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Siddhartha
Lifer
What do you want to do?
eLiTeGoodGuy
Golden Member
:beer:😀
slackerinabox
Lifer
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PowerMac4Ever
Banned
obiwaynekenobi
Golden Member
it's one thing to be a civil adult to your Ex- but don't let her use you for it.
as for a crush on another woman, Is she taken?
if not
ask her out! The worst she can say is "no", but even then your not worse off than what you were in the first place!
And Drug your ex and have sex while she doesn't remeber! 😀
alkemyst
No Lifer
are you just testing your possible next movie scenario? I thought you were extroverted and afraid to go out and meet people....maybe I am not remembering what you posted last time correctly.
#1 deal though is if you are becoming a 'mom', 'dad', 'sibling' role chances are you are not in the right relationship no matter how sick the person is. Caring is one thing, babying is another.
However, if you are feeling for another girl you don't necessarily have to pick one over another...it's not a marriage. Being honest about it though ahead of time will allow your harem 😉 to decide if it's right for them. I have met probably an equal number of women that actually preferred a guy that dated others at the same time, versus monogamy right off the bat. It really depends on your age though too....at 15-23 or so women seemed more possessive, after that (with women about 22/23 and older) they seem to know the way it 'should' work better.
Too many people get into an 'ok' relationship and hang on to it....you can only fight 'real' thoughts of infidelity so long (usually about 7 years) before you act on them, wondering what it's like to bang the office secretary is not really a 'real' thought of infidelity...having a dinner with someone prepared to go home with them should they offer is 🙂.
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#1 deal though is if you are becoming a 'mom', 'dad', 'sibling' role chances are you are not in the right relationship no matter how sick the person is. Caring is one thing, babying is another.
However, if you are feeling for another girl you don't necessarily have to pick one over another...it's not a marriage. Being honest about it though ahead of time will allow your harem 😉 to decide if it's right for them. I have met probably an equal number of women that actually preferred a guy that dated others at the same time, versus monogamy right off the bat. It really depends on your age though too....at 15-23 or so women seemed more possessive, after that (with women about 22/23 and older) they seem to know the way it 'should' work better.
Too many people get into an 'ok' relationship and hang on to it....you can only fight 'real' thoughts of infidelity so long (usually about 7 years) before you act on them, wondering what it's like to bang the office secretary is not really a 'real' thought of infidelity...having a dinner with someone prepared to go home with them should they offer is 🙂.
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slackerinabox
Lifer
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slackerinabox
Lifer
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alkemyst
No Lifer
ahh I meant introverted above...however it's cool you are lucky to probably meet more than many extroverts do 🙂. It's really more about how you meet than how often you meet though...
Good luck with the situation regardless, I'd say women are in the top 3 of problems most guys have...
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Good luck with the situation regardless, I'd say women are in the top 3 of problems most guys have...
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slackerinabox
Lifer
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alkemyst
No Lifer
I didn't date really until after high school, anything prior was short-lived usually a party make out session or at a club. Later on though I dated a lot, whether I was out of shape, in shape, working or not, etc. I think if you know how to talk to a girl that's half the battle. You can play the player role and get some hot chicks from time to time. You can be a sugar daddy and do they same....however, I have always noticed the low profile, sweet talker getting constant action. He has girlfriends (friends only), regular hookups, F-buddies galore, etc. These guys are usually the ones that most women would never pick out of a line up, yet somehow end up with many times. If you can keep them entertained and are around hot company you should be able to do really well with at least a steady stream of bed buddies. 😉
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slackerinabox
Lifer
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alkemyst
No Lifer
Take advantage of that situation (I am not saying take advantage of the woman though, that's just never necessary unless you are a sexual predator/offender)....if you 'know' what you are doing that is 😉. I have gotten the 'you are such a great guy to listen to me, I hope you find a nice girl one day' a few times and a few we have ended up in bed. It's a matter of seizing the opportunity, once that 'nice guy' line is out, I reply something like 'yeah I am tired of the bad ones...fun for the moment, they want to keep it going, but there's nothing there for you'....when she says 'I didn't think you dated much/at all' or anything along those lines, just tell her you date enough, but don't really care to 'kiss and tell, women think I won't be a good friend and men just think you are lying' 🙂....usually prompts the next event as 1) she's pissed or upset since she needed a shoulder cry on/ear to vent to 2) you just admitted you are discrete 3) she's now curious that you are turning down women that are implied to be ready and willing.
This does backfire though ....
This is a story about another guy who was a total dork/nobody/loser (I am not saying you are any of these, just that how it really doesn't matter what 'most' women look at you as) that used this tactic and how I learned about it's 'value' 😉 :
I was dating (high school nonsense, movie and making out in a car or in another room while constantly listening for her parents to check on us) a girl that had a circle of 5 friends and they all had this one guy 'friend' that never had good luck with anything, but is *just* a friend....I knew this 'friend' was doing one of the girls in this group and it was a secret (I couldn't be sure it was actual intercourse, but at a party I saw them sneaking feels and later disappeared into a bedroom)....anyways long story short, turns out he was having sex regularly with not only that one friend, but all of the girls in the group and they all thought it was their secret.
I did really like this girl (looking back I don't know why), but she would pull the 'I don't do that yet' thing (we were young so it was still a valid response).....we had regular dates and make out time but nothing progressed....
Then she brought this guy up one day before I came to pick her up...told me it was over between them (she found out his sob story and the reason she gave in to him was fake) and that I could expect a 'different date' (or something like that) tonight, but she wanted to talk about it. However my reaction was telling her don't get cold waiting for me to arrive, why did she 'stop' me with the excuse she was still a virgin and had the nerve to tell me she was considering me her 'first' and I then asked her if she knew that this guy was sleeping with her friend too (I didn't know he was actually sleeping with all of them though, I only knew that this guy and one of her friends were at least getting naked together).
She brought this up with her friend in front of the other girls. I can't even imagine the shock of each of them as they realized this idiot nailed them all. She and her friend called me up to tell me about this and wanted me to beat the guy up for them and I could name the price (this is why I didn't date much in high school, but *again* looking back I passed up a potential threesome, I had no clue about girls early on.).
All I know is it worked and I have always had this as a movie idea.
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TitanDiddly
Guest
format: c
HomeBrewerDude
Lifer
just get back to us after something real happens
slackerinabox
Lifer
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