20 year old woman dates 30 year old man, WTF?

RossMAN

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I know of a few young women who are 20, going out with 30 year old guys. Don't give me that "maturity" B.S.

WTF?

My wife is only 3 years older than me, I think 5 years younger/older is normal.
 

N8Magic

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Maybe they're looking for stability? And they've had enough of all the wannabee playahs their own age?
 

RossMAN

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<< Maybe they're looking for stability? And they've had enough of all the wannabee playahs their own age? >>



I can partially buy that.

If a girl is 16 and the guy is 26, that's clearly statuatory rape since she is under 18 (whether she's consenting or not).

But come on, 10 years difference?
 

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<< I know of a few young women who are 20, going out with 30 year old guys. Don't give me that "maturity" B.S.

WTF?

My wife is only 3 years older than me, I think 5 years younger/older is normal.
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I married at 19, my then husband was 31
 

Ameesh

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<<

<< Maybe they're looking for stability? And they've had enough of all the wannabee playahs their own age? >>



I can partially buy that.

If a girl is 16 and the guy is 26, that's clearly statuatory rape since she is under 18 (whether she's consenting or not).

But come on, 10 years difference?
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i agree but i guess if im 30 and not looking for a relationship, then 20 year olds are prime.
 

Ameesh

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<<

<< I know of a few young women who are 20, going out with 30 year old guys. Don't give me that "maturity" B.S.

WTF?

My wife is only 3 years older than me, I think 5 years younger/older is normal.
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I married at 19, my then husband was 31
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holy crap!
 

ScottyB

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A couple of my cousins married 30+ year olds around 20, no big deal. Get over that old foggie mentallity.
 

SCSIfreek

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$$$$$ <-----Normally 20 year old guys dont have any.

$$$$$<------30 year old guys usually gets a stable income.

 

sale1980

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Im almost 22, and im dating a 30 year old guy! It DEFINATELY has to do with maturity. guys Ive dated in my past don't have any stability or know the right way to treat a woman. Im very much in love....who says love has an age? what matters is how the guy treats the girl,,,he can be 10 days or 10 years older and it still won't make a difference. its all in how the person makes you feel. I still get butterflies in my stomach when my bf kisses me, not because he's a 30 year old man, but because im IN LOVE with who he is.
 

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i had a friend in high school (around 16) who was dating a 30+ year old man. it was weird to say the least. she hid it from us for a long time. she's a pretty normal girl too, good grades in school, etc. their relationship didn't last tho. but it did for months.
 

N8Magic

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<< I can partially buy that.

If a girl is 16 and the guy is 26, that's clearly statuatory rape since she is under 18 (whether she's consenting or not).
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Of course it is? Did I miss something here? :confused:



<< But come on, 10 years difference? >>



Age becomes less of a factor as you get older. A 30 year old marrying a 40 year old is not a big deal. A 26 year old even SEEING a 16 year old is just wrong on so many levels.
 

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<< I married at 19, my then husband was 31 >>



keyword: then
Proof that its a bad idea most of the time.

My cousin married a 31 year old when she was 19 and they divorced after 2 years. Basically he wanted kids and a housewife and she wanted to finish her masters and get a teaching certificate. Obviously they were in different stages of life when they decided to get hitched.

 

Jfrag Teh Foul

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<< stop raiding the herd old man. >>



First we were the students... NOW we are the masters!!! MUAHAHHAHAHHA!!

Oh yeah, and chicks dig scars... by 30 you have most of the scars that you are ever gonna have.;)
 

Pepsei

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because at 30, we are loaded with cash from our high paying tech jobs....
there's no way 20 year olds who just came out of college can compete with us.

it's easier to pick up chicks in your new toyota supra compare to <insert old beat up car of your choice>.


that said... there was a 30 years old man who pretend to be a high school student and steven spielberg's nephew... he enrolled in a private local school in Richmond, even got a 16 years old girlfriend. he got busted when the school tried to call spielberg trying to collect late tuition. pathetic when they go after younger teens....
 

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It was explained to me by a 30-something that when he was 18 he was sexually attracted to 18 year olds. Now that he's 30+, his taste haven't changed.

What you have are well-employed men, building a life, with a good deal of disposable income competing against struggling college students who have a hard time getting money together for a movie.

Do I want to go to the $1.50 theater and see a movie I can get on DVD, or do I want to go to the beach for a week?

Sarah <== doesn't discriminate on age
 

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Don't ask me, 35 & 21 is even worse.

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Between the ages of 18-30 It's *almost* always about money when a she decides to marry someone 10+ years older then her. Love, blah blah blah, 19 year old's are in a completely different place then a 30+ year old man.

 

RossMAN

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<< Don't ask me, 35 & 21 is even worse.

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Holy $#@! that's 14 year age difference, both of them should have their heads checked.