With all due respect eskimo, you seem to be so far removed from the realities of warfare (everywhere, not just here) that this looks like trying to explain a rainbow to the blind.
as an Israeli and generally as a person living in the Mid-East with muslims around me, reading your post about the Intifada showed that you do not understand this place and how conflicts, in general, go.
The US is historically in a VERY unique position of being able to wage wars anywhere, at anytime, with no consequence from anybody, while keeping its population FAR away from anything related to it.
The rest of the world simply cannot live in a "clean room" like that, shit happens and some shit needs to happen if one is to protect his fellow citizens. Many people get it, some only see the reality outside their comfy big city window while pondering philosophy.
The recent descent into utter chaos around us (Iraq, Syria, Lebanon and Sinai) has shown that sometimes we gotta do what we gotta do - the world (and the united fail) will do nothing to help anyone here other than post on the internet.
I'm hoping something good will come out of the talks in Cairo, for the palestinians as well because contrary to popular belief, we don't want them to suffer (but you may continue believing otherwise), but I'm not too hopeful that Hamas will suddenly declare its goal is to provide a better future for them, instead of killing all infidels.