Im almost 22, and im dating a 30 year old guy! It DEFINATELY has to do with maturity. guys Ive dated in my past don't have any stability or know the right way to treat a woman. Im very much in love....who says love has an age? what matters is how the guy treats the girl,,,he can be 10 days or 10 years older and it still won't make a difference. its all in how the person makes you feel. I still get butterflies in my stomach when my bf kisses me, not because he's a 30 year old man, but because im IN LOVE with who he is.