I've already taken the time to type out the explanation in a previous post.
And actions or no actions, I understand what you're saying about acting under duress. However, no real father who is a holy, righteous man would offer his daughter to be raped. I don't believe that for a second. The kind of man who does that is a piece of shit and not righteous at all.
I was pointing out the hypocrisy of angels going to find even one holy family, finding them, watching them do something entirely evil, saying and doing nothing about it, but then god turning around and KILLING Lot's wife for doing something entirely innocuous as turning to look over her shoulder at the city they were leaving behind... her friends... her distant relatives... cousins or whatever... other people's families... CHILDREN for god's sake...
It seems as though Lot's wife is the only one in the story showing any real empathy for the suffering of her fellow human being and for that she is KILLED.
...oh, but please, rape my daughter instead of these angels.