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You win AT, I'm a moron, time to lay back

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skywalker66

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You win AT. As to all of my threads regarding girls, there have been a few messages which struck out strongly to me.

Those such as "It's hopeless", or "just give it up, you'll never get a girl" or "no girl is going to want you" etc. Let's face it, my attitude sucks, I'm an introvert, I make women out to be objects, I'm desperate, I'm a loser, and I should feel lucky if I get any woman at all, at any point in my lifetime, no matter how ugly she is.

Am I being pessimistic right now? no. Am I being honest right now? Yes.

Some people just were not born lucky. Face it, I'm born with a disease called, "being not very good with women". Its one of the more worse things you can be afflicted by. It's much better to be poor, or to be missing an arm, or to be born in a rough neighborhood, etc. you get the idea.


Anyways, its not that I give up, I'm just going to lay off this whole girl crap, or at least try to. Because nothing I am doing is doing me any good.
I hope to not make many posts on this forum ever again, about girls, until I have a specific girl in mind. Then I will take my risks, and get shot down. But these constant "in general, girl threads" are doing me nothing.

And folks, believe me, I want to take all of your advice, but there is just so much that you guys are throwing at me. I can understand the general themes of advice you guys give me, like "find a girl that u have things in common with", "stop looking" etc. But besides general common sense answers I'm absolutely lost as to what to do.

Lets just say, I'm lost and confused, and well at least you guys can be happy that I've finally woken up and realized that I'm not a ladies man, nor will I ever be one.
 
1.) ATOT != Relationship manager.
2.) ATOT Single Male/Available Female ratio: higher than googleplex^googleplex
3.) You won't make friends unless you try.
4.) You won't make girlfriends unless you make friends.
5.) You won't be able to make friends by posting constantly on ATOT when you could be out meeting people (unless you are trying to feign being productive).

It's pretty easy to make friends, all you have to do is go out and try.
 
Good news: one day you will meet a girl that will like you for who you are and you two will have freaky nerd sex..


Bad news: that day is not in the forseable future
 
Originally posted by: minendo
Just go gay. Will probably be a lot easier for you to get a date.
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^I think Minendo is correct.

Too bad you are such a die-hard christian, and against homosexuality and all.
 
Originally posted by: brunswickite
Good news: one day you will meet a girl that will like you for who you are and you too will have freaky nerd sex..


Bad news: that day is not in the forseable future
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:beer:😀
 
Lets just say, I'm lost and confused
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We knew that long ago. You've been pathetically hopeless with women for a long time. Still, most guys start out that way and become far more comfortable in time. Some guys never do. Hopefully you'll be part of the former group. In the meantime, workout, wear nice clothes, feign self-confidence if you don't have it, and feign that you don't care as much. These will all help you get over the stumbling around.
 
BTW, you don't have a woman now and won't have one in the foreseeable future. Why not just attempt to 'pick up chix'. You have absolutely 0 to lose and eventually you'll figure out how it works. It's a win/win. The first few girls get a few laughs thanks to you but in the end you'll be fvckin or dead!
 
Now is the perfect time for you to learn Chao Mai's deadly-five-finger-pleasure-bringer method.
Or simply learn Yoga.
 
Originally posted by: Sifl
You're trying too hard. Even your post says you're trying to too hard not to try anymore. 🙂
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that doesnt make sense. My goal is to not be trying at all.

Originally posted by: brunswickite
Good news: one day you will meet a girl that will like you for who you are and you two will have freaky nerd sex..


Bad news: that day is not in the forseable future
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lol, truer words couldnt have been spoken
 
Originally posted by: Fingolfin269
BTW, you don't have a woman now and won't have one in the foreseeable future. Why not just attempt to 'pick up chix'. You have absolutely 0 to lose and eventually you'll figure out how it works. It's a win/win. The first few girls get a few laughs thanks to you but in the end you'll be fvckin or dead!
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I've been told that this strategy works, for getting short term relationships, but in the long run it wont make me happy. plus I still dont know what my views are about premarital sex. I should probably just try not to do it, since I will most likely end up a virgin til marriage anyways, whether I was trying or not.
 
there is a girl for every guy. she may be fat and ugly, but beggars cant be choosers. get rid of your illusions of love and girlfriends; just focus on the simple things. if you really want a girl, lower your standards, if you dont want one bad enough to do that, then just be patient.
 
Originally posted by: FoBoT
The odds of me getting a woman in my lifetime are slim
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no, you just gotta lower your standards
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I've heard that this is a bad route to go as well. That the relationships wont last very long, and they wont be very healthy, since I wont actually like her.
 
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