Originally posted by: Mojoed
Originally posted by: Tomato
But still, there are times a girl wants to be pampered, and especially after being asked to dress in my best and be ready for a big night... I have to admit I felt a little disappointed.
My question is... should I explain how I feel and ask if he can please put a little more effort into planning these romantic surprises
Of course you should explain how you feel! You said you're very much in love, why on earth would you withhold information which involves your happiness? The issue may just go away, but it will resurface again.
He's the man you love. Open up the communication with him. It's not just the honesty that's needed, if you're worried about his reaction, work on the presentation in your head before you bring it up. Sorta like you did in this post. I don't even know you and I don't think you're an ungrateful b!tch.
Everyone is different. Everyone has different likes and dislikes. There are plenty of guy out there who have little clue what their women like/dislike. Nothing that can't be cured with healthy communication.
Ask yourself this. If you really love him like you say you do, is he worth the level of communication required to make yourself feel better? It's a win-win issue for both of you.