for me to call him a fucking piece of shit and suggest he kills himself to do the rest of us a favor and free up some bandwidth.

:awe:
 
neckbeards entire premise is on the fact that "you don't know they're going to hurt you" except he uses the exact opposite logic in stating why we shouldn't have guns as civilians. the dude is a fucked up in the head retard with no footing in reality.

He's not fucked up in the head...he's just European. Can't really blame him for being born that way.
 
You are so deathly wrong it's sad. Your views on the value of life, like I have said many times, are fucking scary. Life is NOT THAT VALUABLE. It's incredibly cheap and easy to replace. The woman has to LIVE with the rape, she has to LIVE with those memories, she has to LIVE in a personal hell from the experience. Fuck you neckbeard, you are a fucking piece of shit. I have called you out on your bullshit of "valuing human life" you don't, you don't value shit except your sheltered closed off world you created for yourself in your own head. You dumbass delusional idiot.

I don't care if I'm banned as this is like the 30th time I'm going to get an infraction for calling him a piece of shit. You moderators know exactly how fucking stupid he is and how much bullshit he comes in here and pulls, you let it slide. If it's ok for him to come in here and repeat the same non-sense over and over and over again just to troll, then it must be completely ok for me to call him a fucking piece of shit and suggest he kills himself to do the rest of us a favor and free up some bandwidth.

God bless you.
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HAL9000, your "ideal world" would get this poor woman killed.

1. If she does nothing, she's getting raped and likely killed or seriously injured.
2. If she somehow manages to shoot him in the foot, he is likely to try and take her out with his knife and brute force.

He has already shown the willingness to break into her house and attack her with a weapon; he's not going to look at the gun and suddenly turn into a docile house pet. She has seconds, if that, to disable the guy to the point where he can no longer attack her, and the best way to guarantee that is to shoot him as often as possible in the best places that are likely to take him out of the fight. That likely results in death, which is perfectly acceptable in this case, because the alternative would likely have been her death.

Sometimes you bust out with these opinions that are so fucking stupid and ridiculous that I (and everyone else, apparently) wonder if you're even connected to the same reality that we are.
 
Stupidity is stupidity, no matter how it is expressed. The fact that my stupidity is viewed as "obscene" and his isn't baffles me. All stupidity should be viewed as obscene.
 
hahah who knows what the story really is.. we only know one side.. hey maybe he was the tree trimmer who wouldnt have sex with her so she shot him! heheh I dont think he would have raped and killed a old lady but who really knows.
 
HAL9000, your "ideal world" would get this poor woman killed.

1. If she does nothing, she's getting raped and likely killed or seriously injured.
2. If she somehow manages to shoot him in the foot, he is likely to try and take her out with his knife and brute force.

He has already shown the willingness to break into her house and attack her with a weapon; he's not going to look at the gun and suddenly turn into a docile house pet. She has seconds, if that, to disable the guy to the point where he can no longer attack her, and the best way to guarantee that is to shoot him as often as possible in the best places that are likely to take him out of the fight. That likely results in death, which is perfectly acceptable in this case, because the alternative would likely have been her death.

Sometimes you bust out with these opinions that are so fucking stupid and ridiculous that I (and everyone else, apparently) wonder if you're even connected to the same reality that we are.




He's a troll. That's all he is. He's been doing it and feigning his ignorance of everything and anything. He's just playing up the naive bit to piss everyone here off. I really don't understand how or why he hasn't been banned yet. Blatant non stop thread derailing and trolling everywhere he goes.
 
You are so deathly wrong it's sad. Your views on the value of life, like I have said many times, are fucking scary. Life is NOT THAT VALUABLE. It's incredibly cheap and easy to replace. The woman has to LIVE with the rape, she has to LIVE with those memories, she has to LIVE in a personal hell from the experience. Fuck you neckbeard, you are a fucking piece of shit. I have called you out on your bullshit of "valuing human life" you don't, you don't value shit except your sheltered closed off world you created for yourself in your own head. You dumbass delusional idiot.

I don't care if I'm banned as this is like the 30th time I'm going to get an infraction for calling him a piece of shit. You moderators know exactly how fucking stupid he is and how much bullshit he comes in here and pulls, you let it slide. If it's ok for him to come in here and repeat the same non-sense over and over and over again just to troll, then it must be completely ok for me to call him a fucking piece of shit and suggest he kills himself to do the rest of us a favor and free up some bandwidth.

bfdd for mod :thumbsup:
 
You are so deathly wrong it's sad. Your views on the value of life, like I have said many times, are fucking scary. Life is NOT THAT VALUABLE. It's incredibly cheap and easy to replace. The woman has to LIVE with the rape, she has to LIVE with those memories, she has to LIVE in a personal hell from the experience. Fuck you neckbeard, you are a fucking piece of shit. I have called you out on your bullshit of "valuing human life" you don't, you don't value shit except your sheltered closed off world you created for yourself in your own head. You dumbass delusional idiot.

I don't care if I'm banned as this is like the 30th time I'm going to get an infraction for calling him a piece of shit. You moderators know exactly how fucking stupid he is and how much bullshit he comes in here and pulls, you let it slide. If it's ok for him to come in here and repeat the same non-sense over and over and over again just to troll, then it must be completely ok for me to call him a fucking piece of shit and suggest he kills himself to do the rest of us a favor and free up some bandwidth.

bfdd for mod :thumbsup:
 
I'd go with threatened the guy with a gun, shot him in the foot... Something like that.


you know what the probability of that happening is? near 0. even police officers have absolutely terrible accuracy when firing under pressure.

when you shoot in self defense, you shoot to kill. center of mass.

:thumbsup: to the woman for defending herself. one of these days i too will exercise my 2nd amendment rights (moreso for fun than self defense, but knowing i have the option for the latter is nice)
 
:thumbsup: to the woman for defending herself. one of these days i too will exercise my 2nd amendment rights (moreso for fun than self defense, but knowing i have the option for the latter is nice)

That's a sad statement. I hope you never have to defend your life. You're too brash and naive to keep it.
 
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